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IT'S MY LIFE !!

Created by : Brigadier (Retd) Sunil Chadha,, Retd  | 11 23 2010 14:41:49 +0000
Industry : Human Resources (HR) ConsultingFunctional Area : Organizational Development(People Management)
Keywords : parents independence
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It is very common to hear the words, "it's my life" nowadays - mostly in the context of the selection of a spouse. while its true that every adult must have a choice about his own life - how does one define "my life"? does it include or exclude the parents ? so what would you say - are you with a life with parents included, or are you with a life which belongs to only you - and God be with the parents !! 

  
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LIFE WITH PARENTS INCLUDED Vs LIFE WITH PARENTS EXCLUDED
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I would surely say independece is ok - but with parents and responsibilities taken care of first.
By Brigadier (Retd) Sunil Chadha,, Retd  11 23 2010 14:41:49 +0000
 
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My answer is "YES" life with parents Included is essential. But one should maintain a distance and each person in a family should have a space of their own, so that they could make space for others in their life. The question is not of money or time, we don't have much time today and world is becoming competitive thus one has to work very hard to maintain everything also they have a responsibility to raise their children. And taking care of ur old parents is not a responsibility but a duty, one must fulfill. When u make it a responsibility ,it becomes burden but when one does it as his duty, he does it with full respect and sincerity. Today even old people are strong enough both financially and socially to take care of themselves they just expect genuine love, respect and concern from their children, which they deserve. Thus just living under one roof is not important, parents might live at some distant from their children's house, but mustn't go away from their heart.that is what is more important. One must LOVE, RESPECT and CARE for their parents.And even parents should let their children free, and have faith in their up-bringing, their children will fly back to their parents only.
By Karisshmaa , 2011 Fellow for Teach for India, TEACH FOR INDIA  | 12 13 2010 17:51:58 +0000
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Let me give a example "one day one small child and his father sited under a tree child ask his father what is that? Father told it is parrot again child ask so many question is it living in home?, is it eating bared? why it is fling? etc,. father give all questions answer very cool mind. but after 25 years child old father ask his son what is time? son give 11:00 after half hour father ask same question and son become angry on his father and scold him. So do not avoid your mother she is first teacher of your life and after that your father is second teacher then after all schools and colleges teacher take place. Take care your parents
By M.B.MALANI , MBA/PGDM student, R.R.INSTITUTE OF MANAGEMENT BANGALORE  | 12 13 2010 12:44:56 +0000
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The only god which i believe on earth are parent because of whom we came into existence. They are omnipotent so whatever we do,wherever we go they are always with us, they are always in our heart....
By Tarun Raj, Junior Software Engineer , Discoverture Solutions  | 12 13 2010 10:55:13 +0000
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Mr. Muralidharan said very rightly. Had the parents abandoned our birth, the question of our existence does not arise. One should not ignore this basic fact. The influence of cinema is driving the youth to exclude the parents in their decisions of this kind. Who else can be well wishers other than his/her own parents.
By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 11 30 2010 11:18:45 +0000
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Mr. Muralidharan said very rightly. Had the parents abandoned our birth, the question of our existence does not arise. One should not ignore this basic fact. The influence of cinema is driving the youth to exclude the parents in their decisions of this kind. Who else can be well wishers other than his/her own parents.
By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 11 30 2010 11:18:43 +0000
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parents are more important because they now us to their world and teach everything for us what is good or bad........
By priya , recuriting and counselling, professional training consultancy  | 11 30 2010 10:02:23 +0000
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life with family and friends included.
By Basil Cheriyamadathil, IT Specialist ( System Testing ), Genting Malaysia Berhad  | 11 24 2010 14:09:43 +0000
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Who will say no... everyone wants to live with their parents.... But situation separates them....
By Jenifer joncy, MBA student, Christ College Institute of Management  | 11 24 2010 11:14:54 +0000
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Parents are important!! Have you ever noticed how much pleasure they feel in your happiness and how positively they act at your failures..I think that's LIFE
By CA Heena Sharma, Chartered Accountant  | 11 24 2010 10:24:48 +0000
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PARENTS ARE ESSENTIAL ITS BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES WHO LET US TO SEE THIS WORLD..MAKE US UNDERSTAND WHAT THE SOCIETY IS..HOW THE SOCIETY BEHAVES..IF ANY CHILD LET THINK THAT THERE IS NO USE OF A PARENT I SHOULD ADMIT THAT HE/SHE IS A DUMB !!
By melit deepthy thomas, MBA/PGDM student, Bharathiar University  | 11 24 2010 09:50:17 +0000
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Parents=family for chidren & child/children= family for parents. My life is my goals, aim, fun, adventure which does not exclude parents. Its a matter of thinking, everyone thiks different..& main problem is expectations. Don't expect just do your karma u'l be happy.
By Swati Kaushal, Process associate, genpact jpr. MBA student, iipm.  | 11 24 2010 08:19:54 +0000
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Parents are an essential part of life and this fact cannot be neglected. The modern trend is Nuclear Family but you can see the generation without morals, ethics and any virtues. Simply because no one is at home to tell the kids what is right and what is wrong.
By Siddhartha Shanker, Freelancer  | 11 24 2010 04:31:31 +0000
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Exactly, Mr. Muralidharan's argument is right. Every second parents take care child to grow and give best life to their children without their concern. So, We must give first preference to parents.
By Suresh Kandulapati, Asst. Professor, Padmasri Dr. B. V. Raju Institute of Technology  | 11 24 2010 04:03:38 +0000
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In fact, there is nothing with out parents. We are what we are because of our parents only.  In creation, MOTHER gives form and FATHER gives intellect. We are the end product. There isn't life with outPARENTS . There is not much to aergue, Brg.Saheb!
By Dr.G.S.Rama Rao, Freelancer  | 11 24 2010 02:00:40 +0000
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Think of the time you born. From then on calculate every second of your growth. Look back the contributions made by your parents to nurture every second, guarding you from all vagaries, nourishing you by perishing themselves, sacrificing every bit of joy for the sake of children will force you to think otherwise. Its not your life, its theirs and because of them you have name and fame. Had they abandoned you on birth, where you would have been is the thought that every individual should think and act accordingly. They are not commodities to be thrown out, after use! Elders require nothing from the children but affection and care!
By S. Muralidharan, Executive Director, Knowledge Foundation & Campus Around the Corner  | 11 23 2010 17:08:22 +0000
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How you exclude Parents from your Life? Impossible..They are the one who made you what you are today.
By Michael Daniel, Resource Consultant, Concorde Management Consultants  | 11 23 2010 16:42:46 +0000
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life with parents only no other option is required
By Yogita Jaywant Patil, Associate consultant, Datamatics (CDIS)  | 11 23 2010 15:22:57 +0000
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Let’s be bold and frank, I think we enjoy our life of freedom without parents but what we should think is that our parents had put their freedom aside to make our good growth and to give us good ethics so we should also shrink our revelries to make our parents happy.


By Neerav Galathia, Sales Engineer, Aerzen Machines (India) Pvt. Ltd.  | 12 13 2010 12:11:12 +0000
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Let’s be bold and frank, I think we enjoy our life of freedom without parents but what we should think is that our parents had put their freedom aside to make our good growth and to give us good ethics so we should also shrink our revelries to make our parents happy.
By Neerav Galathia, Sales Engineer, Aerzen Machines (India) Pvt. Ltd.  | 12 13 2010 11:26:51 +0000
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