One child norm

Mr.Sarveswarrao ji , one child norm to control the population..........but single child growing up in nuclear family, where parents will have only few quality time to spend with them............they need a friend to play,fight and express their feeling, which they cannot express with their parents or outside family.if they won't have a brother or sister in most of the cases u can see ,the only child will have the problem in their behaviour........... one child is ok, but their behaviour also matter's is in it.

Hi Team,

I strongly oppose the ONC. We are thinking to implement the norm on following points.

Economic Conditions:As we have observed that many voices in debate are talking about the economic conditions in India are bit tough which is forcing people to made decision about the OCN.

In my view this should not be the case. I would not be commenting on better parenting issues, however in the world where we can see that families being apart and trend of a joint family is becoming sidelined.

Main concern all over India is competition, Increasing Cost of living, lack of family support. I personally experienced the benefits to be raised in a joint family which are beyond explanation. It gives direction to your life, how is your upbringing.

In my view ONC is just an excuse to have nucleus families.

Social Bonding:- Families having more than one child have seen good understanding,love and are affectionate towards others.

No matter if both childrens fight on pity issues when together; however if there is a third person outside the family then both childrens are united. 

Having more than one child in family helped to have a family bonding, teaches us about caring your loved ones. Equally participating in all festivals and carries the tradition of family.

Male/Female ratio This is one of the important factor to be noted as it is one of scary fact that female ratio being declined in India.

Lot of social aspects are involved with this which would make the situation worse than ever if OCN is applied.

We honor the issues related to increasing population in country. Having said that other aspects of creating a healthy and balanced social system can be achieved with mutual understanding and raising families with more than one child.  

In all ONC will surely create more imbalance in social structure which empower anti social elements within socity.

We can say that ONC seems to be urge for an hour which is very strategic to be implemented in India and requires careful collocation.

Please let me know your views team.

The effort to produce and reproduce is under the control of the couple's sexual activity, but to decide on the outcome of it should not be in their control. God decides whether you have a one-man army or an army by itself.

One child norm do not necessarily solve the save-a-girl-child problem. You can have one child policy and lose the opportunity of giving birth to a girl child, the potential second child. (Result: You lost the girl child)

One child norm may seem advantageous in terms of population control but in the process, remember that we are getting in the way of how nature functions leading to serious repurcussions emotionally.

Ya swetha after some time the debate would be no child, it should be ignore. Two child option is best. The main issue states is Bihar & Begal, Please collect the data of child per family in these states.

Thanks,Shweta.There is substance in your argument.

Please delete / ignore this comment.

Without prejudice to anybody.  Now we know why India is slated to become the No.1 country in terms of population. And also the reason for Tsunamis and Earthquakes.

Hey,

On what pretext, you desire to introduce this norm

• Is the Govt. come forward to as a statutory requirement? In China, Hotel booking is free one child & parents. If you have one more, you need to pay extra.
• To curb the population growth as competing with China.
• Resource are very scanty that individual unable to manage the family affair.
• Feel that India's Human Resources are useless & not eking out anything for the country.

Thanks for referral Swetanegam

Thanks Shweta for referral. I partially agree with you and one child policy will give our country food security in future.

The government should give huge incentive for every girl child and monitor the progress and if need be change this with two child policy.

Just think. If you are the only child of your parents, whom will you turn to when you are in trouble? With whom will you share your joys and sorrows? Who will come to your aid when you or your family (wife and children) are in trouble? Dont tell me - friends and other relatives. In their list, you will be way down in their priority list. They have other pressing problems - of their family members and siblings. So one child norm - a big NO.

And the alternative? Two child. Not more. They will grow up with each other very closely and we can be at peace that there is one other shoulder for them in the future after we are no more.

I am not just preaching. I am a practisioner of this philosopphy.

Kandavel Raja, Dont get your wife here , pen down your view I say!!!!

According to this generation we would believe that 1 kid is more enough to be wid their beloved once it does not matter weather it is gal or a guy hardly matters , we need our love to be wid us simple,,, But people wud prefer guy kid only in those days now the generation as been changed so I vote for both equality is important....