WHAT WE HAVE TO FOCUS INTO

better to focus on solution rather than problems yes sometimes the problem itself has solution but maximum times it is solution.

One has to keep the broad picture in mind and focus on the cause of the problem to begin with. As  you get closer and closer to implementing the solution, the focus shifts more and more to the solution. The earlier effort in focusing on the CAUSE of the problem helps formulate a solution that will prevent recurrence.

Yes Manoj the problems are a part of life and it should be sorted out in most efficient way. You have quoted the example. It is how one approach to the problem and solve it that what it matters.

Really good one Manoj, Its always simple solutions that work for that matter, and it's us who make things a little complicated and always dwelve on problems rather than finding simple solutions like this, people go for the x-ray machine and the two guys to monitor it an extra burden....really nice one.

Thanks for the referral Mr Manoj,

We all tend to look at the problem, and in doing it make it more complicated, where as the solution can be very simple. You have given a very good example how a complex problem can get an easy solution just by simple thinking.

Gud one Manoj n thanks for inviting me.

It is normal human tendency to focus on the problem rather than the solution for it.  There is a story on this by Osho...He says - The man got up in the morning and did not find his bed slippers at their proper place.  He got irritated and went bare footed to the bathroom.  The tiles were cold and it irrtitated him even more.  He was thinking of the slippers not in their place and started to shave.  He got a cut on the chin and it irritated him even more.  He goes with the same irritated mind, dresses up and goes to the breakfast table, still thinking of the slippers.  Children were making noise and he shouts at them, still thinking of the slippers which were not in place.  He shouts at his wife for supporting the children and walks off not having breakfast.  He starts his car and drives to office.  All along the way, he was still thinking of the missing slippers.  He does'nt see the traffic light and meets with an accident and got admitted to the hospital.  Is all this because of slippers not in place.  Is it not too costly. Problems are very miniscule and the humanbeing is large.  Over a period of time the human thinks more about the problem and not the solution.  So, the problem keeps on growing bigger and bigger and one day the human finds himself very small in front of the problem.  It is due to various factors like negligence, fear to attack it and callousness sometimes.

Here, i would call "problems" as "situations" in life.  Life without "situations" - not possible.  Then, why worry about them.  Face them head high and chest up.  When you really look into the eye of the "situation", you will understand the modus operandi.  We tend to blow them up and look it through a magnifying glass.

Everybodys' "situation" is biggest.  But, think of all the "situations" around you adn you will find your "situation" to be very small.  Life is to stand there and win it over.  I always remember this dialogue from the film Border, when one soldier says to Major - "saab, kuch bhi ho jaaye, hum post nahin chodenge.  hum aakhri goli tak ladenge, par wapas nahin jaayenge" 

What we have to do - is to face the problem and find a solution for the same.  "Solutions" are always available around you, only thing is that one has to search for the same.  Seek the help of near and dear ones if you cannot face it alone.  There are always willing people to do it.  Only go to them with a genuine heart and last but not the least belief in God is the greatest strength one gains to face "situations".