the modern dress exposing the female body too much in college campuss

At an age of 17, 18 the body has new hormones in full swing, everyone is supposed to be aware of this, biologically yes the question is how to express, how much to express, if you are hot, you are hot. If you are not, you are not.

Women are physically bit "weaker" than men and can be out maneuverer, wearing skimpy (modern) dress can arouse lust among men, in the human world we can form groups (clusters). If a cluster of such lust driven men or man gets into action to unleash the force, can lead to eve teasing, molestation, rape, gender bias, dowry, harassment etc.

The above doesn’t happen in the animal world a group of male tiger or elephant or mouse cannot rape their female counterpart nor can form groups (union, party, society, and/or clusters) like us.

This is nothing to do with male domination or colleges being sacred places, where would women learn healthy self-expression? And where would men learn benevolence?

 Thank you Vinoy for Frwing

"If women have the courage to wear such dresses in public, they can take care of themselves also",

What is courage? The ability to confront fear, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation. Why would they (women) undergo fear and / or pain to display or carry their feminine feature or persona?

This is where we differ from animals, women for past thousands of years have displayed dependency on their male counterpart. Where ever and whenever they got the space encouragement and support they have displayed their worth, Till date they have never tried to suppress men, men have always suppressed and /or oppressed women, seen them as stupid baby producing machine.

Thank you landmark Group for ur comments...

The first man and woman on earth, strode the planet stark naked. It is with passing ages that dress sense took shape. It is okay as different ages and different areas have seen different dress themes. Finally what to wear is best to be left to the wearer of clothes. I find it amusing that today everyone is trying to enforce the way others dress, especially the women and girls. And to repeat the first man and woman probably moved around showing good amount of their skin.

Pandianarjunan I think you have very correctly used the words. Actually, I am of the opinion all our learned friends meant the same way.

However, it should be left to the girl student what to wear in college. 

exposing body in college campus is not at all  a right phrase.Its very cruel to describe.a dress code is necessary and I hope most all of us are following that. While you are visiting a temple or to attend an interview you are wearing a dress which gives respect to you.like wise in public places also.most of the gender is following that, I hope so.If it irritates somebody by someone else, its a meager .While most of the students, whether boys or girls following western culture, its a question mark for our tradition.They knew their limits, but for rich people they never mind public always, Hence leave them and ignore them.

Vinoy I tend to agree with you completely on the subject.

The beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Similarly does sense of vulgarity. There is a limit to which you can control others, especially if you are not in control of yourself.

And even the most conservatively dressed ladies and girls are subject to lust stares, catcalls, and even rape. So the crime is in the eyes of the beholder. All the more essential that our youngsters grow up in an atmosphere where they are ready to take responsibility for their actions.

The attitude of Khap panchayats cannot be introduced in colleges. It is a retrogressive step for our society in future. 

I fully support that modern dress must be allowed to the girls in colleges or offices. First and foremost question is that if some body wish to show his curves, cleavage, umbilicus (belly) or further then nobody has the right to check her except her parents. But after 18 parents also loses that right legally. I am surprised why the boys are concerned about exposing dresses; rather they must be happy and enjoy the opportunity provided by such girls that too free of cost. These girls wish to expose and wish somebody to appreciate the dress. They are intelligent enough that the appreciation of exposing dress is in fact is the appreciation of their exposed body part because the dress is barely visible. Secondly, one hidden fact is the most beautiful girls do wear a covering dress but the so-so girls wear exposing dress just to make them noticed. Honestly speaking if god has not blessed someone a beautiful face but beautiful busts then what the option remains with that girl to be noticed. Modern democratic society must give equality. And boys should be happy and encourage the trend. Lastly, males who oppose such dresses do two harms: first they lose the opportunity to enjoy and they allow the girls to label the world as male's world.

Why would you always point out on women? What they should wear? What they should not wear?

Male-chauvinism shows on each and every one who opposes this. I am fine with a girl naked sun-bathing on a beach. I don't get erotic by looking at the girl naked. It is all in your mind and thought process and the way you are brought up. For all of you those who oppose to "what women should wear" should refer to  OSHO a bit.

I will always support wearing modern dress by women folk. If this will not happen how do we say that we are going ahead as an emergent nation.

Why should there be a rule only for "dress". So much of nonsense is going on in other parts of the society and nobody has time to be concerned about it but has time to decide what somebody else should "wear".? There is no rule that you should "look" at those exposing female body - who gave you that right to look? There is plenty of nudity outside the campus and nobody is bothered about it except to harass innocents inside a campus. Suppose, while I was walking on a street and I saw two people having ice-cream, can I fight with them saying that you exposed what you were eating and hence you should share it with me or else I have the right to fight? - double standards at its best - hipocrite Indians.

I love modern dresses. And I quite agree with Partha Biswal. The female form - IF in shape - is quite nice to look at. 

I've been told by quite a few truthful female friends that they like looking at guys. 

So why does everyone have a problem with looking? 

However, when it comes to education, there is a flip side to this issue. In college, both young men & women are at an age when they think that they know everything that is good for them.

One of their mistakes is underestimating the power of physical attraction. Pheremones are flying all around the place as it is and as if that's not enough, there are nice curvy women all around who you can quite CLEARLY see are nice & curvy. :)

In every success story that we hear, there is the common theme of FOCUS & CONCENTRATION. Without these, there is no success. 

I know of many young men and women, who got distracted by lust and wasted their time thereby scoring badly in the examinations.

As long as young people can keep themselves focused on the real goal i.e. success in life, and they can really manage themselves & their time, there is no issue. 

Why do  people have to dress provocatively? The only reason that I can find is to attract attention, now when unwanted attention comes to them they raise such a hue and cry. If you are modern you do not have to reveal it through your clothes just a condfident and positive outlook would do. 

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It is a personal choice so let the girls wear what they think it them best. Yes there are a lot of conservative people are there who they want modern dress for the girls but see he may be the father of a dozen boys/girls.

Thanks Sailesh for referral. Romita Iam in agreement with your point of view on the subject.

And to dear Vivek. N. Vishwakarma ji... Modernity is not about the kind of dresses someone wear it's about the state of mind so that people like you will see creativity instead of 'nudity' in the images of Ajanta Alora cave, so that people like you will see hunger on the bald body of peoples who are rarely meeting their two ends meal instead of taking advantage of their situation by forcing them into prostitution.

Kumar swamy ji so you want to say that hiding everything will lead us to development. It's not what they wearing it's about only that how youu look at them.  When a girl wears short dresses people like you just see the uncovered areas which are usually covered instead of looking the innocense or prettyness of their face. I am also very sure that at your young age  everytime you wanted to see them but now might be your kids have grown up you don't want to see them like this or being seeing theirself by others. Peoples like you will see dirtyness in the art of khajuraho instead of the creative work done by ancient painters. That's why our country is still like a hell to live for girls. SHAME TO YOU!!!!!

We can allow Modern Wears in campus but with limitations. Many colleges allow only Jeans and T-shirt not freaky fashion wear. Girls exposing her body parts because as she want to ba a center of attraction . She want everyone to notice her. In such a case, she spoils her friends too. Thats how these kind of issues came up. Such kind of people must be avdivecd properly.

Modern wear with strict limitations will satisfy both the sides

yea sure why not

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I totally agree with Romita's views..

Its one's Outlook which defines one's attitude..

Well, can't speak for Romita but I am definitely going to feel what I feel. I will probably give her a look, appreciate her sense of fashion, maybe even hit on her if I am feeling like it. It's natural but for all of my feelings, should I impose a cross-nation ban on someone's personal freedom? How about I impose a ban on people for eating what they like? How about I come to you someday and tell you to stop driving the car that you drive because I don't like it? You see? Personal freedom!

I read this really funny t-shirt quote that sums up your collective attitudes. It goes, "Please ask your boobs to stop staring at my eyes". Now, don't go impose a ban on me for saying the 'B' word.

Nicely done, Romita. I am not too active on Toostep but if educated, "urban", broad-minded Indians supporting global growth, economies and businesses start talking about too much "skin", I am not sure I want to be too active here.

Like she says, look at people for what they are and if your sensibilities do not agree with someone's fashion sense, choose not to look at them. It is because you let someone "exposing themselves" affect you that you even bother talking about stuff like this. Also, there's a difference between lechering and appreciating, if you know what I mean.

Ask yourself this. In a free country that's been free for more than a 100 years now, do we really want to be policing society, like Muthalik did?

It's such a pity that despite being modern in many areas Indians still have that narrow mind. It may be the main reason for lagging behind in many areas. To be much straght forward, here is my opinion about the guys who are strongly supporting opposing the modern fashion wears, if they would have been born in those tribals of africa where they donot wear any dresses they could have felt uncomfortable even in front of mother.It shows their state of mind. The reason for being vulnerable to women who are modernly dressed is because those things which was hidden is now exposed. Human beings are always curious to only those things which is made hidden from them. So I think there should be more free society.

1. "Shame to indian culture"? those who site this reason, for them indian culture must be only less than a century old. If it was not for the concervative Brits Indians would never have felt so ashamed that they feel now.
2. Distract your concentration? Come on grow up, so when you see flesh in the work place ( where you are supposed to deliver 100%, a 40% passing doesn't exist over there), afterwards... what are you going to do? quit job or start a politikal rally?
3. "Colleges are not places for fashion"? If not at college where else would a boy or a girl discover his/her individuality? long haired boys or short skirt why should they not be allowed?
4. "Can people accept their mother/sister wearing such dress in public!" Our grandmother's or their grand mothers used to show more flesh. Showing midriff was not considered vulgar, but today i see people ogling at them. Poor people few decades back could hardly afford to have clothes to cover their bosom. So does that mean our forefathers where uncivilized (well the right word i want to use her is thrarki).
5. "GOING TO COLLEGE IS TO LEARN,GET A DEGREE..." So does that mean you should look ugly and unattractive? I believe every person has the right to look beautiful. There are enough laws to punish those who expose too much flesh. Why do we require more restriction than that has been acceptable in social life apart from college?
6. "I hate them.." Friends can you smell some jealousy ?
7. "spoil society..." Are you suggesting that in order to hide the immorality of men, girls should be declared immoral if they show flesh? My opinion is that we should not restrain mens eyes from seeing flesh. The more the restrain, more the revolt.
8. "more sex in college..." People have sex, no matter if they show more flesh or no flesh publicly.

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the above expressed views are my opinion, and i could be wrong.

I wish every body could have been beautiful

:),

But that would make no body beautiful

:(.

Guys, being an artist i had been in close proximity with female and male nudity. So my views are very different from normal people.

I like modern and comfortable also fashionable dress but within limits i.e. not too much exposure. Some dresses without actually exposing 'expose' the complete shape which is also not good.