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Youth Of The Nation

 
Created by : sumita , BUSINESS MANAGER, IELTS  | 07 27 2010 06:00:43 +0000
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being true to self Vs follow worldly trends
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It may be conservative,but it works. Being dubious and deceitful will help you  as long as your last chance but when you come across like minded people... once the cat is out of the bag, you will be dropped like a hot brick. Suceess without peace of mind is wasted efforts.


By T. Rajeshwari Pal, Team Leader, Integra Software Services  09 21 2010 03:17:11 +0000
 
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Being True to self is great but you need to learn art to meet the expectations of worldy matters as well a fine balance is the key
By Shyam Kumar Singh, Leadership Role, ICICI Bank  09 23 2010 07:07:32 +0000
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being true to self is a key to serve the same for others is a universal truth and neglecting it means playing a 100%risky game.
By rajesh kumar bakshi, Student, British School of English language  | 12 11 2011 10:16:42 +0000
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yes it is rather useful to impart valuable time while studying abroad instead of lying yourself in dustbin
By rajeev kumar, Lecturer, mit  | 02 07 2011 13:40:46 +0000
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Being true to oneself sounds good, and IS good.

Though, I have a question: Does everyone agree on what is meant by "being true to self"?

In my opinion, "being true to self" is admitting to ourselves our mistakes, errors, insecurities, fears, weaknesses, and most definitely, our strengths as well. The central idea is to never lie to ourselves.

For example, we might not admit that we have certain holes in our expertise. We do this mostly with certain types of people - usually the easily excitable kind or the ones who are overly critical of us and try to take advantage of us if we admit our weakness(es) or even those who look to us for leadership. We try to always project a sense of confidence, expertise, knowledge, and strength. 

Yet, though we maintain (or try to) that projection/aura of capability and invincibility, we must never lie to ourselves. If we have holes in our knowledge or capacity, we must be aware of them and compensate for them by filling those holes or by including in our team(s) such people who can cover that gap. If we forget to compensate for our weaknesses and/or conversely neglect to rely on our strengths, we are setting ourselves up for setbacks.

This does not mean that we should be fearful. Rather, we should be courageous - carefully. :)

In conclusion, I firmly believe that we should believe in ourselves but we also should NOT take ourselves too seriously. :D

 


By Isaac Madhavan, R & D Manager, Test prep company  | 09 25 2010 20:29:08 +0000
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"Being true will always lead you in right way"
By Simson Rufus, Business Manager, Samp Techno  | 09 23 2010 06:51:03 +0000
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we r true every thing will be true i belive


By kishore kumar, Senior Consultant, Talent Hub  | 09 21 2010 12:48:02 +0000
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Yes but many a time you have to learn the art of Balancing otherwise you are out of date or odd man out... Remember
By Shyam Kumar Singh, Leadership Role, ICICI Bank  | 09 21 2010 12:42:18 +0000
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In my point of view being true and self ..... dont act in front of others be what you are now
By meenakshi A, mba student,  | 09 21 2010 09:52:53 +0000
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Agree to Mr. Srinivas, Follow your own instincts.. Be true to your self and half of the problems are solved.


By Prachi Todkar, Consultant, VishvaVidya School of Management & technology  | 09 20 2010 11:41:42 +0000
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Shreyo svadharma vignah parartha swanishtah
Svadharma nidhan shreyah paradharma bhayavahah- Bhagatvat Geetha.

Do what you believe in strongly and true to urself.  When you have the ability to follow your own instinct, following someone destructive for your growth.  True to urself.


By Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.  | 09 20 2010 05:49:50 +0000
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WHEN ONE IS TRUE TO SELF,PEACE AUTOMATICALLY COMES TO HIM/HER.


By s.baalu , Consultant, XYZ LTD  | 08 03 2010 14:19:14 +0000
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Himanshu am with you in this. you need to be loyal to yourself first if that's the case you are loyal with the rest of the world but if it's reverse you can't just satisfy youself by keeping the world happy


By RAKESH KESHAV MORE, ASST SALES MANGER , DRIVE INDIA ENTERPRISE SOLUTIONS LIMITED  | 07 28 2010 12:15:47 +0000
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Being true to oneself is most important because one can not cheat oneself. if that is done one is doomed.


By Shashi Kumar U, Manager accounts & commercial, Mazda Concrete Products Pvt Ltd  | 07 28 2010 11:39:01 +0000
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I agree with George ..... 

Be true to yourself don't wear mask for others....  :)  


By Himanshu Pathak, Sr/Principal Coresspondent, Coresspondent  | 07 28 2010 11:20:38 +0000
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Dear Sumita, there is an one word answer to your debate is "enlightenment". Buddha, Jesus, and avatars of Vishnu all were enlighted being on the earth. until you enlighten yourself you can never be happy in your life. Many occasions you have to wear masks at office front. That is your post and position to carry out the jot as described by the management. but never loose your identity in your activities.   


By George Varghese, Proprietor, Jecyees  | 07 27 2010 07:12:16 +0000
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Thanks sumita, I totally agree with you.. It is so hard to being true to self for any body... Most of the people cheating other's and self too but they will pay for that in future..
By Nohar Singh Dhruv, Jr. Engg, Chhatisgarh State Electrical Board  | 07 27 2010 06:25:17 +0000
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I think that if you are true to self then you may face some delay in achieving your goals but it is for sure that your efforts and honesty will get rewarded one day. Above all at the end of the day when you go to sleep you are contended that u haven't done anything wrong and u have a feeling of satisfaction for neither cheating others and nor yourself
By sumita , BUSINESS MANAGER, IELTS  | 07 27 2010 06:00:43 +0000
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True the art what you run for long run is to compete in business world with the same than to run fair system only for you.


By Rajesh Bakshi, Project Manager, Altruistic Solutions Pvt.Ltd.  | 12 13 2011 04:23:06 +0000
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