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Created by : Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 11 10 2009 09:33:56 +0000
Industry : Management & Strategy ConsultingFunctional Area : Success Stories(Entrepreneurship)
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the importance of people face's sanpshot when talking and/or meeting as a factor whoch help to take the right decision. "Not to judge but to understand"

 
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Familiarizing yourself with the other party is very important in a negotiation, though it may not be necessary. A simple acquaintance transforms into a strong relation if both parties meet. Personalization is considered to be an imperative ingredient in every business relationship, be it selling, buying etc... This helps in doing away with false notions the parties are likely to hold about each other, keeps away external influences and helps building a clear, unambiguous impression. This makes the process of negotiation easier for a win-win situation.


By Resmi Maxim, GENERAL MANAGER - OPERATIONS, SI PROPERTY (KERALA) PVT.LTD.,  11 10 2009 10:01:46 +0000
 
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Though it is an added bonus, if you can see the "whites of their eyes" so to speak, yet one doesn't always need to be face to face, with a prospect, in order to establish rapport.

As someone, who has made a living,over more than 40 years, from interviewing people, on radio and television, as well as from telesales, I firmly believe that a good connection can be made, through the voice alone.

The key to everything is to focus upon the other person's voice and, by doing so, visualize the person behind the voice, as though you are indeed, face to face. By really listening, and not simply concentrating upon the next pause, so that you can fire your next pre-prepared question, you open yourself up to empathy and understanding.

It's true communication, without the distractions of physical presence. Hear the smile, rather than see it.

 

 


By Graham Freer, Proprietor, The Audio Brochure Company  11 10 2009 10:18:27 +0000
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When u r negotiating with a person its important to see the face of the person with whom u r negotiating. u hv 2 understand his body language at that time to carry on ur negotiation.
By Sudipta Ghosh, Area Executive  | 03 15 2011 17:35:34 +0000
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Face to face contact will give good impression.
By Saravanan Meenakshisundaram, Client Servicing/Key Account Manager, Leading General Insurance boker  | 03 15 2011 12:37:23 +0000
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yes to gain confidence in the other person it is needed that face to face contact is there
By Aparna.Ranjit , advocate, warrier company  | 03 15 2011 11:12:25 +0000
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it completely depends on one's situation....actually!!
By Rohit Thakur, Electrical Engineer-Industrial, Quality Engineering and Software Technologies  | 02 13 2011 15:43:05 +0000
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It is definetly important. I feel the negotiations that take place face to face will be completely different from the voice only negotiations. The decision/result will definitely have a impact to either party in both ways
By Charles davison, Project Manager, Douglas OHI LLC  | 02 13 2011 15:31:06 +0000
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I understand you rfeelings and fears, but in a spoken message, words are for only 7% voice for 38% and visual message for 55% (body language and face...) so without the view of the person you miss many important information.

Morphopsychology says " Not to judge but to understand"


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 02 11 2011 09:46:29 +0000
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Thanks for your participation for yes or no comments. Get more information following www.yudu.com/library/77145 an read the magazine online for Morphopsychology
By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 02 11 2011 09:42:40 +0000
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yes it is important to see the face of the other person while negotiating you know the inside of the person whose word may not be matching his/her feel.yep you get non verbal cues .
By sandesh saboo, Research Associate/Analyst, saboo associates  | 02 11 2011 09:14:15 +0000
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i agree with resmi
By sandesh saboo, Research Associate/Analyst, saboo associates  | 02 11 2011 09:07:33 +0000
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Negotiation becomes all the more easy face to face, as one would get to see the non-verbal cues (body language) of the other person to change the track as per the situation to win over the deal, whereas, emotions and empathy in negotiations are absolutely impossible when we negotiate on other modes!
By S. Muralidharan, Executive Director, Knowledge Foundation & Campus Around the Corner  | 02 11 2011 05:22:56 +0000
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It is important to see the face while negotiation so that it become little easy to discuss the thing.
By SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Project Manager, Phadnis Infrastructur Ltd  | 02 11 2011 04:56:26 +0000
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yes ,it is important to see ones face while negociating.. I do agree with Tamanna & Resmi.. Its over all face to face coversation...or u can say that while looking each other face builts confidence level & shows ur personality..
By Revathy Venkitesh, Traffic Assistant, Global Aviation & Services Group  | 02 11 2011 02:06:47 +0000
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Actually even a person with no knowledge but a lot of confidence can negotiate sucessfull. Its only a matter of a face to face conversation.
By Tamanna Sharma, Journalism (HONS), Delhi University  | 01 31 2011 18:32:30 +0000
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Natteraja I am in full agreement with your point of view.


By Rathin Deb, Freelance Retail Consultant  | 01 31 2011 10:22:16 +0000
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Morphopsychology can brings you to know rapidely aperson and undestand his/her way of thinking. The win/win negociation is easier and quicker. You can gain the other's confidence and discuss more deeply.
By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 01 30 2011 18:03:12 +0000
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Face to face discussion in negotiation is always the best to understand the weakness and strength of the peoples and this process only gives to reach a better judgment and decision. Other methods will lack and can not reach the correct conclusion.


By NATTERAJA R. ARIKRISHNAN, GM-Projects, Bentec Electricals & Electronics Pvt. Ltd  | 01 30 2011 17:10:43 +0000
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To success it is important to use all the tools yu can. Meeting the person is a great help especially when you have the morphopsychological background. So you do not "feel" but you know really with this inverstigation tool so called orphopsychology.

Does anybody want to know more about this method ?


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 02 08 2010 10:15:53 +0000
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Emails, cell phones, econferencing, teleconferencing, video conferencing is fine, amazing tools to set the ball rolling in the right direction, but for me physical contact means a lot. I need to shake hands with the person I am willing to do business with.

I need to see the person behind all the writing. This rises from the fact that I believe in vibes emanating form the physical self of the person. They teach me a lot in terms of the persons demeanor, body language, focus of the eyes and any other small nuance that would reveal the personality of the person that I am dealing with. Thanks for the referral Resmi :)


By Makrand Bhave, Marketing & MICE, WIZCRAFT International  | 02 08 2010 05:52:40 +0000
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There is a fair amount of homework to be done before the process of negotiations commence. Familiarization with the other party, their style of negotiations (if possible), etc are important. A handshake tells us a lot about the person we are to negotiate with. During negotiations, the body language of the other party reveals the emotions/ stress/ thought process. A VC (Video Conference) is also as good as meeting, but meeting in person is probably the best. A meeting strikes a personal bond/ enables to feel the vibes of the other party which can never happen through a tele con or VC. 


By Ajay Chaudhari, Chief Executive Officer, Adroit Consultants  | 02 08 2010 05:20:25 +0000
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Hey who speaks about judging persons? I do thonk that it is easier to deal with people when meeting them. Meeting people is better to understand (not judging).


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 12 23 2009 10:16:48 +0000
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Some are afraid to let their emotinal reaction change their intellectual way of acting. Isn't life made so ? Why things should be so different in busines relationshisp?

Morphopsychology gives a great help to know people and  understand them. Don't be afraid to meet people that makes life more valuable and rich! I do support this way of thinking about even busines relations


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 12 23 2009 10:14:46 +0000
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As a morphopsychologist, face to face relation helps me to understand people and it helps me getting confident. I'm convinced nothing can replace words but what I learn seeing a person is really a great help.

But of course I talk as an expert and I'd like many of you were experts too. Just ask for it


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 12 16 2009 12:48:58 +0000
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It is important becasue, in negotiation impressions matters and help you understand better what you have to do to win the other side also cralify better the negotiating terms.


By Peter R. Thadeo, Partner, Decorum Attorneys  | 12 16 2009 09:33:12 +0000
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There are two scenarios.

1) First Time engagement

2) Countinued engagement

In a first time engament the nego should be sitting across the table and should be face to face. On a countinued engagement you have become a trusted vendor and your customer need not require your presence.

 


By Manoj , Branch Manager/Regional Manager Path Infotech Ltd  | 12 16 2009 07:40:16 +0000
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while negotiating one need to present his/her stance with complete confidence .our confidence get conveyed through eye contact .since ,terms and conditions of an agreement always subjected to contention(to an certain extent)both if involved passively in a conversation , may reach to an consensus which is  mutually agreed upon but one cannot be certain about the longevity of the relationship which is  a prime factor in business (esp. in SMEs ).moreover, a lot can assesed about person when involved personally 'coz body languages reflects the overall persona of a person.foremost, one is  paying the required attention to details get showed up through eye contact.


By kawaljit kaur, pgdbm student , Mount Carmel Institute of Management  | 11 15 2009 16:38:18 +0000
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When you read important you don't understand that without seeing the face of a person you cannot negociate at all.

I think that important can mean essential but it can mean also very useful, of great help. Of course you can talk and even understand and know people without seeing them but it helps, doen't it ?


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 11 15 2009 14:28:05 +0000
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Voice reading as a tool can be used when there is no option.Given a choice it is always better to have a face to face  negotiation.Body language says more than what a voice can say.


By Mohan , Director, Spatik Consultants P.Ltd  | 11 11 2009 06:38:42 +0000
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Negotiating is not about arguing if the price is right or not, if the agreement is accepted or rejected ? it is all about understanding an individual and modifying the terms and condition of the deal depending on the individuals behavior, comfort. In early days of my career i have done deals over the phone with one of the top IT brand of India, but today i am not able to capitalise on the same as i never had an opportunity to meet the individual who happend to be one of the decision maker of the company. So today i regret.

Face is very much important in case of a business deal, irrespective of the deal going through or not.


By Kiran Jain, Senior manager Key Corporates, HDFC Bank Ltd  | 11 10 2009 18:01:10 +0000
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FACE IS NOT ALWAYS THE INDEX OF MIND ....

YOU GOT TO FATHOM THE EYES ...

MY THEORY ....CAN BE WRONG ...


By Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu  | 11 10 2009 09:39:10 +0000
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When you see the face of the person you can understand his way of thinking and behavioring so you better understand what he says and why he say it. Morphopsychology helps me that's why a put a photo on my profile


By Gilbert PRIEUR, Morphopsychologist Expert, Nemopsy  | 11 10 2009 09:33:56 +0000
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negotiation dont requir any face to face communication because it seems that one communicate more about the product or give more information regarding the product while in telecommunication rather than face to face as in business to save time *&* cost we make calls rather than face to face comm..


By ajish , PG Diploma student, Oriental School of Business  | 03 02 2011 08:14:42 +0000
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Well, it is not Important, basically negotiating medium is Mail Or Telecom, & through which we can not see the Facial Expressions, until & unless we dont have sufficient Info regarding the product, comparatives regarding the products, pits & falls we can not negotiates firmly
By kiran , Sr Executive Stores, Sahara India  | 02 13 2011 08:50:17 +0000
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no


By Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu  | 02 08 2010 05:28:11 +0000
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scr*&^w the knowledge base .. forget the face ..


By Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu  | 02 08 2010 05:07:45 +0000
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a photo will not substitute one to one interaction. however the interaction over the telephone can give a 60 % insight to the personality and his way of thinking. This can be useful esp when time matters and also preparing for the one to one discussion to finalise.
By Winsome Thomas, Agency Manager, MetLife Insurance Co  | 02 07 2010 19:59:29 +0000
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your comment is a real beauty , graham...


By Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu  | 12 17 2009 06:18:08 +0000
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Negotiations or meetings are always executed using words, which can taken across the other negotiater(s) through voice or written/typed words. Visual of the person is just sometimes an added factor.

Judging a person through snaps is not the right and appropriate way to bulid the personality of a person. Looks can sometimes deceive the eyes. For instance, the first stage of an interview is a telephonic interview, after which, if impressed, the person is called for further stages. Hence it is important that we do not judge a person by a snap, rather understand the qualities of a person which can give meaningful perspectives to your meetings or negotiations.

Thank you.


By SHIBA KURIAN, Editor-in-charge, Sathyam Service Trust  | 11 15 2009 14:51:05 +0000
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I don't think it is really important as long as you know the reputation of the representatives or of the firm at the other end.  However, it might just be a different game if the representative can be seen.


By Hari Prasad K, Head - Managed Services & IT Solutions  | 11 15 2009 13:48:54 +0000
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It sure helps a lot if you can see the other person but it is not a must.Communication overpowers look after a time period.So if that matches ,face is history.


By SUMEET DIKSHIT, Real Estate Transactions & Advisory, Real Estate  | 11 11 2009 16:47:54 +0000
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Literally face is the index of mind which gives you glimpse of overall personality ;  but at the time of  negotiating the voice and glint of eyes gives the signal as what currently is in the mind in terms of confidence;speculations;apprehensions....... and what not.

We can say it gives us micro gestures.......

The style of walking , sense of dressing, shoes , tackling  problems also gives us the sense of temperament.

 


By Manish Grover, Account Manager , Impressico Business Solutions Pvt Ltd  | 11 10 2009 11:12:20 +0000
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YOU GOT SMALL , DEADLY EYES , YOU ARE GOOD SIR ...NO DOUBT IN THAT ..

...MY TELEREADING WITHOUT PHYSICAL INTERFACE OR VOICE CONTACT..


By Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu  | 11 10 2009 09:41:34 +0000
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