Faith have been disappeared among modern couples due to their complicated lifestyles they lead. They do not have time to understand each other then how can they solve their problems. After office hours they are busy at their own parties and comes late night after which all the problems starts.If they want to solve this problem they have to change their lifestyles.
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Ankush Nandy, Business Executive, JMD Organization
| 08 12 2010 18:13:17 +0000
I want to add the point of Intolerance amongs couples to both the points mentioned. A busy lifestyle leaves less space for communication and thereby lower tolerance levels for one partner over the other. A result of all this are the inflated ego's which leads to a total break down.
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Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group
| 08 08 2010 16:22:34 +0000
Its purely attitude problem,every step girl wanted to take part ! Good But coming to real life ,Mother is first teacher for Kids ,not the maids,baby school or Grandparents. If women do'nt care for the simple things ,just talking or working or growing them self. Their comes misunderstanding ,which leads to Divorce..Reason is simple.
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Amar Viplow.B, Geographic Information Systems-GIS
| 07 26 2010 10:13:33 +0000
Government must make rules and guidelines to safeguard people's work habits, Like in different countries like Singapore Working hours per week are fixed, moreover the government also controls needs of people like the food and shelter Infrastructure is also important, people should get some breather space while at work, good public infrastructure assures people the safety and peace of mind Every indian city is becoming messy with poor goverence and congestion people spend 2-3 hours daily in travel, this time should be reduced so that people can have some time to spend at home with near and dear ones Everyone should get some breather space and spend holidays with familly, moreover joint familly culture should be encouraged amongst society
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ABHIJIT KULKARNI, Project Manager, BNP Paribas
| 07 24 2010 11:01:49 +0000
Busy lifestyle is one of the reason for communicaton gap. The first priority goes to - how to run the house with the limited income, then starts the daily struggle and it cosumes most of the time which gives rise to lesser communication with each other, hence more differences.
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Mamta Sachdeva, Business Development Manager, Web designing
| 07 23 2010 09:26:18 +0000
As a independent couple every time they expect same respect for each other but as a Indian value and tradition it does not happen and could create conflict between each other. Some time their parent expect to be like a trational values and they misunderstand each other like love marriage this not a Indian tradition but now its so common because both independent they feel a equal respect which also cause divorce So, may be these changed environment cause divorce.
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Manmath Patil, Marketing executive
| 07 22 2010 13:29:22 +0000
I think now days due to busy lifestyle both husband and wife have no enough time for their family matter and due to that they are not trying to under stand each other better way. Also on same platform they have different view which causes ego in their relation ship. If both are capable to earn equally then they never try to adjust. Marriage name vehicle run only on trust name road according to drivers drive skill. If driver not drive as per rules he surely make accident.
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Diwakar Tiwari, Sr. Manager, THE Arvind LTD
| 07 22 2010 10:26:39 +0000
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I think lack of understanding and trust is biggest reason behind this. Couples are failing to establish trust which is must for any relationship and its healthy survival.......i think there should be more focus on frank communication rather than time pass love and care.
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Gurpreet Singh, Associate/Senior Associate, BA Continuum Solutions
| 08 12 2010 17:17:29 +0000
No.of divorce cases is increasing hugely in India,because of communication gap or busy lifestyle?I don't think so,divorce cases are increasing in no. because today we lost our essential values and traditions in the blind pursuit of money and luxuries,in the reckless pursuit of western culture,we want to live for our own happiness, without thinking of the feelings of others, we forgot to be humble and submissive,instead we have become more ambitious and arrogant as well. Ego clash, individual identity etc, are the more effective causes for increasing divorces.multi tasking is also responsible for divorces.
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Dinesh , MBA/PGDM student, PROTON bschool, ahmd.Gujarat
| 08 12 2010 16:58:41 +0000
Communication gap only but it can rise only when either of the partner/or both the partners are having ego and sometimes when income of one of the partner particularly of the woman rises than the mans.
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Sujay Kumar, Vice President, Triton Synergies Pvt Ltd
| 08 12 2010 16:01:37 +0000
Yes, i agree with communication gap. now-a-days the couples or married twos are not looking at each other and talk for long time. since the mobile has come, internet/chat has come, tv/cable has come so everyone is buzy watching the media and enjoy or just use the phones and chat to talk which are not bringing them close anymore. But the true understanding comes only when the two meet each other very frequently and daily and sit upon for merely sharing and understanding and accepting each other too. The best one always is to sit up and talk. Thanks.
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charles boro, QA&QC-Executive, compvue
| 07 26 2010 11:20:23 +0000
This is just because of communication gap, Actually busy lifestyle is also a reason but it also leads to communication gap, now peoples are so busy, they don't have time to talk with their partners which creates communication gap. Sometimes if they fight, they don;t even have to discuss the topic and they start arguing on different past topics and finally they decided to take divorce and later they both realise about their mistakes and then some peoples try to confess. But at that time they are late.........
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Ankit Goel, SCS, Hewitt Associates
| 07 26 2010 08:37:10 +0000
I do agree with Shwetha, today everyone is working hard, running behind luxuries life style.. ego arises if no body speaks out.. communcation gap plays a vital role in a divorce as "EGO"..
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hariharan , middlemanagement, cigeratte
| 07 26 2010 08:28:22 +0000
Good day, Communication is very very important to understand eachother as well as to have believe in any relationship. However either busy life or normal life, if we miss the communication or having miscommunication should creat a problem. We please must understand any relationship whatever we have, should listen and do have good communication. If we have clear communication, even if we have busy life. We can arrange it properly with out any problem. Lifestyle is changing and being in our country based on the economical and culture. Purpose of communication should not change for ever, even earlier days or nowdays or future. Communication is very very important. Ofcourse our life will be best in all aspects. Regards M.K.Thamaraiselvan 0065 98128301 mkthamaraiselvan@yaoo.com Many of the divorce case, because of the mis coummunication.
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M.K.Thamaraiselvan , Oracle AppsDBA cum Oracle ERP Product Integration Manager - Senior Consultant, HCL Singapore ~ Deutsche Bank Singapore
| 07 26 2010 08:25:04 +0000
I agree with Shweta. Today everone is running after money, wanna have premium life style comfortable home luxury car all facilities on their finger tips making them only work work n work so when it's time to return back home one returns with lot of professional issues in mind having no focus on personal front creating communication gaps, lack of peace of mind & all this slowly over a period of time leads to personal dissatisfaction.
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RAKESH KESHAV MORE, ASST SALES MANGER , DRIVE INDIA ENTERPRISE SOLUTIONS LIMITED
| 07 26 2010 07:51:59 +0000
To my opinion comunication is the suceess of every human being .a proper comunication is nowdays the issue for divorce
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Davies francis, Analyst, self
| 07 24 2010 10:25:18 +0000
Sure Its because of communication gap...now a days there is no mutual misunderstanding b/w couples..there is lot of communication gap b/w husbnd n wife that cause misunderstanding...finally the war ends at divorce!!!!
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Pradeep B M, Software Developer, heliosys technologies pvt ltd
| 07 23 2010 09:30:35 +0000
what so ever may be the lifestyle or busy in own, people can easily get time in sequences or interuptedly to cope up with each other every time by any means. Have you ever find anybodies friends tuned foes? Not always, this is due to proper comunication among them. Its totally comunication gap which is gradually turned to ego to follow the divorce steps. Their is amicable solution for every problem, which needs a proper, open and easy comunication.
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Jyoti CHETANI, Freelancer, Equity Research/Analytics
| 07 22 2010 11:44:05 +0000
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