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Does avoiding fights make a relationship last forever?

Created by : Priyanka Dixit, HR Executive, Leading IT services  | 03 10 2011 11:33:50 +0000
Industry : Human Resources (HR) Consulting
Keywords : management relationships fights couples arguements
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We are living in a fast world. People fall in love fast and get separated faster. Why can’t relationships last a lifetime? There could be no relationships without arguments and fights. How would you handle an argument or a fight? Can you fight fair without causing any damage to your relationship? Are you willing to lose fight to win your relationship? So many thoughts at a go.. But is it that simple?? Can avoiding fights be a savior of the relationship?

  
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A saying goes like this "You win an argument and lose a friend" another "The best way to win an argument is to avoid it"
By Suryanarayan Murthy, Asst Vice President (Corporate Finance), A Hydro Power Project  03 14 2011 09:48:56 +0000
 
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Fights bring out latent and under the surface issues. Once these are resolved, the relationship can becone stronger
By V. Srinivas, Freelancer, Information Technology  03 11 2011 06:00:24 +0000
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Avoiding fight with an attitude of forgiveness & generosity make a relationship which is really strong.
By Saquib Alam, B.A (sociology), BRA Bihar university  | 10 24 2011 13:22:06 +0000
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true
By mun jas, IT consutling & network architect  | 10 22 2011 22:11:16 +0000
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Excellent Tanima ! Proved yet again that there is no age limit for learning.. Thanks a lot !!
By Suryanarayan Murthy, Asst Vice President (Corporate Finance), A Hydro Power Project  | 10 22 2011 12:38:46 +0000
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 Agree Murthy Sir,   “When it comes to love, you need not fall but rather surrender,surrender to the idea that you must love yourself before you can love another. You must absolutely trust yourself before you can absolutely trust another and most importantly you must accept your flaws before you can accept the flaws of another.“


By Tanima , First Medical Services Pvt. Ltd.  | 10 22 2011 07:46:05 +0000
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This is true particularly between wife and husband. Marriage is a big compromise. When one shouts the other has to keep quiet, he can pick up once the other shuts the mouth. If both are at logger-heads that relation would tend to break. Compromising for the kids, compromising for the other family members, compromising for the society etc. to lead the life cool.
By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 10 20 2011 11:54:10 +0000
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I'll like to give some quotation from Socrates : "My advice to you is get married: if you find a good wife you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher". So any relationship bound to have bumps in their rides! "As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will, he will be sure to repent" ! Same may be true for other hulf! And this is true for eaternal
By Sumitra Bagchi, Technical, BESUS  | 03 13 2011 18:10:52 +0000
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fighting is necessary,if you do not argue then it means you are supporting all behaviours as already everybody knews that no ones is perfect in this world , if anything is both should argue about it and try to solve it peacefully.
By moumita barua, pleader, Legal & General Group  | 03 12 2011 16:59:30 +0000
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Understand , clearly, the interest of the fight (Ego centric or pecuniary). In any case, you need to compromise oneself for the betterment of the relationship. Relationship is made to prolong for generation . By yielding to one's interest does not mean that one is defeated. More obvious understanding between the two, later on, develop good and strong relationship. Initial stages are the one that makes fight more and to have comprises very often. Never mind, it will be fruitful in the future.
By KALIYAMOORTHY , Oil & Gas Area Coordinator, Undisclosed  | 03 12 2011 15:11:59 +0000
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no there is no long life without fight
By gopal jee dubey, Asst. Manager/Manager (hr), matrix processing house  | 03 12 2011 07:32:49 +0000
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always fight for right things it never become the issue of separation
By Nem Singh, Consultant, Consultancy Firm  | 03 11 2011 06:44:16 +0000
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u have rightly said srinivas
By srirang gollerkeri, Senior Recruitment Specialist with AimPlus Staffing Solutions  | 03 11 2011 06:21:20 +0000
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yes it shows ones maturity & balance, thereby enhancing the longevity of the relationship
By vijai chandra salins, Gen Manager, Army officer Retd  | 03 10 2011 14:29:03 +0000
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yes stopping fight help in maintaining relationship. adjustment is some thing which is very crucial in any relation ship. i think if one avoid fighting, it will help in building a strong relationship.
By Danish khan, Business Analyst, cognizant business consultancy  | 03 10 2011 12:15:55 +0000
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avoiding talks may prove to be fatal in future, infact dey must b solve by 2 involved wid a calm mind. basis of every relation is understanding, compatibility and if relationship lacks it dn that relation has no meaning!! if 2 cant solve d argue on their own then they should opt for counselling.
By ABHISHAKE ,  | 05 03 2012 13:37:23 +0000
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I think its not avoiding fights that helps...avoiding talks may be fatal...
By ujjval jain, Retail, Retail  | 10 22 2011 12:53:16 +0000
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Avoiding fights builds frustrations inside and when it explodes it leaves catastrophic results, rather resolve issues then and there.
By Prashanth Shetygere Kempanna, Cost Consultant, PantheonPMS LLP  | 10 22 2011 10:39:30 +0000
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Only after new moon , full moon appears and therefore, whether husband-wife or friends or relations, it is true for everybody.
By R N Bhattacharyya, Freelancer, Freelancer  | 10 20 2011 15:24:12 +0000
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Its better to fight it out to eschew difference rather than brewing enmity within by avoiding fights, which will explode one day beyond proportions!
By S. Muralidharan, Executive Director, Knowledge Foundation & Campus Around the Corner  | 10 20 2011 12:05:31 +0000
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Ignoring a fight may be a timebeing solution, but the anger gets built up and as a result may erupt someday, so its better to have wordy war for sometime on somthing rather than have it over once for all
By prasad kapileshwari, Faculty in HR, Jain college of engg  | 10 20 2011 09:53:21 +0000
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Fighting shows that there is something wrong with us mentally, especially if you're continuosly fighting over everything. It shows a psychotic personality. If we know something is bad, why should we keep doing it?
By neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 03 12 2011 15:41:08 +0000
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it only help in having a uneasy calm in the relation, which in turn leads to lot of tension. It is better to fight or argue and have matters settled
By Shashi Kumar U, Manager accounts & commercial, Mazda Concrete Products Pvt Ltd  | 03 11 2011 04:28:45 +0000
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fight is just show that both of you expecting something form each other and their may be a miss understanding b/w you and your partner it definitely shows that you both need to give some time to each other its depend on mutual understanding and true values of your relationship you know do logo ki ladai main tesra maja leta hai to avoid fight ......
By Rahul srivastava, Area Business Representative, Premium Transmission Ltd  | 03 11 2011 03:37:19 +0000
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Its better to resolve the issue then and there itself than carrying it further just by remaining silent,conflicts are bound to arise when two individuals start living together no matter how good might the tuning between them be. The main thing one needs to have a look during an argument is what is important the person or the problem/issue.
By Rahul Kumar Rai, I.T Consultant, Bennett, Coleman & Co. (The Times Of India Group)  | 03 10 2011 14:51:29 +0000
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Rather than avoiding fights, it is better to resolve them as soon as they arise before they create a problem in the relationship. This makes the relationship stronger.
By Atluri Manmohan, Executive Business Promotions, Globarena Technologies Pvt. Ltd.  | 03 10 2011 13:41:32 +0000
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fights are an integral part of any relationship cos thrs bound to be differences of opinions and ideas. avoiding a fight will only make matters worse
By srirang gollerkeri, Senior Recruitment Specialist with AimPlus Staffing Solutions  | 03 10 2011 12:18:02 +0000
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No stooping fight does not help for long lasting relationship. It lasts long only with affection, love & care for each other.
By SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Project Manager, Phadnis Infrastructur Ltd  | 03 10 2011 12:05:43 +0000
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No, ignoring a problem doesn't solve anything. The only that can make a relationship to last is communication, communication and communication about everything. In short the deeper understand that two adults have of each other, the better foundation there is to keep on living together.
By Ronni Marker, CEO/MD/Director, Avian Group Pte Ltd  | 03 10 2011 11:55:16 +0000
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Just stopping the fight cannot help. There is a possibility that fights avoiding these fights can bring a gap between the couple and hence make a relationship more brittle..
By Priyanka Dixit, HR Executive, Leading IT services  | 03 10 2011 11:33:50 +0000
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