Turn on statement

Yes, I agree with your statement, Sheetal.

Though I agree with you still I have something to say that we all are

pretending @ some %opposite to our personality/nature/behaviour.

We all wants that goody goody image among our friends/collagues/relatives.

& also everyone want to impress it's friend/senior/.......... & so on. There is no

need to present  illusion of your image. Just stay as you are which helps you

to increase your self belief & also it can increase trust for you among the

others. 

we all r photocopies .. baksh sahib ..

Every individual should strive to focus on improving himself/herself. By displaying a facade to the world, it only delays the inevitable and when the truth is known, it creates mutiple issues to all the parties concerned.....

If one is not self interms of behaviour may be in long or short term in that case he or she will not be sucessful in long term and God alone save the persons working in his or her team.

You are 100% correct and I agree with you Ms. Sheetal Jadhav

One should not loose his/her individuality for sake of attracting others. One should be practical and natural in expressing. 

fully agree, that is what is and should be but/however, i think..many a times it probably depends upon inter-personal relationships and what they are expecting out of such inetractions

Truth Exposes thought process, the gates are open, our path may change, but the end of the tunnel is always one. The long term relationship is the POWER OF INTEGRATION,COORDINATION.Love Truth and the courage to do what is right should be our own guide posts one this lifelong journey. It is always the long term relationsship that keeps our life running.

WOW SHEETAL, I AGREE WD U, IF WE R TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIP, WHAT WE WANT IN OUR PARTNER OR PERSON WE LIKE ? WE NEED TO EXPRESS OUR INDIVIDUAL QUALITIES OR CHARACTERISTICS BCOZ  WE CANT CHANGE THEM EASILY, BUT IMITATED ONES WE FORGOT WD THE NEW IMPRESSION  IN OUR MIND

I echo the same sentiments of Sheetal. This so called "Turn On Statement" is very short lived. For a longer game, you have to be true to your self. Finally it all depends on the situation & it's demands.

Whether to attract a person or a crowd or just to perform our professional tasks or even to live our lives, 'being oneself (and not try to be someone else)' is the best policy.

Imitating others has the same value as any other imitation jewellery, while the natural behaviour has the value of original Gold. 

I agree with Sheetal. In the long term relationship, honety and integrity is very important. However, presenting yourself in better light is acceptable

Yes, I agree sheetal, People who are after short term gains present themselves to impress others with the kind of values which they are not actually possessing. People should see for long term relationships. In such a case they should present themselves  exactly what they are. If others are not intrested they will leave them.

I do agree. being trustworty is much much more essential in life as still wold moves on trust and in day today you cant live without trust.devoloping trust is long lasting processes.having just fair personality wont help you in long run if you are not trustworty

SHEETAL,I AGREE WITH YOU.LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALWAYS BETTER THAN SHORT DURATION RELATIONSHIP.MANY PEOPLE CAN EASILY INFER WHAT IS IN THE MIND OF THE PERSON TRYING TO PLEASE HIM.IT WILL NOT BE NATURAL.SO THERE IS EVERY CHANCE FOR THE ACTIONS INTENDED TO PLEASE TO BOOMERANG.FALSE OR VERY SELFISH INTENTIONS WILL COME TO LIGHT.