Mr Raghavan, If your argument (9 out of 10 she will take a softer approach) was true, then Mrs Indira Gandhi should have applied for asylum either in the US or UK. History says that she was neither confused nor was she afraid of anything or anybody when she finalised her decision with both Gen Manekshaw (liberating east pakistan) and Gen Sunderji (to flush out terrorist from the golden temple). They say that Mrs Gandhi was the only man in her cabinet. I am not trying to glorify Mrs Gandhi, this is just an example - I can quote plenty more. I still stand by what i said before - gender is not an issue in deciding a successful businessman or success of any human being. Of course, not all men or not all women are suitable for running a business. The greatest hippocracy in India is that it is considered to be the land of goddess durga goddess kali etc etc and we call bharat as bharat matha but we consider our 'living women' as nothing more than door mats - what a shame? In India - first, a women is asked not to question her father and after a certain age she is asked not to question her husband. How can a woman brought up in such an environment question a nasty trade union leader?. It all depends on how she is brought, how much freedom she had etc etc. I agree with your point that a women brought up in this manner cannot calm down a group of thugs. If India wants to move to the next stage of its development then gender equality is a MUST. If India wants to be a developed nation then women ought to be given their proper place (not anything special or anybodys compassion). We need to have more women as bosses, in business, as leaders, as supervisors etc etc. I am not trying to please all women but there are scientific reasons behind the argument called 'gender equality'.
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John Jacob, Consultant, confidential
| 10 13 2010 20:06:19 +0000
I agree with Mr.Raghavan that "it actually depends on their experience" but I respectfully disagree that women are emotional and hence not suitable for business. We are in year 2010 and we need to change this mindset that women are not suitable to run a business. It actually depends on that particular person(woman), there are some women who are really good and who knows how to run a business, it is a shame that we underestimate them just because they are women. Maybe we are Indian men where 'women' is supposed to be under our control and hence we conclude that women are not good for business. Take a look at the number of women running businesses outside India and you will change your argument that women are not suitable to run a business. So, whether a spouse can be a perfect business patner will depend on that person alone (has nothing to do with the gender).
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John Jacob, Consultant, confidential
| 10 12 2010 18:11:58 +0000
spouse can be a perfect business parter ,as their will be proper co-ordination between each other,can freely share their ideas & new innovation ,& have a perfect motivational ability ,which is highly essential for being a sucessfull businessman.
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anuragini raj sinha, HR TALENT ACQUISITION, Leading IT Gaint
| 09 21 2010 14:27:26 +0000
Yes provided she is adequately qualified,preferably from a business family,matured enough.
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s.baalu , Consultant, XYZ LTD
| 09 20 2010 14:27:33 +0000
Why not???If your spouse has good education and knowledge about the business then why not....Its always a misconception that spouse cannot that too if it is female then she cannot handle the business but surely saying....they also have some brain which could be used.
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latha sivan, Senior HR, Anmol Technologies
| 09 18 2010 09:35:31 +0000
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Dear John You didnt get me right when i said women are emotinal. It was not to denigrate them or suppress them or any such thing. If you discuss this with a medical professional, he would tell you that women by birth are more emotional than rational. It is that charachteristic in them which makes them nurture an offspring for 9 months and give birth later. Women simply do not have hardness in them, they are soft by nature itself. For eg, lets say a women entreprenuer is confronted with a strike at her factory - what will be her decision ? Bet you9 out of 10 she would want to take a softer approach even though the striking workers demand may be unjust. She might not be able to take a hard decision like say call in workers from outside or announce a lock-up never mind the loss she would suffer in the process. Whether it is 2010 or 2050, this nature of women will not change. Only HE above can do it. And this is what i meant by saying women are emotinal.
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Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group
| 10 13 2010 18:14:27 +0000
Women's are equally talented compared to male counterpart, however relationship and business are two different areas which i feel should not be mixed. Once one is in a business spouse definitely helps in the business, however it is better that decision should be taken by a single individual, else misconception might creep in personal relationship.
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Ashish Patil, Senior Consultant, Technology Consulting
| 10 13 2010 06:47:42 +0000
No, it actually depends on their experience and their yen for business. Usually women are very emotional and aren't ideal for business. In business you will often need to take harsh decisions sometimes which your spouse wouldnt be able to do so. Also they wouldnt be able to take risks and would want to play it safe.
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Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group
| 10 12 2010 17:20:22 +0000
NO... A HUGE NO !! It calls for TREMENDOUS UNDERSTANDING, TOO MUCH MATURITY & LOADS OF EGO CONTROL ( Specially when both are extremely Talented & Intelligent ). It is different when Wife is a Partner, just for NAMESAKES ONLY, maybe She is taken as Lucky. BUT... when it is a serious & a conscious decision, PLEASE GIVE IT A VERY DEEP THOUGHT. Too many Healthy Relationships have soured due to such decisions. Take Care...
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Naushad H.L., Creative Director, MAD COMMUNICATION
| 09 18 2010 05:21:26 +0000
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