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Created by : neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  | 03 18 2011 21:03:31 +0000
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To gain power over and subjugate a person Vs To live as 2 healthy individuals
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Many times in a courtship, we see that men abuse and torture their better halves and girlfriends, but still don't abandon the institution of marriage. In successful marriages, the woman always takes the back seat.The more qualified and rich the man, the worse is the treatment of the opposite sex. What is actually the purpose of marriage, and is it a redundant institution??
By neha singh, Content Editor, Avestia Corp  03 18 2011 21:03:31 +0000
 
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Nice question and I want to say that if they don't want to lead a happy life with their better halves as healthy individuals what is the point??!! A happy relationship is always a balanced relationship ... otherwise better go out of it and find or wait for the right person..
By Darshana Sawant, HR Manager, Leading IT services company  03 19 2011 08:35:21 +0000
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It is lake of balance of out side means earning and inside means expensing.Though running critical time of prise rate is the most main reason of all home wife because she has to feed and manage everything.


By LAXMAN KESHWALA, Freelancer, Telecom/ISP  | 04 14 2011 19:56:11 +0000
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TO be Adam and Eve to maintain continuity of Genreations and inter transmission of Ying and Yang to balnce the nature...
By Swati Sevlani, Journalist, Author, Poet, Photographer and Artist  | 03 22 2011 18:27:24 +0000
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What do you mean by happy, first of all? Marriage is first for an orderly satisfaction of the biological needs of individual. When you say orderly there comes the decipline on various counts. Both the boy and the girl have a family and you have to be part of both and follow the rules and decipline of both. It is the union of two families and not just the boy and girl. You may live separately thats different. Many marriages fail once individuals desire for biological need gets satisfied to some extent and people get tired of sex. That is because they did not analyse and think before started theor love affair if theor families can come together, if they have similar likes and dislikes, if they have the broadmindedness to acsept each others weakness and accept each other as they are or have they thought they chnage the other as per their liking in due cours of time.


By K LAXMINARAYANA RAO, Freelancer  | 03 20 2011 00:42:36 +0000
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married is a very nice product of human
By RAKESH PARMAR, Accounts Executive/Accountant, Government Of Gujarat  | 03 19 2011 12:08:19 +0000
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To maintain chain by healthy life style
By Gopala Krishnan.H, CMD, DJA-Inc  | 03 19 2011 09:21:57 +0000
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@ Neha, pls stop taking an isolationist point of view. there are tonnes of cases out there where the woman has subjugated / tortured her husband and created a lot of trouble in a marriage. Problems in a marriage starts with a woman usually be it the husbands mother or his wife.

Having said that it doesnt mean that there are no ideal couples out there !


By Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group  | 04 29 2011 18:08:20 +0000
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Though this is always the ideal situation, many times it isnt so because of mistakes on both the sides !
By Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group  | 04 29 2011 18:01:07 +0000
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I HAVE EDITED MY COMMENT AND APOLOGIZE EVERYONE OUT HERE, IF I HAVE SAID ANYTHING WRONG.  


By Sairam. M, System Administrator  | 04 12 2011 03:01:28 +0000
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MARRIAGE IS THE UNION OF TWO SOULS.  TWO SOULS SHARE LIFE WITH EACH OTHER, PROMISE EACH OTHER THAT THEY WILL NEVER SWERVE AT EACH AND EVERY MOMENT OF JOY AND SORROW.    

BOTH WALK THE TRADITIONAL SEVEN STEPS AROUND THE FIRE TO COMPLETE THE WEDDING RITUAL SINCE FIRE IS CONSIDERED AS AN AUSPICIOUS SIGN OF PURITY. THERE SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING, FAITH AND LOVE BETWEEN BOTH TO LEAD A HAPPY LIFE.     
 

THANKS FOR REFERRAL DARSHANA...


By Sairam. M, System Administrator  | 04 12 2011 02:50:43 +0000
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Dear Ms Vijaya I support your views. The relationship between individuals as well as families. The dream will be true when we try to reach with honesty. Now men have no physical evidence of wrongdoings and women have. This is the discrimination God created. Hence less no. of men being honest to their better halves and live happily. Most of the families suffered problems which are created by men, of course, thrusted on women. Unless the modern boys changed the values and realise the real meaning of ''Equality'', then only families, at least in India, can taste what is happy married life.
By Venugopal K, AM ( Lean tools), SPB Limited  | 04 12 2011 02:42:39 +0000
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The institution of marriage was set up to preserve and promote God's creation of The Human Race. It is a scientifically accepted fact that all matter is formed from energy. These forms of positive and negative energy The Yin and Yang, or Shiv and Shakti are responsible for Shrishti (creation). The incarnations of God both male and female are manifestations of these energy forms and one of the purposes was to show the way to human beings to live together. The marriage is really the union of two souls - two different energy forms which upon entry into this cosmic world manifest as physical male and female beings. The oaths have been introduced during marriage to protect each other, to care for each other, to promote mutual respect and understanding and to lead a happy and healthy life.


By Pradeep Saran, Technical Expert  | 03 24 2011 16:52:52 +0000
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I support this side as marriage teaches you how to become a responsible

/sensible person in each & every aspect of your life, with caring for your partner.

Thanks for referral, Darshana.


By SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Project Manager, Phadnis Infrastructur Ltd  | 03 22 2011 13:36:14 +0000
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To live as normal healthy human being who can take care of each other in need all through their life.


By Rathin Deb, Freelance Retail Consultant  | 03 21 2011 05:51:22 +0000
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Two people sharing their life and calling life partners... if u cant share well u r being dishonest to urself!!
By Nivedita Mahapatra, Human Recource, RPG SPENCER'S  | 03 19 2011 18:41:21 +0000
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Marriage is a necessity for both to live happy and healthy life.Joining of two minds.Thanks for the referral Ms.Darshana.
By NATTERAJA R. ARIKRISHNAN, GM-Projects, Bentec Electricals & Electronics Pvt. Ltd  | 03 19 2011 17:14:48 +0000
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This universe and the visible world is only created through marriage. It is like a institution for people and society. He who maintains it remains happily and peacefully throughout the life. Our country is still a better place for a married life.


By Santosh Kumar Mohanty, Civil Engineer-Municipal, Sambalpur University  | 03 19 2011 16:45:12 +0000
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To form a family & lead a healthy, prosperous & comfortable life so that, it is meaningful to all (Parents, Community, Nation etc)


By KALIYAMOORTHY , Oil & Gas Area Coordinator, Undisclosed  | 03 19 2011 16:05:29 +0000
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"Marriage" even today for a girl is a security in life and satisfy biological need and for a boy a complete slave in many societies. Sad part is the educated woman and Young people just blindly follow the age old tradition. Young people think they are in love but actually they realise they are only trying to satisfy their biological needs. They realise their mistake only after marriage. They forget that the marriage is a bond between two families. Every young man/woman wants to do the same mistake their father and mother might have committed and wants to learn the same thing after they themselves comit the same mistake. There is aneed tom redefine marriage as per the requirement of modernday. Will this debate comeout with such definition and provide guidance to youngsters and reduce divorce or application of section 398A.
By K LAXMINARAYANA RAO, Freelancer  | 03 19 2011 13:14:26 +0000
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The purpose of marriage is to spiritually, emotionally unite a man and a women together, as husband and wife, in a covenantal relationship between themselves and their Creator.
By manish kumar, SEO | Web-cms Developer | FreeTips-- shoot me an email | Mobile SEO | Do more than Just !  | 03 19 2011 12:51:40 +0000
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Marriage the word brings a lots of dreams in life. It is supposed to be the strongest bond between two individuals. It is a bond that many people enter into for a life time (at least in India). But sometimes it is difficult to maintain the same understanding through the life which ultimately leads to separation. It is all about accepting and loving one as they are.... 


By Vijaya P, Internal Sales, Endress + Hauser  | 03 19 2011 12:00:34 +0000
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it is not for to live as 2 healthy individuals, it is because human are animals who like to live in society and to maintain humanity and from human not going in to animals there should be a mental bonding between two individuals and that is marriage, which includes caring and sharing of both as well as family and society.
By Vivek Muthal, Programmer, Teacher, Student, Freelancer  | 03 19 2011 11:56:01 +0000
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Marriage is the mutual bonding of two persons with lot of varying characteristics. They say.... Men are from mars and women are from venus Bonding of mars and venus is ideal one and a marriage should have a similar bonding of two dissimilar persona but having lot of feeling,love,caring attitude and it is a bonding of two healthy personalities for a purpose of carrying forward their life in happy and respectful manner which would be an ideal example for generations to come.
By GAURAV AGRAWAL, MAINTENANCE MANAGER, SANDEEP METAL CRAFT  | 03 19 2011 10:21:14 +0000
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Marriage is a mutual bond between two individuals, who are meant to care for each other till survival, participate in both sorrow and happiness!
By S. Muralidharan, Executive Director, Knowledge Foundation & Campus Around the Corner  | 03 19 2011 09:45:55 +0000
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very true....married life is all about caring and sharing


By Sasikanth Ramakrishnan, SBU/Profit Center Head Redington India Ltd  | 03 19 2011 09:22:25 +0000
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Best couples support each others to achieve their individual goals in life & not force the other to just support one's own goal without reciprocating.
By Subodh Vinchurkar, Corporate Planning/Strategy Manager, YouMagix.com  | 03 19 2011 09:18:28 +0000
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Marriage is a need for humanity to continue psychically and psychologically.
By Ahmed Fawzy badawi, Automotive MBA Candidate, Vienna Univesity of Technology  | 03 19 2011 09:12:31 +0000
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