i may be too straight in saying bt what i feel that there are many bad things which can be stopped (including honour killing of course)and many good things which can be started but for that we have to jump in to actions rather just discussions. afterall these all requires great collective nationwide campaign.
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Naveen kumar singh, senior sales executive, SITD
| 05 24 2010 13:58:05 +0000
yes dude...nothin z impossible.....1)educate them;that wat they call honour...its false ego......or 2)wait....coz with passage of tym it is sure to get eradicated....
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Aashish Koul, B.E (CSE) Fresher, Jammu University
| 05 24 2010 12:09:01 +0000
yes dude...why not?....nothing is impossible....it can be in two ways......1) educate people dat its wat they say honour..its false ego.... 2)or let it happen..n with passage of time it is sure to get eradicated.... choice is urs....
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Aashish Koul, B.E (CSE) Fresher, Jammu University
| 05 24 2010 12:00:05 +0000
There is a lot of mental change is required. Till the human rights are not properly made aware to public at large, it will be in such way, but in the third millennium such is the case then there actually exists aliens who are blocking all the system of law enforcement and plough down the Indian society down to earth.
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Lakhbir Singh Sokhi, Freelancer, Freelancer
| 05 16 2010 12:59:36 +0000
We cant stop as it has spreded among us like cancer & i dont find any solutions we all have become raciest. Only solutions to stop this stupidity is that all hindu should get unite & bring large reforms in our soc.
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kalpeshchavhan , Relationship Manager, INDIAPROPERTY.COM
| 05 14 2010 10:27:05 +0000
Dear Himanshu, Appreciate your concerns it is unfortunate for such things to happen. Any civilized society must condemn such actions. The reasons for failure are on several fronts. For one we are at best trying to become international citizens without becoming Indian first. Result we thoroughly lack understanding of "why" behind such issues and those with power have neither inclination nor time to understand leave aside scout for solutions. Opposing same Gotra marriages had a valid reasoning and in that sense our ancestors were much better scientifically aware compared to practices we are trying to ape. In this sense what Khap is advocating may have a valid sense yet neither most have the necessary understanding nor has this been passed to youngsters as education or learning nor well reasoned out in law. Resultantly EGO and BRUTE force replaces subject understanding and reason.
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Ravindra Sharma, Managing Consultant, CHEF-India
| 05 13 2010 05:42:44 +0000
We can definitely stop such crimes with concerted efforts and will power of the citizens police and the politicians. This sis not happening cos the politicians support the caste factor which are their vote banks, and do not allow the police to deal with such crimes effectively. Young-turk MP.s who were supposed to speak out the minds of the Youth of India, are toeing the line of the Caste Panchayaths, as they feel emasculated without "them". This has to change. There should be a wider discussion and Opinion formation, and the youth should come out in the open to condemn such practices and such wily politicians
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Yogesh Naik, Lawyer/Attorney, Law Chambers, Karwar
| 05 11 2010 11:33:08 +0000
Everybody has a right to lead a life that he or she feel is correct for him or her. The society or soicla customs can not impose things on this right. We as a democrtic country should not allow such killing in the name of certailn customs or belief. The Government should ensure that such killing should be stopped.
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Shashi Kumar U, Manager accounts & commercial, Mazda Concrete Products Pvt Ltd
| 05 06 2010 05:23:15 +0000
The govt should improve the policing in the villages and the cases whenever reported in the courts should be dealt with swiftly and strongly. I also think that there is a lack of nationalistic feeling and excessive caste/religion feeling among the villages where these incidents are taking place. Education and other initiatives must be undertaken to stem this.
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Shahnawaz Islam, PR & Media Relations Manager, National Institute of Smart Governance
| 05 06 2010 04:42:20 +0000
hi all,even though we are in very advanced in almost all fields today and gone beyond limits in somany cases and causes still,one generation is rigid on traditions which is difficult to eradicate.instead of asking honour killing is correct or incorrect,i think there are some better ways of doing things with few compromises which can prevent these type of barbaric acts.
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jairaj shyam prasad, Production Manager, BOSCH Ltd
| 05 05 2010 13:51:52 +0000
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actually we have no honour to the live of person or individuality of person so we can't stop it. it is bound to happen till we don't giveup the our attitude of compelling the people to follow only your ideas without any freedom to choose or thin or try.
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ASHUTOSH SRIVASTAVA, Senior resident, SGPGI
| 05 24 2010 18:26:11 +0000
Himanshu.....I appreciate you that you brought out such a meaningful & valid discussion. I personally feel that if we work together then we can uproot this system of killing innocents from the society. But again & again by hearing & seeing the barbaric activities of people against other people makes me feel that we can never be free of this kind of activities. Moreover, the Govt. & other people around are acting like dumb helpless raped women; neither the Govt. is taking any severe action nor the other people in the society. In this selfish world nobody is ready to help each other. Only when problem comes into their house or on their head they start reacting. Thus, it is very difficult to change the barbaric society the way it is now.....Take my words only rules like 'eye for an eye' will work for these types of people who cant' see other people loving each other & being happy.
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Sasi Dash, Art Director/Sr Art Director, U TV
| 05 06 2010 07:49:16 +0000
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