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Created by : neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 03 23 2011 14:18:43 +0000
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Your freinds and family have a say Vs You have to make an independent decision
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It depends on person and the kind of family they belong to andyways in the end the call is ofcourse of the person getting married.
By Tina , Journalist, Tv 9  03 24 2011 10:00:31 +0000
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go with friends and family and finally u r the 1 is to decide
By adarsh t r, journalism student  | 03 27 2011 18:14:53 +0000
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Taking opinion of family and friends is a good thing, decision should be left to family and elders
By Aamer PMP, Principal Training Consultant, Cognizance  | 03 24 2011 12:31:27 +0000
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Many times we see that freinds and family keep intervening in serious personal decisions. Most of them don't want any good result, but continue interfering. Some also assume the role of managing your entire life's influences etc. Why does this take place? And how can they taught to mind their own business?
By neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 03 23 2011 14:18:43 +0000
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Yes Tina Finally one has to take an independent & well informed decision pertaining to Matrimonial Decisions and should not forget beyond Love there is a Life. Nothing wrong in getting family & friends opinion. But ultimately decision should be his/her.


By nagesh rao, Freelancer, Freelancer  | 04 20 2011 07:13:25 +0000
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This is one of life's most important question, decision, with whom to spend life. So, do listen to suggestions from family and friends, but ultimately take an independent decision.
By Abhijit Anand Prabhudan, Admin/Facilities Manager, Ca*****  | 04 19 2011 13:21:22 +0000
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i think we have to make decision independently..
By Amit Arun Mangave, DESIGN & DEVELOPMENT,PRODUCTION, VOLTAS LTD.  | 04 01 2011 16:11:41 +0000
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i agree with u totally but friends and family should not be the final we have to decide who @ final  because u he or she is the one going to lead the life 


By adarsh t r, journalism student  | 03 27 2011 18:17:20 +0000
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YOu're absolutely correct....I accept that Tina.


By Ramkumar , Senior Account Receivable Analyst, Intuitive Solutions Pvt Ltd  | 03 26 2011 06:24:30 +0000
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It is always best to take a decision with your family by your side. However, more than who takes decision; on what grounds do you say yes and no matters. In simple words, if your value system does not match it becomes really difficult to adjust. People find it really difficult to change their value system. In short, your idea of what is right and wrong about life in general is what is called value system. Family can be wrong and the individuals involved can also be wrong. So more important is why do you want to stay together with the other person for the rest of your life. A really interesting topic to discuss though :-)
By Harsh Bhushan, Freelancer, Human Resources (HR) Consulting  | 03 24 2011 15:14:35 +0000
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of course you have to take your own decision but in conjunction with your parents. Your decision should not affect their soul.after all they age your well wisher.
By Manikandan TK, Chief Adiser, Global SOTA  | 03 24 2011 14:06:55 +0000
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Taken into confidence to your family members but it's a independent decision. Family members view's are also important(Mainely Mother & Father only)
By Omkar Kulkarni, Accounts Officer, Minilec(India) Pvt Ltd  | 03 24 2011 12:44:42 +0000
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Its the independent decision what works when it comes to marriage as it is the individuals who make it happen & third party intereference could only be a stop gap arrangement. Nagesh, CEO, Ideaon THINK
By Nagesh Srinivasgopal, CEO/MD/Director, Ideaon THINK  | 03 24 2011 12:06:51 +0000
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i support to the independent decision making ,as the final decission should be from the individuals , provided the decisiion from the individaul should repect the parents thoughts about their children, this is my view in this regard..
By Muhammed Arif, Production Engineer, Bahrain Prism Glass Factory  | 03 24 2011 11:05:46 +0000
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Matrimonial decision is always taken by the person who is looking out for marriage. In this busy life, nobody find time for searching a solemate for us, so its we who have to take inniciative to move ahead and use technology for the same.
By Chandra shekhar, Technical Writer/Quality Assurance, CMMI 3 Software Company, Hyderabad  | 03 24 2011 10:43:42 +0000
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