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Created by : neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 07 28 2011 20:35:14 +0000
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If someone is jealous all its means is that person knows that you are better. That is a compliment isn't it? So why to take someones help in the same?
By Priyanka Dixit, HR Executive, Leading IT services  07 29 2011 11:23:07 +0000
 
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Jealous co-workers are like a drop of poison in a glass of nectar. They will slowly poison the entire working environment, if allowed unabated. Better to seek your superior's help to nip it in the budding stage!
By S. Muralidharan, Executive Director, Knowledge Foundation & Campus Around the Corner  07 29 2011 11:39:24 +0000
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@priyanka, it doesnt end at that, nobody has ever been jealous of u or what???
By neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 10 05 2011 08:29:53 +0000
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I question myself sometimes, Why they waste their time in other's business? If that time is properly utilized, don't they think they can became competitors and achievers, rather than wasting time. Just ignore, if people around u doesn't want to change and dedicate to work.........time is ticking away……
By parimala.c.wagh , Tech Architect, freelance  | 10 04 2011 07:53:15 +0000
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Just ignore such persons and concentrate on work and things will work for you.
By rakeshbhatnagar , GM Projects., wig brothers india pvt.ltd.  | 08 17 2011 13:29:58 +0000
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Absolutely, once youu stop bothering about them, they will fizzle out on their own. The moment youu take note of them, you are getting into their trap and this would be the armour they would require to further irritate you.
By Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group  | 08 16 2011 11:24:17 +0000
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Just Ignore.Pat yourself for being a better performer. But if the situation is serious, it is always good to interact with that person.
By keerthi , Management Trainee  | 08 02 2011 03:58:55 +0000
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Just Ignore... otherwise you will loose concentration on your job and whatever you are doing good.
By SOMNATH BANERJEE, Application Developer, IBM  | 08 01 2011 19:25:50 +0000
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Just ignore is the right answer. If you take superior's help,other person will change his/her tactics and it becomes a nuisance to you. Just Ignore !!
By MS_Pi , Top Management, Confidential  | 08 01 2011 05:49:47 +0000
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Just Ignore is the best solution for this problem. I support your views, Priyanka & thanks for referral.
By SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Project Manager, Phadnis Infrastructur Ltd  | 07 30 2011 07:35:34 +0000
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If you find some harmful creature better make a distance where the poison can not attack you
By pandianarjunan , project manager  | 07 30 2011 06:50:05 +0000
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The way out is first to "ignore them" but if the situation is out of control then go to ur sup immediately.
By anuradha , NECC Ltd.  | 07 29 2011 23:08:05 +0000
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Priyanka I agree with you but at the same time this may be by habit also. So i think in such place I would have ignored him/her totally.

Probably that would have made matter worse and died down in due course of time.


By Rathin Deb, Advisor and retail consultant, currently as Branch Manager, Tower Infotech Ltd  | 07 29 2011 13:18:51 +0000
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I myself don't know which one is appropriate; but I feel ignorance is good option. Because the jealous person is not going to gain anything unless he/she gets physical.
By Updating Soon...., Research Engineer(Electronics)  | 07 29 2011 12:23:58 +0000
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I agree to Ms.Priyanka, its a compliment, pat yourself and ignore the person...

If you need to acknowledge, the following may help you:

If dog starts barking... keep biscuits and move on...  "Dheerubhai Ambani"


By Rajesh K Richhariya, G.M., Sales & Marketing  | 07 29 2011 11:55:54 +0000
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Many times we encounter ppl who try their level best to distract us so that their gfs, wives and bfs may succeed. Why don't our seniors detect this and sniff it out? Why should one person be tortured for the passions of other ppl who are not in control of their senses???
By neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 07 28 2011 20:35:14 +0000
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Better to seek your superior's help to nip it in the budding stage!

Well, this strategy is good but sometimes you will be stunned to see that your supervisor approves your jealous co-worker bullying you. Usually, this has got blessings from people outside your office, particularly from political parties.


By Munshi Ramchand, Retired  | 08 01 2011 02:18:49 +0000
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Like Mr. Muralidharan said...1 drop of poison can even harm you..better not to ignore such people and let your superiors knows about it!
By Rohit Thakur, Electrical Engineer-Industrial, Quality Engineering and Software Technologies  | 07 30 2011 03:46:47 +0000
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I am agree with you. Some People always express that they are your best wisher nut

 they always make planing to abase you.


By Balwinder Chhabra, Design Manager , Die Casting Industry  | 07 30 2011 03:46:13 +0000
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A jealous co-worker will always try to get you down rather than hey try to improve himself.
By nikhil , Fresher, Pursing higher studies  | 07 29 2011 19:30:11 +0000
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Jealoosuy doesn't stop at tht, u r afresher or wat? Hw long wil u be  afresher??


By neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 07 29 2011 12:09:05 +0000
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