DEFINITELY ,I think every one has right to spend their life with someone special. simply if you born like gay then what you will do...and want in your life..... Though here are talking about our culture ......i think our culture has lots of changes and people also accept that .....done be orthodox......brush up your brain.......
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Riya Bhati, B.B.A student, Institute of Technology & Management,Gurgaon11 04 2010 17:53:18 +0000
Countering a few arguments against homosexuality, we have: 1) It is against the "Indian Culture" Counter: It is the BRITISH who introduced the law in India.Before then, there were even KINGS who had male consorts In the 4th century AD,Vatsyayana(Author of Kama Sutra)devoted an ENTIRE section of his book to the idea of queerness among which homosexuality is a subsection and he treats it as normal. Also, several temples have carvings on their walls indicating men making love to men!By criminalizing homosexuality, it isnt our own culture we are embracing! It is the british law!! 2)It is not "natural". Counter: Research has shown that around 800 species of animals examined exhibit homosexuality! Live and let Live people!! Whom other people want to LOVE is their own business! By
Sridhar Kanneganti, Associate/Senior Associate, HSBC Holdings
| 05 29 2011 07:14:59 +0000
Yes...........Because marriage is all about spending the rest of life with someone... Now if for the sake of culture gay people are not allowed to marry then it won't help in anyway rather it will create problems in the married life.Now we should get rid of that old mentality. By
Akshay R Shrivastava, Officer -Automated Clearing House (ACH), National Payments Corporation of India
| 11 04 2010 18:41:11 +0000
can now india wake up and accept the practical aspects of life? can we now also not bound people under our traditional barriers? By
kushal aggarwal, student, chinmaya international residential school
| 10 16 2010 12:14:20 +0000
the culture and the ideas are all designed by us. so deciding someones happiness and rights according to our plans and supressing it under the name of culture will be totally wrong.so, live and let live........ By
kushal aggarwal, student, chinmaya international residential school
| 08 12 2010 11:12:51 +0000
it helps decreasing the population if gays or lesbos stay togather for their life. so, only because it's a way to reduce the population it should be alloed.
If you born like gay/lesb what you will do? Just think yourself.If nature select them to born like gay they can live and marry with a gag.whats wrong with that.
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christin varughese, Assistant Systems Engineer, Tata Consultancy Services (TCS)
| 08 10 2010 10:24:26 +0000
I think gay marriage should be legalised. Times have changed and so should we and our mindsets. I have read and heard about people talking about Indian culture... They sadly miss the point. Our culture is not about confrontation but about bringing change by way of assimilation. Think about it. By
Raahul K Mukherjee, Entrepreneur, Gamechanger
| 08 10 2010 08:00:24 +0000
I dnt agree with gay marriage, but when you talk about culture, I think if you look into the ancient kamasutra, damn, I would say we invented "GAY." lol ; D
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Jeremy Issac, Proprietor, J.I.V.
| 07 31 2010 12:03:38 +0000
I commented based on shalini sharma's comments... I saw your comments and i know that you work for the GOI organization... But let me tell you that your comments on men dressing indecently with piercings that you mentioned are not allowed in any IT companies, probably i think you would have seen some call center guys do that... but in an IT company specially an MNC, it is not allowed as per Dress Code... This should answer your phobia??
I would always be in support of a law supporting gay and lesbian relationships in india as it helps such kind of people to express themselves better... it breaks the barrier of mindset restrictions.... Give Freedom to everybody to choose what they like to do as long as they don't cause any problems to anybody ...
It is bcoz of these mindset restrictions , India is still slow in progress when compared with other countries, practically speakiing... this culture phobia is pnly on everybody's mind... it only a imagination and mindset restriction... break free from all these and think beyound ... Its a practical world out there... every person should be able his thoughts and expressions freely and its is he/she to make a right decision based on their after effects... for example it is only if you don't eat only then you feel hungry... food is available - Junk and Nutritious food... Its your decison that you make correctly to fulfill your appetite thinking which kind of food would be valuable for your health...
I go on with a debate with Shalini Sharma ... Let me highlight the point of Culture of India you mentioned... If you mentioned about culture, then why do Girls want to wear exposing and transparent dresses just to look good... Does this reflect our culture ?? I suppose you would have seen in TV or even in the Airport, that whenever a sports team is leaving or arriving or leaving, a woman in a well draped and dressed saree puts a tilak on every sportperson's forehead.. Why does the saree culture only reflect only at times when needed..?? I suppose you are a lecturer in CIT.. I am sure that you would have come across girls dressing up like the way i mentioned... Does this reflect Western Culture or Indian Culture as you mentioned ?? On the Contrary, Men have always dressed decently and look handsome and smart...
I commented based on shalini sharma's comments... Coming to your argument... I support that Gay and Lesbian Relationship law comes into effect soon in India... It will allow people to express their emotions and feelings without any mindset resttrictions... if any person would like to go for that kind of a relationship with the same gender... Its in the Likes and in the mind of the people whether they would like a gay or lesbian relationship... it will give them freedom to express themselves better without any mindset restrictions... In india , people are loved for their culture, but this should not put a barrier in expression of thoughts,emotions and feelings... Both are two different areas... everything should be allowed, its only then a individual will know what to choose based on their effects... its a practical world out there... and that's the reason why other countries are developing at a faster rate bcoz their practical, open minded and confident in their endevours.....
i said my argument based on a lecturer's comments on the post... When it comes it your perspective... I suppport for a Lesbian and Gay relationship law in effect soon in india, as it opens up eveybody's mind to choose what they want and not have fixed mindsets....
hey which culture are you talking of. hatred in the name of religion,caste, everyone has their own rights.when they don't attract to gals then what should they do.live alone whole life.we people just put all the things on the name of culture.live and let live By
vikram singh, B.Tech/B.E. student, G B Pant Engg. College
| 07 23 2010 14:45:23 +0000
No, it shoudnt be allowed...in a country like India..which is famous for its culture, da gay marriage dosent suits its culture..!! so why shd we spoil it.!!!! By
meenal kishor mundhada, CA student, MMCC
| 07 23 2010 14:12:09 +0000
Till when we will take the help of culture. Every human has own right to take the self decision. If any body is happy with any one then that is his world. I support gay marriage because it will good for our country progress around of population. "LOVE IS BLIND " actually this line is looking truth now.
i feel that its fine as every human has a tendency to create relationships and it can be with any sex.so,wat do u think........
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kushal aggarwal, student, chinmaya international residential school
| 07 20 2010 11:35:05 +0000
rights according to our plans and supressing it under the name of culture will be totally wrong By
NAGARAJAN THAMOTHARAN, Project - Coordinator, JACOB INSPECTION SERVICES PVT LTD
| 08 12 2010 12:19:19 +0000
In India people are more religious and culture.So there is no place for Gay marriages.if we adopt that things then we can say that we are going towards western culture which is more dangerous and demolish our public sentiment.
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kamal panda, Accounts Manager, Steelmakers Ltd
| 08 12 2010 09:54:06 +0000
i am totally disagree with the fact what mr. nirav have said. there are other methods to decease the population why do you think that gay marriages are the only solution to this problem.we are talking about our incredible india so you can think what are the culture heritages india have. marriage in india is very pure in nature. if we allow this gay marriages in india we not only down yourself but also down our mother india. By
Ankush Nandy, Business Executive, JMD Organization
| 08 12 2010 09:22:32 +0000
gay Marriage in India, Forget it Guys, just go away and don't tarnish the sacred institution of marriage for your selfish,sexually depraved, and diseased motives. By
Dinesh , MBA/PGDM student, PROTON bschool, ahmd.Gujarat
| 08 12 2010 07:59:09 +0000
people who are supporting this .. will deny this when it will happen in their family ...
only a gay / lesb will support his.. remain all will not.......
these practical thinker... these 21st century rubbish supporter and all these give everyone a space and like that.. will hide their own face if this will happen in their own family.....
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raj singh sindal, Software Test Engineer, Rishabh Software Pvt. Ltd
| 08 11 2010 06:46:56 +0000
its not in born in nature my friend christin. have you seen any animal doing this with same sex. it's excessive libido & failure to control over it leads do this. inside everyman high evil lust exist but it doesn't mean he should be allowed to do his own way
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rahul p rinayat, Software Developer, Geometric Solution
| 08 10 2010 13:14:05 +0000
Thanks Raj but if family also ready accept still we must not . b'cause it is not about acceptance but about allowing illegal sex desire to be full filled. today they are talking about gay. tomorrow anybody will wish to have sex with his pet like some female does with monkey & dogs( i apologize all women plz don't take it negatively but it is true). i have seen in videos . it will continue ..
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rahul p rinayat, Software Developer, Geometric Solution
| 08 10 2010 13:09:06 +0000
nope never , its not our culture and India is famous to adopt only good things.Why should we are moving towards western culture ? By
Chandra Prakash Agrawal, Sr. software Engineer, Capgemini
| 08 10 2010 10:10:33 +0000
No! Because its not natural. Although Marriage is not a natural consequence but it will have a bad impact on society. And what will be the ultimate result of that marriage? This is an out of the world mindset and should be vanished from the mind as soon as possible. By
Bishwajeet Banerjee, B.B.A student, Birla Institute Of Technology, (BIT), Ranchi
| 08 10 2010 09:48:14 +0000
What is unnatural is not acceptable. Going beyond natural dictum and principles are not acceptable. There always some extremities. Gay marriage is one such extremity. Legally it may be accepted by the Supreme Court. Debate is not about legality.
What a way to express raj singh you are KING I really wondered by reading your quotes. Keep Fighting for truth my friend. Let we should come together to remove that lust,unnatural desires,psychic thinking.
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rahul p rinayat, Software Developer, Geometric Solution
| 08 10 2010 06:51:02 +0000
to heck with culture but what is wrong is wrong, its not natural. Next we'll be thinking legalizing human and pet, or machine (robot), lol, that will be hillarious or ridiculous just as it is now. By
Jeremy Issac, Proprietor, J.I.V.
| 07 29 2010 14:44:32 +0000
INDIA HS AN EXCELLENT CULTURE,TRADITION AND HERITAGE.WE ARE IN THE FOREFRONT IN VARIOUS PRODUCTIVE AND POSITIVE THINGS.LET US EARN THE DUBIOUS DISTINCTION OF RECOGNISING SUCH UNWANTED THINGS AND BRING DOWN OUR HARD EARNED IMAGE.LET US FOLLOW OUR FORE FATHERS IN LEAVING BETTER THINGS TO OUR SUCCESSORS WHO WILL BE PROUD OF BEING AN INDIAN AS WE ARE ARE PROCLAIMING NOW.
It has been argued time and again that these Gay/Lesbian relationships are personal choices. It is also agreed that it has no bearing on the culture. And yes history is replete with instances where gay relationship had existed. This existed as an exception not as a norm. Hetro-sexuality was not created by man, it is natural, as with animals, so with man. If Gay/Lesbian relationship is OK because of a personal choice, there are numerous relationships that should be allowed because it is a personal choice. Are we not hearing instances of "incest" in the society. But do we approve it ? We live in a society, and social norms are like disciplines that one needs to follow whether or not he/she likes it. No one can disown the fact that Gay relationship exist, but then asking it to be legalised and encouraging it is like ecouraging and legalising killing, looting, rape and stealing; merely because one may feel it gives him happiness and arguably a personal choice.
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T S Jyothiram, CFO, Pacetel Communications
| 07 29 2010 12:34:35 +0000
Well ....I see people debating in favour of gay marriage.....i think they are either crazy,half cooked, and dont understand what is the implication of allowance of such acts on the society...which means they are not the part of society.
My words might be harsh on this but please consider the youth of tomorrow if our thinking bends towards this ideology think how far our next generation will go...you guys just imagine children will have no descrimination between brothers and sisters , i hope u people understand if this continues one day it is for sure that brothers and sisters will marry each other......and i think my friends on the other side will certainly not have any problem with this.
There is no need of total freedom...total freedom is equal to destruction...
gay marriage ...lesbian marriage is a form of some illness of mind and nothing else.....nature does not allow this....have u seen the same in animals.....they also follow the rule of nature.
We are the worst people in the world.....we are parasites...we live on others,we do what the western countries do...we call it developed ....which means we are under developed ...guys! guys! wake up.....understand our culture...its not caste, religion, its the indianess.....we are more developed than others.....India has the lowest rate of divorce cases than any other country, India has the lowest cases of 2nd marriage than any other country........if this is underdeveloped and only in terms of modernisation and money and luxury we coount development then I am sorry no one can debate with my friends on the other side.
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Saleel Deshpande, Sr.Architectural Co-ordinator, Dar Al-Handasah(Shair and Partners)
| 07 25 2010 06:27:50 +0000
If gay couples can regenerate according to the law of nature and without performing any unnatural actions, I will not object gay marriages but the proposition is rather impossible, I have to object it. Gayism and lesbianism are the cheap products of the diseased western culture that has spoilt the sanctity of the institution like marriage. By
Dinesh , MBA/PGDM student, PROTON bschool, ahmd.Gujarat
| 07 24 2010 08:20:12 +0000
who say girl wear transperent to lok beautifull.. its just their choice ad their likes... and who the hell say guys wear decent...
check out the person sitting newr in ur office.. 70% of IT men are pearced.. tattoed... and jaane or kya kya.,. nakhre hai....
colored hari... all thats u call is a decency...?
wearing dress and sari is not culture....
culture.. of respect...or relations...forget abt that... religions... this is not only indias probelm.. its in all places... christians are divided into two.. same as muslism.. and others..
problem is that. u people dont understand abt culture.. of india..
just waht u have seen in TV abt culture.. is not real culture.. of india........
try to read vedas .. n other epis.. u will find india culture.....
and if u r supporting gay.. then y not lesbian marriage also allow...?
tell me... r u ready for lesb..?
who among supporter of GAYS .. want their Brother to b GAY.. or sister to b LESB ?
common.. .. let me see..... ne one brave here
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raj singh sindal, Software Test Engineer, Rishabh Software Pvt. Ltd
| 07 23 2010 17:47:05 +0000
who say girl wear transperent to lok beautifull.. its just their choice ad their likes... and who the hell say guys wear decent...
check out the person sitting newr in ur office.. 70% of IT men are pearced.. tattoed... and jaane or kya kya.,. nakhre hai....
colored hari... all thats u call is a decency...?
wearing dress and sari is not culture....
culture.. of respect...or relations...forget abt that... religions... this is not only indias probelm.. its in all places... christians are divided into two.. same as muslism.. and others..
problem is that. u people dont understand abt culture.. of india..
just waht u have seen in TV abt culture.. is not real culture.. of india........
try to read vedas .. n other epis.. u will find india culture.....
and if u r supporting gay.. then y not lesbian marriage also allow...?
tell me... r u ready for lesb..?
who among supporter of GAYS .. want their Brother to b GAY.. or sister to b LESB ?
common.. .. let me see..... ne one brave here...
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raj singh sindal, Software Test Engineer, Rishabh Software Pvt. Ltd
| 07 23 2010 17:39:03 +0000
try n think of the future this system will destroy in india..apart from the culture n history..think of how the hostel life would turn out...think of the spoiled blood relations be it of uncle-nephew,brothers,senior-junior etc. By
aditya pravin joshi, MBA/PGDM student, Chetana's R. K. Institute Of Management & Research, Mumbai
| 07 23 2010 14:45:50 +0000
no...srinivas bro... here we are talking abt marriage not abt rules... for ruling we dont need to b straight / bi/ gay/ lesb... all we need is a power to rule... but marriage is a divine relation which is meant for only two pure hearts one of male n one of female.. and its a rule made my god... gayness is not a community or diff species.. they are male.. just suffering bcz of hormone imbalance... we medical science need to check out the cause behind it nd solve this... By
raj singh sindal, Software Test Engineer, Rishabh Software Pvt. Ltd
| 07 23 2010 13:42:23 +0000
In our country India, Big youth population is our strength but male female rate is not in balancing condition. If this is allowed in our country then its bad impact may be occur.
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Rupesh Kumar Dixit, Civil Engineer-Highway Roadway, Hindustan Steelworks Construction Limited ( A Govt. of India Undertaking )
| 07 23 2010 13:03:21 +0000
Criminalization of such acts is not good for society but at the same time in greater benefit of society this should not be allowed. If one doesn't want to follow society he is free to do so but one must not ask for a certificate from society, if society considers something wrong it will oppose and if any individual thinks otherwise, he is free to walk on a different path. By
Amit Misra, Software Engineer -4 , Juniper Networks
| 07 23 2010 07:18:49 +0000
Ummmm for the sake of culture I am strongly agree with u shalini ji . Gay marriage should never be allowed here in India. But Question is that , Do we really care for our culture ?
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Sunil Kr, Bhaskar, Area Manager, Cipla Ltd.
| 07 22 2010 16:54:35 +0000
