Naushad Sir i really agree each topic of you. but sorry in this topic we should take into consideration of genetics. the gene pool of each caste being developed in last 1000 years. the qualities inherited by the particular caste, This gene pool is disturbed if inter caste marriage happens. if don't believe i can tell you the name of scientist & their reference where they have mentioned this
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rahul p rinayat, Software Developer, Geometric Solution
| 08 09 2010 13:52:42 +0000
Sorry To All, but castism is necessary to retain genetical purity & Properties. e.g A Tall & strong punjabi married with girl from kerala can you expect the same punjabi qualities in progeny .Does he not inherit some keralian aspects. How will you get pakka desi punjabi then. hybrid is hybrid . it looses it's original qualities. You might laugh at me but read some books of genetic science then make comment . Dont use tongue unnecessarily just it is given to you by nature
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rahul p rinayat, Software Developer, Geometric Solution
| 08 09 2010 13:40:09 +0000
Its unfortunate that in the 21st century too we are hearing things like the Khap dictats or Honour killings. It seems some mideaval times customs like Sati, Devdasis and other some local based rituals refuse to go even after passage of time. Even in our local Mumbai societies we often hear, people from (sorry to say, but grim truth, Rajasthan, Haryana) SAMAJ IS BIGGER FOR US! It is actually a fallacy to say & even blame Muslims that they consider UMMAH bigger than nations.In Hindu societies too society is bigger! Have we not still instilled the filling of Indianness amongs our people? Why we still consider ourselves a Hindu or a Maharashtrian first? Why not an Indian or a human being first? Amitabh Bachchan is completely right when he says he refuses to accept caste based census. There was sufficient reason that is why our founding fathers completely rejected the idea of caste based census in independent India . But it seems modern politicians think themselves that they are more capable than our founding fathers and more knowledgeable than them! These politicians are bent on tinkering with the very basis of our Constitution which form the basis of uniting and accomodating whole India (so what go to hell India , my seat in the constituency should not go to the opposition so I will attend this or that or support a cause which cannot in anyway be said noble ot a national cause).We modern masses should outrightly and forcefully denounce these regressive policies and come out more openly for modern secular values .The outgoing Chief Justice of India Mr Balakrishnan was perfectly in line when he said the other day in press conference that Love knows no caste . In fact in modern days love knows no sex even! There are plenty of incidences where modern day youth come out against old values . But these brave people are not supported by the police, dont have the political support to get these support, their family are anyway not with them. So ultimately its the process which will see that progressively more and more people come out in the open and take on the society. Keep up brave people! Young India is watching you with bated breath !
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Prabhakar Srivastava, Principal Consultant, Future Next Consultants
| 05 14 2010 07:53:53 +0000
absolutely its not a crime, its your own life .how u r enjoy it it will be decide by u only not the society and family.for any good relationship need a good understanding between the couple.
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sanjib chowdhury, MBA/PGDM student, EIILM
| 05 14 2010 02:28:47 +0000
Marrying a person from other caste is not a crime but it is against the Indian tradition and sentiment of Indians. There is a different culture in India when you compare with other countries. Different castes in India follow different culture and tradition. And finally love is trash, it is a physical attraction at that age of teens. In India caste and religion should be abolished. There shall be only Indian. It takes few years for the Indians to forget caste and religion. Govt shall not ask in any application what so ever about the caste and religion to be mentioned in application by the candidate. Only one question that is Nationality.
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k n arun kumar, Operation and maintenance mobile services, Bharat Sanchar Nigam Ltd
| 05 12 2010 10:15:17 +0000
To putforth my geniune arguments, isay crime never dies,but the criminals,the society needs a serious transformation to perceive the womens power in a broder sense, only amanding the act and complying the documents is not the intet of empowermwnt vested with woman,but the intent and spirit of the amendment of the law for empowering the womann has to be on its execution in the society to deliver justice, the present popic needs a intensive introspection to define the crime on its way,liberty has been given armed with law,so any violation made in the name of Caste which is contrary to the very nature of the human life,is certainly a Crime. So i say honour never comes out of Crime.It always comes out of wisdom thinking and acccepting the part as a Human Being.
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rakesh sahu, Legal Advisor, industrial,legal and Tax consultants
| 05 12 2010 07:03:15 +0000
its not at all a crime. He is 1st a human being then his caste. No mans can be sued or killed because he is from the loweer caste or from other community. Let them make the choice who are we to decide on their life, nobody has given the right to be a social guardian
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Joyjit Banerjee, Brand supervisor, JWT
| 05 12 2010 05:13:49 +0000
One supplement : most relevant in my thoughts : In modern and developed counties : a woman marries a man and vise-versa. And .. here in (mostly rural) India : a woman is 'given marriage' to ..... ! Imagine the differences. Here lies the role of "others" in Indian marriage system. Even Panchayet/s have a say in a marriage .. ! Govt. should do something to dismantle this heinous system immediately.
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ASOKE KUSARI, Domestic Private Banking-Executive/Manager, A large leading PSU Bank - India
| 05 06 2010 17:33:12 +0000
Thanks for the referral Mr.Ayan Choudhury. The head will bleed in case of dashing against the wall. Knowingly why one should do that?. The modern sophisticated life makes people to think to marry from outside caste. But practically the consequences are not understood, despite it may not be a crime. Assuming that two are married but inter caste marriage and for the married there is no problem but the problem is for their parents, sisters, and brothers who need to marry from which caste. Hence the inter caste marriage becomes a headache for them. Because of this no one will come forward to give their daughter or son to the family involved in inter caste marriage. Another important thing is that the inter caste married couple will have son or daughter and to whom from which caste they will select the bride or bridegroom. Again it is a problem and leads to sufferings. Other things are well explained by our friends here. When we give so much importance in selecting the dress materials or any material that liked by one, why not in life related matter. Life is short, please make it happy. Love is telescope and life is microscope. Old is gold.
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NATTERAJA R. ARIKRISHNAN, GM-Projects, Bentec Electricals & Electronics Pvt. Ltd
| 05 05 2010 19:10:21 +0000
Y every buddy is looking at only one side that “is marrying a person from outside the caste still a crime in India or not”. As per my view the parents didn’t killer her daughter only for the sake that she has chosen another cast of guy, but she is also pregnant and might be she demanded some thing else from them that’s why they follow this kind of recession.
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Mohammed Abdul Bari, Network Support Engineer@ETISALAT, Dubai
| 05 05 2010 18:47:57 +0000
still i am thinking that marrying with other caste is still a crime. in india still around 70% people is living in village and in village if will marry with other caste it means u r doing a big crime and may be you get a capital punishment.
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maheshtiwary , Retail Store Manager, essar telecom
| 05 05 2010 10:15:06 +0000
Ayan, Its great that this topic has been put up by you. its utter disgrace to our Indian culture & ethos. a girl who has been educated by her parents & set free to follow her career, has taken this dastardly step. this as also the earlier news of khap panchayats dolling out justice in the name of honour is really pathetic. I do not know as to how India is developing. there are so many issues that exists in our society which is now being brought to focus, mars our culture & very existence.
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PRASENJIT MUKHERJEE, AREA SALES MANAGER, NIRMA LTD
| 05 05 2010 08:22:12 +0000
dear parwati............. its not quite right to point on any region or any society...... As per as the topic is concerned CRIME is one by which u get some sort of punishment by the govt..........actually its a TABBOO in indian society.........not a crime.
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Raghvendra Tripathi, Area Executive, ITC Ltd,Bhopal
| 05 05 2010 05:08:20 +0000
I too agree that it's a crime...People who are against inter-caste marriages are taking law in their hands..They are not even afraid of the law...since in India Judgement takes a long time. ....Sometimes it's KHAP PANCHAYAT and often it's family members who are against marriages outside caste. I think, that if two matured person decide to live together and ready to spend their life with each other as life partners...what is the objection !!! Just because they don't belong to the same community...they should loss their life....Have they committed a crime like KASAB ??? I don't think LOVE is a crime....and if it is so ...then people against it should ask the government to ban LOVE marriages... on one side..government is lifting up ban from the rule in registration marriage..once it was necessary for a couple to give one month notice before marriage to the registrar...if nobody arises any question or objectio against then only they would marry each other... But now one month notice is not compulsory....So what's the problem... We have heard that 'MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN' ....SO IF IT'S TRUE... who will decide that marriages between person from same caste is only THE RIGHT PAIR....AND IF TWO PERSON FROM OTHER CASTE HAVE DECIDED TO MARRY...THEY SHOULD BE KILLED.... I think now, government should take action against people who are killing others just because he/she has chosen life partners of other caste...
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shweta singh, Sub Editor/Reporter, freelance journalist
| 05 05 2010 03:05:43 +0000
I see a lot of my learned friends has said this not crime. The killing it self is a crime and humans are humans like any other animal. In case of 1411 Tigers can any body tell me the caste of those who are still alive?
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Rathin Deb, Freelance Retail Consultant
| 05 04 2010 16:43:03 +0000
As we are seeing these days, thanks to televisions, since these were also practised more rigoriously earlier once the television was not there. I would agree in case it is or was allowed for some one to decide on caste before birth sound cinical but remember the birth is an accident in terms of caste or religion or for that matter parents. Since it is not pre determined I think in this country of in excess of 6ooooo villages this acts are happening every where every day & let take a pledge to stop it by all means. Is there anybody to finance this uphill tasks.
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Rathin Deb, Freelance Retail Consultant
| 05 04 2010 16:37:30 +0000
Yes Its still a crime in India as INDIA is SHining But just from outside Inside its still the same wheteher they are educated or not there are people segregating on basis of religion caste & what not only god knows.The recent incident is a proof of it.God Bless India HOpe so soon & save innocent lovers.
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Wajid.Pathan , Enterprenuer (Designer /Developer/Supplier), Self Employed
| 05 04 2010 14:52:05 +0000
It is never a crime . Such killings - destroyes the harmony (tried to be set-up) in our Modern Society seeking a leap forward for upliftment. Our duty does not end in condemning such acts of killings. Town / city dwellers, start paying attention to the (lives) in villages - they are not only deprived from developments but equally remaining in century old "caste-system". Rapid progress / development in rural India has become a priority and this may help to 'dismantle' old-thinking-Panchayets.
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ASOKE KUSARI, Domestic Private Banking-Executive/Manager, A large leading PSU Bank - India
| 05 04 2010 14:51:41 +0000
I don’t know where to poll it, but Im supporting its crime because the girl is not in the normal position she is pregnant and which was not acceptable to any of the parents. May be that is also one of t he reason that’s why the parents killed her. For parents killing her is not only the cast reason, she is also pregnant and apart from that it may be possible that she tried to black mail them.
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Mohammed Abdul Bari, Network Support Engineer@ETISALAT, Dubai
| 05 04 2010 13:44:05 +0000
Marrying from outside a caste is not a crime if both the boy and the girl are having similar socio-economic backgrounds. There is some synergy in the thought process as they come from similar backgrounds and hence the chance of the marraige being a success are more. In case of rural backgrounds there are less chances of this being a success due to the existing catse system and the attached taboos which have been passed on over the years. This coupled with the village politics and tight social structures makes it difficult for the marriage a success and also terms it a crime. I feel that in urban India it is not considered a crime while in Rural India it is still considered a crime.
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Prashant Welling, Partner/Principal/VP, Innotech Enterprises
| 05 04 2010 12:05:13 +0000
a baniya ( money) + brahmin ( logic ) = fatal marriage .. marriage is for connections .....bro ..imagine madhuri gupta and pakistani aashiq what a combination.. at least ..others r not traitors p.s :: argument is based on facts & not emotions ..pl. dont get hurt.
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Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu
| 05 04 2010 12:02:48 +0000
Superstition, illiteracy, caste, creed and all unsocial activities still prevail in rural India in the name of religion and culture. This type of killing and social ban gives so much mental tension on the young generation that forced them to suicide if not killed. The dream of a village life that was envisaged by many great Indians are already gone. The mentality is so polluted that one can never belief if he has not experience himself. The rural India not only needs physical growth but also mental transformation for a better future. Let us start a simple revolution for removing caste system from our society by removing the surnames.
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Santosh Kumar Mohanty, Civil Engineer-Municipal, Sambalpur University
| 05 04 2010 11:39:07 +0000
Without doubt it is a crime. And inflated individual and community EGO plays a huge of role in all this. Even routinely people who can break shackles and follow logic and reason are far and few.
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Ravindra Sharma, Managing Consultant, CHEF-India
| 05 04 2010 11:19:25 +0000
Our culture n customs are getting perished day by day through these kind of actssay........every caste n religion says marriages are made in heaven(when the marriages happen in the same caste or with the approved ones) then why dont our people apply the same principle for inter caste inter religion marriages..anyways we cant help out any way out of this...this will purely stop when each n every person in India gets educated and they apply some common sense in their living.
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Saleel Deshpande, Sr.Architectural Co-ordinator, Dar Al-Handasah(Shair and Partners)
| 05 04 2010 11:16:27 +0000
practicality i have stated from exprience ... gud luk if u can change the perception.. look at khap panchayats .. Even , i will not marry my sister/s into a lower caste ..if i were a brahmin of india .. i second manu on this ..( because i don't believe in gene dilution but maintainance of it's purity )
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Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu
| 05 04 2010 11:14:11 +0000
Unfortunately in India it si considered a crime becoz 1) Lack of education 2) No open mind towards accepting people of different caste , creed, religion
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Nikhil , Senior Manager, Insurance
| 05 04 2010 10:31:36 +0000
because ... a lower caste boy( he may be darn good) cannot marry a high profiled girl( girl refuses).. But a higher caste boy can marry a havenly lower caste ( her parents feel laltained) :: reality in INDIA..
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Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu
| 05 04 2010 10:19:55 +0000
Caste was basically basec on the occupation we do... then iam from software caste...that means i shud marry a girl from HR caste??? people hold on to the principals without knowing why that was created and for what it was created... to be contd....
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Gugan , System Analyst, Quality Software Solutions
| 05 04 2010 10:19:06 +0000
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santosh, castism is perfect genetical science if you have doubts then read the books of Griffiths, William M. Miller, Jeffrey H. you will understand. what you think ancient arya who rule the world were fool & we are only intelligent ? say thanks to them b'cause thats why you are called as Indian intellectuals by foreigners
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rahul p rinayat, Software Developer, Geometric Solution
| 08 09 2010 13:45:51 +0000
under the indian consitutition part III have provided us personal liberity. any person is free live with any one.marrying out sied of the cast is not crime becouse of the every person bs best judge of his wone case.who is cast to deside that whome to live with whom.or who will marry with whom. we the pepole not living in the barbric age or we are living in the age of social contect and we have right co-habitate with oersin of our chise.but now days not only cast but Goverment also making such noncence rule that prevent person go out side of cast and place. one side consitution provide us funda mental right for personal liberity and freedom to free movemnet. and govement by self making regulation like subject matter of state.in this case person indirectly bound to marry only thos person with whom don like or cast. now it is time for the civil code for all inda ..................
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Shailendra kumar, Head of the Department, immigration lawyer
| 05 14 2010 06:31:37 +0000
Its really not a crime. But people from rural parts of India still carrying the old rotten mentality. Untill unless a proper education and upbringing is there this will not change. But in certain cases pregnancy before marriage is becoming the cause for the killing. In this I would like to clear that new generation while making the relation never thinks about the society and culture. We are social and their is difference between us and animals. Extra care be taken while making relations.
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Krishna Bhardwaj, Lyrics Writer, Freelancer
| 05 14 2010 06:25:32 +0000
For anyone with open mind subjective understanding and clarity of thought and purpose this can not be a crime. I guess most who are arguing " It is a crime" are mixing up with the oft expected adverse reactions from society. This can at best make persons involved VICTIMS of a crime perpetrated by others upon them.
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Ravindra Sharma, Managing Consultant, CHEF-India
| 05 13 2010 07:48:43 +0000
who are we to decide where our close people should get married.... sorry i dont agree in that....during apes there were no caste....hence we all are mix caste...no body can prove his castes or any such thing.... please grow up, everly individual has a right to select their partners......its love what is important not the damm caste(i am sry if i hurt anybody....but get real in life.....stop taking importance in the name of caste and such things...) we hav always learnt "all are one" no body is bigger or smaller......
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Mrugesh Yogesh Shah, Partner, SPLWC
| 05 13 2010 05:50:17 +0000
"india is developing day by day and so the minds of the peoples are getting broder enough,so marriage is a connection of heart to heart.why should other things becomes a barrier.live life as it is gained only onces."everyone is equal"
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shweta lohani, Technical recruiter, IMSI INDIA PVT.LTD
| 05 12 2010 12:10:56 +0000
If You think marriage is crime then your debate is right. Because marriage is an institution
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Ravi , Project Manager,
| 05 12 2010 11:16:15 +0000
Mr. Natteraja, I seriously oppose your views, under the modern INDIAN LAWS every individual are free to choose his/her partners and this should be encouraged. Parents or kin for whom intercaste marriages becomes a headache are a pest to the society, imagine how humane a mother is, who murders her own daughter. Actually its not caste, its the ego of the castes calling themselves upper caste and this cannot be encouraged at any cost. Moreover everything old is not gold, this old culture of honor killing should be trampled like satigraha of older days and make no exceptions this is as serious and heinous a crime.
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Satadru Shastri, Partner, Mukherjee & Shastri
| 05 12 2010 05:29:53 +0000
Marrying a person outside the caste is not a crime at all. Its quite common in most of the Hindu communities now a days. It is a good sign. But its my personal opinion that marriage in same gotras should not be encouraged in the interest of coming generations.But but....if both are enclined to do so they should be left to their fate. Let them see the life from there angle and pay the price .... Good or Bad...
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Swaran Singh Dogra, Lawyer/Attorney, Private Lawyer
| 05 11 2010 17:55:44 +0000
In India marrying outside the caste in not a crime as per the government regulation but it has been made a crime by the society. This thinking has evolved from the rural India and now a day maximum people has shifted from the rural to urban due to which now one can see the effect all over. I dont know y the society is against it. When Miyab bibi razi then wats the objection of kazi. Thanks to media that it is bringing the issue in highlight but apart from that the parents should also think as let the children decide as they will b the one who will b leading the life together not they who are obstructing.
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Javed Akhtar, Sr. Executive - Logistics, Keventer Agro Limited
| 05 10 2010 08:40:09 +0000
LADKA - LADKI RAAZI... TO KUCH NAHI KAR SAKTA, KAZI ! This should be the approach... HOW DARE anyone object, to a Marraige between TWO HUMAN BEINGS. When they have decided to spend their Lives together, why should anybody Object ? INDIA would have been far ahead than where it is at the moment. These stupid Caste & Creed Issues are Hampering our Growth & Creative Minds are put to Destructive Use. Its high time WE CHANGE & FOR THE BETTER ! IT WAS NOT A CRIME, IS NOT A CRIME & SHALL NEVER BE A CRIME ! JAI HIND !
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Naushad H.L., Creative Director, MAD COMMUNICATION
| 05 07 2010 07:46:12 +0000
Kind attention Mr. NATTERAJA R. ARIKRISHNAN, being a proud citizen of Secular country India we all should stand up against those who divide and sub divide our nation on the bases of caste or religion. Those who say that marrying outside one's caste is a crime and no one will accept their brothers and sisters once they move out of their caste should be ashamed of their thoughts. Instead of doing anything good to them how can these people come in support of those who are killing innocent people just because of the fact that they have loved each other?
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Priyanka Sabharwal, Editor, Cramster E-learning Solutions Pvt. Ltd.
| 05 06 2010 05:12:28 +0000
THANK YOU AYAN.MARRYING A PERSON FROM OTHER CASTE IS NOT A CRIME.HUNDREDS AND THOUSANDS HAVE STARTED MARRYING FROM OTHER CASTE AND EVEN RELIGION.THERE IS A FAST CHANGE IN THE MENTALITY OF PEOPLE. BUT OF COURSE EVERYONE IS NOT BROAD MINDED.CONSIDERING THE PRESENT MENTALITY OF COUPLE WHO PREFER TO HAVE ONE OR 2 BABIES ONLY,SOONER THERE WILL BE A SCARCITY OF BOY/GIRL FROM THE SAME CASTE AND THE DAY IS NOT FAR OFF WHEN INTER CASTE MARRIAGES BECOME ORDER OF THE DAY.
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s.baalu , Consultant, XYZ LTD
| 05 05 2010 11:51:49 +0000
Can anyone explain me under which law marrying outside one's caste is crime. It is not crime under any Indian law. If it is under any other Tribal Law, outside India, I do not know. However, there appear to be still some who move around in modern dresses & degrees but live with Medieval mind-set, who which that it is a crime. They are called educated-illiterates, who are fit to be put behind bars, for professing & practicing out-dated ideology against the accepted norms of the current day Society.
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M. Prabhakar Rao, Author of "Mayhem Of The Miserables!", http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/52075
| 05 05 2010 10:51:58 +0000
"Marrying with other caste is not crime in India but the people who respect Indian culture so lot they think its a crime but they also knows it is not a crime!
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Manmath Patil, Marketing executive
| 05 05 2010 09:23:39 +0000
it seems you have not heard about all the honor killings in the middle east. its not a crime to marry outside the caste, but the girl should have convinced her parents that her decision is right it seems this has not happened. being journalist she should have known the mindset of her parents, her environment before committing herself and getting pregnant
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kanukurthy sudershanrao, Operations Manager, Andhra Bank
| 05 05 2010 01:58:13 +0000
The issue is even larger. Our political system is silent in Haryana where the dominance of "Khap Panchayat" is more pronounced, truly for the vote bank. Such honour killings are reported in some states, and in many states, viz., Tamil Nadu, etc., such things dont even come to light. The folly behind such happenings are multi-fold. Our political system, for the sake of holding rein on the people, divide the country into caste system, and also leave the majority of our rural masses uneducated even after six decades of the so called attaining Independence. Freedom from the colonial rule, but a handful of politicians, just to satiate their mighty urge to be dominant over others, have taken over the world's very large democracy to ruin the country. How safe are we from these handful lots is the point we have to ruminate over and seek answers to. Raja Ram Mohan Roy could work for years to put the system of "Sati" into a halt. We need leaders with Nationalist sentiment to rule the country. The present day politicians are following "coalition dharma" a new term coined by them to undo any "righteous" method. The word "Dharma" is used in a very wrong context - antonym becomes synonym ("adharma" is equated with "dharma") India has a very large stratification. We should develop the stratification based on literacy level - upper, middle and lower. Those who are on the top pyramid should volutarily support those who are at a lower strata, so that gradually, the last level will be catapulted to middle level. We need to work out a two 10-year plan strategy. All like-minded people should join hands to eradicate this evil for ever. We should not expect or wait for any political will on this subject. "Rural Transformation" is the only method by which this can be eliminated - urban - rural divide should and must be narrowed down, if not broken completely! Dogmas and superstitions should also be checked by stringent regulations and enforcement.
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S. Muralidharan, Executive Director, Knowledge Foundation & Campus Around the Corner
| 05 04 2010 16:41:58 +0000
It is no way we can call it a crime. The very good old saying "MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN" still holds and it is a waste of time to argue weather arranged marriges are better than the other wise . To me it is just a meeting of two minds and the mind which knows how to fear knows how to go safe.
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sudhakar , BUSINESS CONSULTANT
| 05 04 2010 15:13:01 +0000
Decisions like marriage are a personal choice and there cannot be a better judge than the person getting married. They should be cautious enough but other than that out of caste marriages are not a crime at all. There is a huge gap though and the gap is that of narrowmindedness anf broadmindedness. It depends upon the family of the person getting married whether they would be allowed for such a thing. The problem is some people clutch too tightly onto the beliefs of religion and caste system to genuinely make decisions for their kids to be happy. Out caste marriages are not a crime and there have been researches in the west which puts forth the thought that it would rather be better for the next generation to acquire different genes. It is something that nature itself is supportive of.
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Aarthi , CEO and Founder, Tanulipi.com
| 05 04 2010 14:51:23 +0000
Legally, it is not either a civil or criminal case unless, anyone of them involved-in abuse of money/wealth of either party mischiefously / knowingly with intension to amaze it.But, socially, this act is considered as out-lawed act in many sections of society for unknown reasons; best justfied by the sections concerned that are worthless or meaningless to rational.Mainly, ilitracy drives this knid of people. More and more people need to come farward openly & publicly to practice it ( inter-caste marriage). I would like to highlight certain measures introduced by Social reformer in Tamilnadu, EVRamasamy naiker who openly organized inter-cast marriages in bulk numbers in various section of the state & stood supported to them in all means.Gradually, it opened up the minds of people. But , still, it is there. Not totally removed from the mass. Govt. need to encourage inter-cast marriage by introducing various program & rise the level of awareness to public. NGO & SOCIAL ORGANIZATION, can also do their bests to eradicate this kind of practice.In all possible manner, police need to take stringent measures if they find any nuisance/ defaulters when reported. It (inter-case marriage) is a practice that is to be encouraged by the people taking into account of two lives not just by the imaginary social/economical background.
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KALIYAMOORTHY , Oil & Gas Area Coordinator, Undisclosed
| 05 04 2010 13:43:38 +0000
Some years ago a Doctor friend of mine used to tell me meat is meat,whether it is sheep, cow or buffallow, when you look at it scientifically.Similarly when it comes to selection of partner, it is the human being,whether you are a upper class,middle class or lower class, it is going to be only human being which counts ultimately, nothing else. Our society is made up of all sorts of thinking , idealogies and beliefs.But the end result our society should decide, could be happy living to the two like minded souls.
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c.s.manjunthan , BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT MANAGER., ENTREPRENEURSHIP
| 05 04 2010 13:09:07 +0000
the indian minset our changing with decrease in the size of family and peole staying outside. crime is the harm done to anyother person marry someone of outside caste will never lead to any crime its a relationship of love not weapon
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aditi gupta, MBA/PGDM student, pimr,ips
| 05 04 2010 11:53:32 +0000
manus logic is the best & the most creative one ..sharma.. & mind u sharma ::ancient maharishis ::are D best .. the r not a,b,...z or 1,2,3 ...n types..
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Ajay Ziz, Dy. Registrar,, University of Jammu
| 05 04 2010 11:36:39 +0000
It is not a crime it is that sick mentality which we r still following. I am agree with Ramesh sir. There is no law in our constitution who stop us to marry a other cast or religion girl. We ourselves nd ppl like us are the problem. Few ppl sitting somewhere creates some foolish rule and we well educated but uncivilized ppl follow that without thinking that if it is wrong or right. It is not a crime
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sachin , Team Leader -(NonTechnical), Infor Global Solutions
| 05 04 2010 10:34:54 +0000
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