It is lake of balance of out side means earning and inside means expensing.Though running critical time of prise rate is the most main reason of all home wife because she has to feed and manage everything.
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LAXMAN KESHWALA, Freelancer, Telecom/ISP
| 04 14 2011 19:56:11 +0000
What do you mean by happy, first of all? Marriage is first for an orderly satisfaction of the biological needs of individual. When you say orderly there comes the decipline on various counts. Both the boy and the girl have a family and you have to be part of both and follow the rules and decipline of both. It is the union of two families and not just the boy and girl. You may live separately thats different. Many marriages fail once individuals desire for biological need gets satisfied to some extent and people get tired of sex. That is because they did not analyse and think before started theor love affair if theor families can come together, if they have similar likes and dislikes, if they have the broadmindedness to acsept each others weakness and accept each other as they are or have they thought they chnage the other as per their liking in due cours of time.
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K LAXMINARAYANA RAO, Freelancer
| 03 20 2011 00:42:36 +0000
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@ Neha, pls stop taking an isolationist point of view. there are tonnes of cases out there where the woman has subjugated / tortured her husband and created a lot of trouble in a marriage. Problems in a marriage starts with a woman usually be it the husbands mother or his wife. Having said that it doesnt mean that there are no ideal couples out there !
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Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group
| 04 29 2011 18:08:20 +0000
MARRIAGE IS THE UNION OF TWO SOULS. TWO SOULS SHARE LIFE WITH EACH OTHER, PROMISE EACH OTHER THAT THEY WILL NEVER SWERVE AT EACH AND EVERY MOMENT OF JOY AND SORROW.
BOTH WALK THE TRADITIONAL SEVEN STEPS AROUND THE FIRE TO COMPLETE THE WEDDING RITUAL SINCE FIRE IS CONSIDERED AS AN AUSPICIOUS SIGN OF PURITY. THERE SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING, FAITH AND LOVE BETWEEN BOTH TO LEAD A HAPPY LIFE. THANKS FOR REFERRAL DARSHANA...
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Sairam. M, System Administrator
| 04 12 2011 02:50:43 +0000
Dear Ms Vijaya I support your views. The relationship between individuals as well as families. The dream will be true when we try to reach with honesty. Now men have no physical evidence of wrongdoings and women have. This is the discrimination God created. Hence less no. of men being honest to their better halves and live happily. Most of the families suffered problems which are created by men, of course, thrusted on women. Unless the modern boys changed the values and realise the real meaning of ''Equality'', then only families, at least in India, can taste what is happy married life.
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Venugopal K, AM ( Lean tools), SPB Limited
| 04 12 2011 02:42:39 +0000
The institution of marriage was set up to preserve and promote God's creation of The Human Race. It is a scientifically accepted fact that all matter is formed from energy. These forms of positive and negative energy The Yin and Yang, or Shiv and Shakti are responsible for Shrishti (creation). The incarnations of God both male and female are manifestations of these energy forms and one of the purposes was to show the way to human beings to live together. The marriage is really the union of two souls - two different energy forms which upon entry into this cosmic world manifest as physical male and female beings. The oaths have been introduced during marriage to protect each other, to care for each other, to promote mutual respect and understanding and to lead a happy and healthy life.
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Pradeep Saran, Technical Expert
| 03 24 2011 16:52:52 +0000
This universe and the visible world is only created through marriage. It is like a institution for people and society. He who maintains it remains happily and peacefully throughout the life. Our country is still a better place for a married life.
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Santosh Kumar Mohanty, Civil Engineer-Municipal, Sambalpur University
| 03 19 2011 16:45:12 +0000
"Marriage" even today for a girl is a security in life and satisfy biological need and for a boy a complete slave in many societies. Sad part is the educated woman and Young people just blindly follow the age old tradition. Young people think they are in love but actually they realise they are only trying to satisfy their biological needs. They realise their mistake only after marriage. They forget that the marriage is a bond between two families. Every young man/woman wants to do the same mistake their father and mother might have committed and wants to learn the same thing after they themselves comit the same mistake. There is aneed tom redefine marriage as per the requirement of modernday. Will this debate comeout with such definition and provide guidance to youngsters and reduce divorce or application of section 398A.
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K LAXMINARAYANA RAO, Freelancer
| 03 19 2011 13:14:26 +0000
Marriage the word brings a lots of dreams in life. It is supposed to be the strongest bond between two individuals. It is a bond that many people enter into for a life time (at least in India). But sometimes it is difficult to maintain the same understanding through the life which ultimately leads to separation. It is all about accepting and loving one as they are....
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Vijaya P, Internal Sales, Endress + Hauser
| 03 19 2011 12:00:34 +0000
it is not for to live as 2 healthy individuals, it is because human are animals who like to live in society and to maintain humanity and from human not going in to animals there should be a mental bonding between two individuals and that is marriage, which includes caring and sharing of both as well as family and society.
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Vivek Muthal, Programmer, Teacher, Student, Freelancer
| 03 19 2011 11:56:01 +0000
Marriage is the mutual bonding of two persons with lot of varying characteristics. They say.... Men are from mars and women are from venus Bonding of mars and venus is ideal one and a marriage should have a similar bonding of two dissimilar persona but having lot of feeling,love,caring attitude and it is a bonding of two healthy personalities for a purpose of carrying forward their life in happy and respectful manner which would be an ideal example for generations to come.
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GAURAV AGRAWAL, MAINTENANCE MANAGER, SANDEEP METAL CRAFT
| 03 19 2011 10:21:14 +0000
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