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Created by : wasim akbar lone, Master in Finance and Control(MFC)  | 02 08 2010 13:22:26 +0000
Industry : Teaching/EducationFunctional Area : Politics(Personal Interests)
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Hello friends.....

As you know Valentine's day is approaching and many political parties like Shiv Sena, will be opposing it as seen last year. We may find lovers getting beaten up by those who oppose it. What do you think ..should we allow Valentine's Day to be celebrated?

 
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I agree that the Valentine’s Day may run somewhat contrary to Indian culture. But we are living in a democractic country and not dictatorship, if some people wants to celebrate, let them do it, why should the politicial parties bother about it? These politicial parties and leaders have lost their inhibitions, dignity and common sense, respect for others, including respect for women have gone out of the window.


By Sarika Singh, Assistant Professor, BIT  02 09 2010 08:14:57 +0000
 
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I have not seen such a hype for Valentine day in Europe or even USA. This celebration culture is purely developed by media in India. Just check 15 yrs back nobody cared about Valentine Day. I dont see any special reasons to celebrate V-day except for the pure economic purpose of helping Greeting Card, Chocolate and Flower industreis.
By Dr. Atindra Shukla, Research Scientist, Govt organisation  02 12 2011 08:12:48 +0000
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I go by Sarika Singh's view. In a democratic set up, we cant force the people to do or not do something. But, one thing is sure that we are more obsessed with the western culture, and particularly the feminine gender.
By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 02 08 2012 07:47:33 +0000
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this was my gd topic...and i was in support..!! bcoz i love to see beuty of India...and on tht day so many beuties comes out for their happiness....so just enjy d day...my friendzz
By Mehul Jain, B.Tech/B.E. student, sophia public school  | 02 08 2012 06:18:20 +0000
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offcourse it should be celebrated but not only by the boy frnd and girl frnd but, it should be the day on which a person express his feelings to whom he admire, to whom he loves, to whom he wants to be close and wish to be like him/her. on a specific date it should be celebrated since if their is a specific date then it has a particular importance.
By Bhanu Vishal, Assistant Manager, Reliance Communications  | 02 28 2011 12:32:05 +0000
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Yes, but not specially V Day. Celebration/Relaxing is necessary, in this busy schedule we must enjoy our life, overall we have to look after others for us they must not get disturbed.
By Rana Bhattacharya, Branch Manager  | 02 18 2011 09:02:31 +0000
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Sir, some believe that freedom is their own right and try to grab others. Freedom of the people is being hijacked by some section of people in this country. Look at the happenings in Andhra. One or two political parties not allowing other political party leaders into Telangana area. A situation of commotion is being created. Same is the situation with opposing celebrating Valentine's Day. Freedom is being hijacked in this country.
By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 02 18 2011 07:33:00 +0000
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why not, c we r expressing our feelings in the form of celebrations ,and nobody have a rights to control the feelings which are not harmful to somebody right whether it is v day r f day whatever it may be.
By Ganesh.Mergu , Lecturer, dilla university  | 02 18 2011 06:37:39 +0000
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Yes Devi, I a completely in favour of your point. As people do not understand their limits of liberty. Democracy never means that you can do whatever you want. And, also it doesnt give you right to speak which hurts any one's prestige or self respect. The people who are giving such facts in the favour are generally hippocrate. They never like the girls dressed in extra modern way for marriage but like to see them and flirt them and roaming around with. For marriage, the girl should be pure indian stuff, either in dressing or in thinking.


By Kalpana Arora, Ph.D/Doctorate student, Indian Institute Of Technology (IIT), New Delhi  | 02 17 2011 20:01:28 +0000
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Why not? When you are in a democratic, secular and sovereign society, anything should be allowed to celebrate, isn't it?
By Saibal Ray, SQA, confidential  | 02 11 2011 18:55:07 +0000
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yes offcourse, we should allow valentines day. There is nothing wrong in celebrating it.. Every thing has a good side & bad side,its ment to celebrate for happiness & unite the couple.But some people is misusing it ..For their doing why we punish others happiness... Hence I am married women & it was a love marrige valentines day means lots to us.....
By Revathy Venkitesh, Traffic Assistant, Global Aviation & Services Group  | 02 11 2011 18:09:19 +0000
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Nothing wrong in celebrating. But, do we require to celebrate these days. Fathers Day, Mothers Day, Valentines Day are the creations of western culture.They dont maintain any relationships. They need a day to get together. For that purpose we have festivals. We need not celebrate these days imported from the western world.
By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 02 11 2011 11:27:13 +0000
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present scenario is not good to celebrate valentines day on 14th feb. My personal opinion or advice to all is not to celebrate V D outside, as u know some political groups/parties are in search to get benifit on that day. Celebrate dat day in ur house any other day. I THINK FOR LOVERS, EVERY DAY IS VALENTINES DAY DUDE.
By Harjeet Singh, Sr. Project Engineer, Angelique International Limited  | 02 11 2011 11:06:10 +0000
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Why not?? What is wrong in it? We don't need a day to show love but still if there is something of that sort it has to be accepted just like rakshabandhan is accepted. Love is sacred and humiliating someone for loving someone is ridiculous. God created men and women and he designed our body and mind. If he wanted things to be any different he might have not created the law of attraction!! But when he did it who are we to oppose the most natural feeling? I strongly feel that people who create chaos on V-day have nothing else to do and they themselves are found in hotel rooms with girls time and again.
By Amrita , Animation/Graphic Artist, Creative design  | 02 11 2011 10:44:50 +0000
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yes, certainly it should be celebrated. when there is father's, mother's, brother's/sister's (rakshabandhan), teacher's, friend's day then whats the crib in celebrating the lover's day.


By Narendra Tiwary, student placement coordinator, SSIM  | 10 27 2010 09:05:14 +0000
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Pradeep, Sorry to oppose your argument but what do you mean by " but if it goes like this then our indian women will start to strip in public as like western countries., and also they might argue , the problem is not in stripping but in seeing those things"? They may have strip bars, etc where this sort of things are done but definitely not in the public. Please also note that stripping may be a job and very significant population of the world is involved in it. Are you judging all western women by a few and come on what makes you think that Indian women are going to strip in the public?.

Please note also that in a democratic country you have freedom of speech but not freedom to do whatever you like. There is something called law which every citizen should abide by.

A government runs a country but not people lives. Do the government has to tell you when to express love and in which manner?. However, it does not take away the fact that India is a very diverse country and has been adopting lots of western cultures. It's the people choice to live up to their culture.

 

 


By Devi Kaladeen, Audit Manager, Health Sector Development Unit  | 02 15 2010 17:24:12 +0000
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Their should not be barred to calebrate something like Valentine day...It is a human right to celebrate something ....either it is a religious festival...or love festival...as we are considering valentine day as a love festival....like the same we are considering ganapti puja as a religious festival...no one can stop us to celebrate some festival in our contry..but there should be limitation....we need to be a open cultured but we cannot allow the open sex in open air in our country...If political party like shiv sena opposed valentine day only for the this reason then i will agree with them...howevr we can celebrate valentine day as afestival of love...no one can stop us....


By LOUIS DEHINGIA, Customer Service Quality, Vodafone  | 02 15 2010 15:43:10 +0000
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Westerner's forget what is true love and for remembering their love (s) they clebrate Valentine's day to spend some time with their partern(s), but we indians living in such a world...here LOVE is everything!!! For us everyday is valentine's day.......:) INDIA ROCKS.......we are not needed any day for LOVE :) HAPPY VALENTINE'S YEAR(S)............. :)


By GK Basrur, Consultant, ARIS GLOBAL  | 02 15 2010 04:44:27 +0000
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Westerner's forget what is true love and for remembering their love (s) they clebrate Valentine's day to spend some time with their partern(s), but we indians living in such a world...here LOVE is everything!!! For us everyday is valentine's day.......:) INDIA ROCKS.......we are not needed any day for LOVE :) HAPPY VALENTINE'S YEAR(S)............. :)


By GK Basrur, Consultant, ARIS GLOBAL  | 02 15 2010 04:43:48 +0000
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I do not understand how any thing associated with love can be segreated or replusive to indian culture & ethos. India has always been a country whose culture is woven in the fabric of togetherness and love. Few pepole with vested interest are trying to impose their moral policing on every one but while doing so they forget that this is a land where Freedom of Choice and respect to women are ebeded as early as ramayana days.

Sita Choose her Husband by (Suyamabar) is one such illustration. Those who are wasting their energy in opposing this day shall divert to more issues that needs redressal.


By Ravi Srivastava, Sr Manager, Star India  | 02 14 2010 16:57:55 +0000
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celebration is not bad if its not hurting someone


By sanjeev wadhwa, self employed,  | 02 14 2010 11:48:05 +0000
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There is nothing wrong with celebrating valentine. India is such a good democratic country. Extremist should do some good work for society instead beating couples. 


By Tarun Mishra, Assistant manager, kotak securities ltd.  | 02 14 2010 11:43:01 +0000
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i want the mixture of true mind they had come together for to make peace and affection in the society


By rahul malhari gaikwad, LLM student, dr babasaheb ambedkar marathwada university aurangabad  | 02 14 2010 10:34:25 +0000
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I support Sarika, let it be the game of politicians and all those but you all must have heard he who makes the law, violates it too. Celebration and allowing the same all over in few adverse conditions that comes up like mushrooms specially before 14th every year and finishes by the evening of 14th of every year. Few activists do it for fame and name and few do it because they could not get their love. Had it been with them they themselves would have made a rescue or strongly opposed the move.Revolution or new trend is opposed first and then accepted by every one.

Happy VALENTINE's Day to all


By KUMAR SAURABH JHA, HR Manager  | 02 14 2010 09:18:03 +0000
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Why Not .... there is no rationale behind forcing someone not to do an event which is harmless instead its spreading love.


By Darpan Sinha, Tech Architect, Royal Bank of Scotland  | 02 11 2010 14:11:39 +0000
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The only reason Valentine Day runs contrary in Indian culture is that people do not know the story why the celebration of Valentine Day started and for whom? It was about two friends in America, out of which one was sentenced to death by govt. and the other one who really loved his friend so much that he committed suicide on this day. In his memory Valentine's Day celebration started. Now the projection of the day is totally different, but still in democracy right's of the individuals can not be hampered.


By Prassan Kumar Sharma, Content Writer and Domain Consultant, FREELANCER  | 02 10 2010 21:31:54 +0000
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yes..you are right.


By Reni sebastian, Assistant Engineer, State government of Keralam  | 02 10 2010 03:24:27 +0000
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I don't understand the question of allowing Valentine Day to be celebrated. Who should allow/disallow? There's no authority which allows Diwali or Eid to be celebrated. So if people want to celebrate Valentine Day or any other day it's their free will so long as it is not against someone or something else. And obviously Valentine Day is not against anybody. So go ahead...


By Azhar Kazmi, Professor, King Fahd University of Petroleum & Minerals  | 02 09 2010 18:33:23 +0000
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why does it bothers the extremist ?????......but for single(including me ) its just another day .....


By kawaljit kaur, pgdbm student , Mount Carmel Institute of Management  | 02 09 2010 11:04:19 +0000
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I was also one of the fan of Govinda...not a matter

Better allow to meet two peagion at least for one day in a year..without fear in this highly polluted world of animals 


By Nitin M Aras, Head/VP/GM-Tech. Support, ODTIN Food Solutions Pvt Ltd  | 02 08 2010 14:15:15 +0000
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Well as far as I think lovers can meet anytime and they do meet besides this one date that is 14th feb.... Now if we don't have any objection in their love meets besides this day and we allow a boy and girl to meet then why should we stop them on this day? Can't they meet after 14th? ya they can .... so why to show the world that we don't allow such activities when they do happen on daily basis.........

   here i remember the Dialogue of a movie where Govinda says to her girlfriend.....EVERYDAY IS A VALENTINE'S DAY; EVERY HOUR IS A VALENTINE HOUR; EVERY MINUTE IS  VALENTINE MINUTE EVERY SECOND IS A VALENTINE SECOND....


By wasim akbar lone, Master in Finance and Control(MFC)  | 02 08 2010 13:22:26 +0000
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yes.......im 100% agreed with ur facts given in comments.


By Alok , Advocate, SALES TAX AND INCOME TAX  | 02 10 2012 05:34:18 +0000
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yes, I am completely agreed by you. It was few days back and I am in europe..have seen no such celebrations and hip hop on the V-Day. Its was taken into light by media only.


By Kalpana Arora, Ph.D/Doctorate student, Indian Institute Of Technology (IIT), New Delhi  | 02 17 2011 20:04:47 +0000
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Nowadays in the name of valentines day, people are going in a wrong way.This day induces the worst culture in India.Is there any need to express the love on that special day?.It can't be expressed any other days?.This is a purely humbug ,pushing teenage people into useless ones.Generally I am asking ,In India when this Valentines day was started celebrating?.In 1990, there is no these types of fraud days .

First tell the people to celebrate Mother's day sincerely.That's enough.


By Thyagarajan , QC executive  | 02 15 2010 18:15:36 +0000
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No,we should not allow to celebrate valentine day.

why should exhibition of expressing of love. 


By mbhingnekar , Head/VP/GM-Production/Manufacturing, mahagenco,maharashtra  | 02 14 2010 16:05:22 +0000
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no need for  celebration.


By satheesh , system admin, sapience  | 02 14 2010 11:57:13 +0000
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this is a democratic country nd each and every one has the right to do what they like. but if it goes like this then our indian women will start to strip in public as like western countries., and also they might argue , the problem is not in stripping but in seeing those things. valentines day is jinx created by west. there is nothing wrong in expressing love , and exchange of hearts but in the name of valentines day different atrocities staging up now a days. these things shud have to be stopped. the govt should make laws that prevents such type of behavior in public unless if they not do so, the political parties might take laws in their hands and showcase violence just to gain attention...


By pradeep kumar, B.B.A student, ngm college of arts and science  | 02 10 2010 22:34:37 +0000
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valentine is not a day to be celebrated................what so in its  to be celebrated


By varun , qa  | 02 10 2010 15:29:42 +0000
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No, we should not allow to celebrate valentine day.


By mbhingnekar , Head/VP/GM-Production/Manufacturing, mahagenco,maharashtra  | 02 10 2010 14:12:08 +0000
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