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marry before age of 30 or marry after well settled life? which is better

Created by : sameer kamble, IT Manager, indsoft systems  | 11 18 2010 10:47:51 +0000
Keywords : marry before 30 or marry after well settled life?
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Some singles think that being over a certain age and unmarried indicates something is wrong with them or gives them an increasingly poor chance of ever marrying. Others worry about their "biological clock" and marry to have children.
Some single men and women marry to find someone to take care of them--financially, emotionally and/or socially.

When you enter in relationships and marriage for the right reasons, you have a good chance of an enduring, satisfying, and life-long relationship.

  
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Before age of 30 Vs After well settled life
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Regardless of the age you marry, make certain that you wait until :

    * Your life is full of good things to share. Marriage should focus on what you can give to your partner, not on what he/she can give to you.
    * You realize that marriage is not the possession of another person.
    * You realize that marriage is a lifelong process of learning and change that will affect you twenty-four hours a day.

and also your partner is key of your success


By sameer kamble, IT Manager, indsoft systems  11 18 2010 10:59:53 +0000
 
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Dear Mr. Kamble ,

I think you have answered your question yourself.

There are as many reasons to get married as there are married couples. In the end , one should understand and accept that marriage involves two people , and both should enter into marriage for all the right reasons , if the marriage is to last.

The first requirement is that there should be a dialogue between the two partners , and neither should enter into the relationship with his / her own ideas of what they mean to each other , what each is prepared to contribute towards making the marriage a success.
By K. NARAYAN, None, None  11 19 2010 04:39:26 +0000
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with marriage certain responsibilities also get attached.To clear that age is an important criteria
By sheriff r mohideen, General Manager -Technical, Origin Foods Limited  | 09 25 2011 15:26:14 +0000
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HI Melit . thats it  a woman should be married before  here in Africa our  grandfathers  used to marry  women at the tender age of 15-21. The best gift to a  man is   seeing a  woman  maturing before his  own eyes


By dominic kimani, Direct Marketing Executive, Trident estates  | 03 09 2011 12:17:32 +0000
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Sameer i do  support your argument.Trully i do agree that  one should focus on what to give ,how to  enrich and how to edify the  other  partner in a relationship
By dominic kimani, Direct Marketing Executive, Trident estates  | 03 09 2011 07:25:32 +0000
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U support you on that .One should focus on  what to give  in marriage  and how to enrich and edify the  other partner in marriage


By dominic kimani, Direct Marketing Executive, Trident estates  | 03 09 2011 07:23:37 +0000
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When you have 'settled', how will you allow someone else to be a part of your life? When one is independent, the need to be with someone diminishes. Marry before 30 and give yourself and someone else the sweet happiness of togetherness no matter what comes ahead.
By Neha Choudhry, Content Writer, Service Magic Info Jobs (for Atoot.com)  | 01 31 2011 18:47:02 +0000
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no decide as per situation because of we are social person
By bharat , Legal Consultant/Solicitor, bharatkumar lawyer  | 01 31 2011 11:53:16 +0000
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Next Gen. point of view, early marriages are preferred. Age of the retirement and children's well being is also considered from sociological point of view.
By suhaschandra deshpande, Marketing Associate  | 12 10 2010 20:41:30 +0000
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i think its better to get married before 30 especially women..moreover what will the society think if she s not getting married??
By melit deepthy thomas, MBA/PGDM student, Bharathiar University  | 11 23 2010 12:52:26 +0000
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I too agree with Shilpa, One should get marriage at around 25 itself, today world no one is going live more than 50-60 years, 30 means half the life, so marriage age 25 will be good in my view
By Vijay Bhasker, Librarian, Vaishnavi School of Architecture and Planning  | 11 23 2010 11:08:45 +0000
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Marriage before 30 is advisable. Otherwise, by the time you child reaches the critical age of 25 years, you will be too old to take care of his requirements.
By Suryanarayan Murthy, Asst Vice President (Corporate Finance), A Hydro Power Project  | 11 22 2010 07:40:05 +0000
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MARRIGE MUST BE BEFORE AGE OF THIRTY BECAUSE YOU CANNOT HAVE BETTER CHOICE / SELECTION OF MATCH BECAUSE PARENTS TRY TO MARRY GIRLS AFTER 22 AND UP TO 26 .IF MARRIGE IS DELAYED YOU MAY NOT GET SUITABLE MATCH .
By rakeshbhatnagar , GM Projects., wig brothers india pvt.ltd.  | 11 22 2010 07:09:42 +0000
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before 30 is my option, anyone among us can't tell when we are going to settle well.and with present situation of opportunities will take more than 30 to settle well if person efficient.
By Ravanam naga durgesh, Junior engineer, Ericsson  | 11 21 2010 14:56:02 +0000
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The age factor is not the main issue. You must plan since the start of your education. The field selection faced generally between age of 17-20 than next 5 years you need to polish yourself in the professional education. One can start planned & well settled career in the age of 23-25. Than why to wait for 30. Marriage needs settled job not the figure 30. 


By VAIBHAV JAIN, MASTER ENGG. Aug 2011, SGSITS INDORE  | 11 19 2010 14:00:21 +0000
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I agree with anil. No one is settled in life. An average earning is enough to get married. But age matters....   
By shilpa yadav, Associate/Sr. Associate -(NonTechnical), Hindustan Thompson Associates  | 11 19 2010 12:03:51 +0000
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No one is completely settled in their life. All have different problems my opinion is to getting married before 30 is better then we all got a new space for share our sorrows............. Settled in life is a state which varies depends up on persons (Ambitions) so marriage and settled are not related...:-)
By Anil Raj, B.Tech/B.E. student, Govt H.S.S Chavara  | 11 19 2010 09:06:57 +0000
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It is very essential to be financially independent enough to get married preferably before the age 30. As the spouse irrespective of the gender you can decide your choice with mutually agreed parameters,after crossing 30 the choice is restricted and you have to compromise or go for a settled or settlement of would be life partner.
By kasturirangan.r , INSURANCE ADVISOR, Life Insurance Corporation Of India  | 11 19 2010 07:29:19 +0000
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becoz if you go in right path. and becoz of your hardwork you can settled before age 27 or 28.
By Yogita Jaywant Patil, Associate consultant, Datamatics (CDIS)  | 11 18 2010 12:53:08 +0000
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@Mr. Narayan

For the financial point, I support you... Surely, planning is always good. But planning doesn't need to stretch beyond 30's... You can start planning way earlier!

And who is asking to start a family just after marrying? That can wait!

Marriage in anyway wont be a hindrance when you have someone along to share.
By Neha Choudhry, Content Writer, Service Magic Info Jobs (for Atoot.com)  | 02 15 2011 19:29:16 +0000
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Ms. Choudhry ,

I think "settled" means one is financially in a position to support two or more people.

Financial considerations are most important before one goes in for marriage. Passion and commitment is fine , but practicalities have to be taken care of. If a married intends to have a couple within the first year of marriage , it involves giving a lot of time and money to the baby. Certain careers may not allow for the time , other may not allow for the money.

Planning is never a waste of time.

 
By K. NARAYAN, None, None  | 02 01 2011 03:58:00 +0000
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It depends on situations & about ur loved one. It will be nice if a person is settled & then marry,so he/she dont have to ask financial help from other/relatives.. But in case one is luving a girl & both have family problems then its better to do marriage & settle. Hence their life will be little complication at first then it will go straight.There is an story: "There was a person named Ram & he was 24 years old & he loved sita who was 18yrs. But their parents were extreamly against,so they decided to ran away . Dys passed they married & had kid.. The kid grew. when he was 5 yrs,his parents decieded to take admission in a good school but they didnt hav money, because Ram doesnt like small works he wanted white collar job.So he went to his friends & asked their help. No one helped him .One of his best friend told him Ram it was ur mistake, U should have been more responsible, after marriage a guys responibility increases.& didnt even helped him..." So from this we have to understand that" NO ONE WILL BE THERE FOR US TILL OUR LAST,WE HAVE TO FIGHT FOR OUR SURVIVAL.".
By Revathy Venkitesh, Traffic Assistant, Global Aviation & Services Group  | 01 31 2011 15:45:37 +0000
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mujse shaadi karoge???...but only after a well settled life...in a world filled with love, sex and dhoka, if you marry for the sake of marrying you will end up at the middle of the road with your hand on your head...All you need is money to arouse the special one to be with you...and if you are betrayed you can still find another one to continue the 1942 love story...so settle before you meddle...
By Saibal Ray, Sr. Process Engineer, KPIT Cummins Infosystems  | 11 21 2010 09:09:23 +0000
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One Should marry after getting settled and maturity. Otherwise our kids will face problems in future due to lack of funds for their education and expense. They also need to be guided by us Spiritually. SO we have to be enough matured.
By Suresh Jonna, Team Lead(Recruitment)/System Admin  | 11 21 2010 03:56:12 +0000
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I support your views , Mr. K. Narayan.

Marriage should be done for the right reason & it should not be done for

fulfillment the wish of our parents & grand parents.

 
By SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Project Manager, Phadnis Infrastructur Ltd  | 11 19 2010 05:50:05 +0000
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Marrying after settled professional life makes takes you towards complete and happy joyful LIFE  :)
By Sapna Panchal, Network Admin/System Admin, Dell Services  | 11 18 2010 17:04:44 +0000
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Marry should be done after well settled, because after marry one more life will add from your life, without good job, both have to suffer. we have right to destroy our life but not other life. if not capable so no need to get married, i know marriage is part of life but not life, it is not the matter of fun. Firstly we should grow up our carrier and should be well settled then should be think about the marriage.
By Sharad Gupta, Software Developer, Tripura Technologies, Hyderabad  | 11 18 2010 11:21:30 +0000
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