Yes it is a compromise. Once married, they are not just two individuals. Every individual will have his/her personality. For a couple it should not be individual personality, they are expected to have single personality to lead a peaceful married life. If they continue to have their individual personality, egos may crop up resulting clashes. So the compromise begins from here. To lead a conjugal life, compromising on certain points is required.
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Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.
| 07 23 2011 09:50:48 +0000
It depand the Age after the 28 in mans and 29 wovens understand all the thing.most of these thing come to the Low class family, Second and the mojor thing parents always make the burden about their desire, for exa my child give the IAS Exa, Civil Engg, and balla balla balla ,they not fell that time what conditions suffring his/her child," well this condition major part apply on time when child not told him parntes i just given the competrative exe.... "because child also have come desire that "I make the Police Officer, Doctor etc..
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DEEPAK MITTAL, GENERAL MANGAR,
| 07 22 2011 09:04:01 +0000
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Now a day, girl and boy disscused their dreams and desires and how they are going to achieved it after getting married,so no issue of compromise.Infact b4 marrige everything is disscused and then they entered into the relationship called marriage.So compromise will never bcome the base of marrige,earlier it happened but not now a days.
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pradhnya meshram, Sales Executive/Officer, Tata Communications Ltd
| 07 25 2011 17:01:04 +0000
It is a question of adjusting to the others' needs and requirements. It all depends on 'ho bet you can adjust' to make the marriage successful.
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MS_Pi , Top Management, Confidential
| 07 25 2011 04:31:03 +0000
Marriage can never be any kind of compromise. It’s the way one takes ion things. To make the married life conjugal and happy both the spouse need to understand each other, have mutual respect, care for each other, understands liability and responsibilities, possess progressiveness and planning . Parents spend too much on their daughter’s studies etc and what happens if a husband or in laws ask her to stay home. Every girl comes up with some or the other dream after marriage, what one gets is then a matter of luck etc. Still marriage has essence and everyone must and should feel and understand the same to make life smoother and long lasting else one has unnecessary tensions and botherences.
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KUMAR SAURABH JHA, Manager-HR & Admin
| 07 25 2011 04:26:15 +0000
No its not a compromise. Simply i can relate it with any other relation we have in this world. For example, why do we love and keep compromising (or rather adjusting) with our mother/father or any other family member despite of his/her shortcomings. Just because he/she has done so many good things and sacrificed a lot for us. So, i put it this way, if we can do that with our other family members, then why can't we do the same with our life partner. Relations are made by us for sure not that we can carry them over. So, trust and care for each-other. It will never be a compromise for anyone.
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Kshitiz Kumar, B.Tech/B.E. student, Shri Sant Gadge Baba C.O.E.T
| 07 24 2011 14:11:52 +0000
The sanctity of the word 'Marriage' has been lost during the past many years now. It is no more a union of 2 souls but a rather quick fix solution to satiate one's needs and when the need is met, a new event arises - 'Divorce' - and the need for yet another quick fix solution. This is a never ending process till the need is felt satiated. Truly, a 'marriage of convenience' and no more a 'marriage of union'.
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Saibal Ray, Sr. Process Engineer, KPIT Cummins Infosystems
| 07 23 2011 15:23:16 +0000
Yup !! Life is not as simple as it was earlier. Freedom is what everyone needs so no compromise with freedom, if you are not satisfied with the person you are married with law gives you freedom with security to walk away all alone and live freely.
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Santosh Ashar, Assistant Engineer, Ericsson India (P) Ltd.
| 07 23 2011 14:41:06 +0000
It is not at all a compromise. It is a lovely relationship subject to better understanding. Marriage cannot be compromise, but the couple should compromise and support & respect each other to maintain a Good and long lasting relationship. I think Marriages are highly successfull in India than in any other country. So, never say marriage is a compromise atleast in India.
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Parimi Nagendra, DY.MANAGER (HR) GAIL (India) LTD.
| 07 23 2011 09:44:16 +0000
No it is not a compromise. And I feel that is highly wrong to call it that way. I fact marriage is an experience which will make you aware of the very basic elements of life. It makes one more qualified to face the world. It makes one to understand and appreciate others and their feelings.
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Shashi Kumar U, Manager accounts & commercial, Mazda Concrete Products Pvt Ltd
| 07 23 2011 08:54:02 +0000
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