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Created by : KUMAR SAURABH JHA, HR Manager  | 02 14 2010 09:33:07 +0000
Keywords : remarriage
Activity:  1971 views;  last activity : 12 10 2010 13:43:14 +0000

After the demise of wife a man is usually recommended for second marriage but on the same time if husband dies woman is asked to live lifeless.

Is it ethical that we enforce our adamant and orthodox tradition over the women who become a widow unfortunately.She is at once asked to stop non vegetarian, if she used ti have and also the make up.

Hasn't she the right to breathe freely and take care of her and wards.

 
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A widow is a woman too and she has got every right to live her life. I think society should encourage people willing to marry a widow. This will uplift the society and the morality of the people. Laws has been made to protect the marriage of widows, we are no more an ignorant society who just covers up social evils which prevented widow marriages.  


By Meena Deshmukh, Product/Brand Manager, Videocon Inds  02 15 2010 07:20:21 +0000
 
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Dear Saurabh!! Valid discussion, but not the right type!! This is an ideal Q & A not a debate because it wqould be totally one sided with the kind of professionals on this platform. Sorry, not supporting No, but am not supporting this question as a debate!!


By Makrand Bhave, AGM - Corporate Business, E18, part of Network 18 Group  02 15 2010 07:27:47 +0000
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To hell with this society which have all rules & regulations are favoring & taking care of man's interest only. Widow has ever right of second marriage.
By SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Zonal Manager / Sr. Project Manager ( Civil Engineering), Kumar Properties  | 12 10 2010 13:43:14 +0000
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EVERYONE TALKS ABOUT REMARRIAGE OF A WIDOW,JUSTIFYING THE CAUSE OF WIDOWS.IF ONE GOES A BIT DEEP  WE CAN UNDERSTAND A SIMPLE UNNOTICED TRUTH THAT WIDOWS,THOUGH WOMEN ARE PROJECTED AS  WEAKER SEX,ARE ABLE TO WITHSTAND THE STRESS &STRAIN OF EVERYDAY LIFE,CONTRIBUTE TO THE UPCOMING OF HER CHILDREN,FULFILLING THEIR AMBITIONS AND ASPIRATIONS AND THAT OF HER HUSBAND,SINGLE HANDEDLY WITHOUT ANY REMARRIAGE.ON TH CONTRARY MEN FOLK WITH SO MANY PERCEIVED OR PROJECTED CAPABILITIES GET INTO REMARRIAGE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.THE INFERENCE IS MEN ARE NOT ABLE TO DO THEIR DUTIES AND FULFILL THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT A WIFE.MORE WIDOWS AND FEW WIDOWERS CONFIRM THIS INFERENCE.SO LET US SHED DOWN OUR INHIBITIONS,PREJUDICES,BIASED MIND AND START ENCOURAGING REMARRIAGE OF WOMEN.


By s.baalu , Consultant, XYZ LTD  | 03 30 2010 07:30:37 +0000
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Yes Ms.Meena, you are right. I have similar opinion.But, is it possible to change our society so easy....


By NATTERAJA R. ARIKRISHNAN, GM-Projects, Bentec Electricals & Electronics Pvt. Ltd  | 02 15 2010 20:14:50 +0000
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Marriage is a  social institution that protects and supports  family relationships by providing a set of rights,privileges & responsibilities.Without  widow-remarriage ,how Her rights ,privileges and other pious activities can be maintained?


By Ranjeet Kumar, Strategic HR Professional  | 02 15 2010 17:21:16 +0000
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Hi, I fell in todays contexet there will not be any debate on this issue, as because Raja Rammohan Roy, Iswar Chandra Vidya Sagar had fought for the right of those women who sacrifice herself on the funeral pyre of her husband and later on they have raised there voice in favour of  the widow marriages. In India Hindu Widows Re-marriage Act, 1856. GOVERNMENT OF INDIA MINISTRY OF LAW was recomended.

Therefore, it is quite surprise for me that even in 21st century where live in relation, homo sextuality are the topics which are creating strome in the socity, we are even considering this topics to DEBATE.

 


By SANKHA SUBHRA DUTTA, AREA SALES MANAGER, NILKAMAL LTD  | 02 15 2010 14:43:43 +0000
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I fully support your ideas on this and agree with you. Every one ,man or women, has right to live in their own way.


By R.K.MALHOTRA , country head  | 02 15 2010 13:13:22 +0000
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Nobody has any control over death. That is the ultimate truth. But because if some one has left this world I believe that life must move on. GOD also has given this message.

And if second marriage can bring in Happiness and love that why not. It gives stability to family, society as well as to nation


By Vijay Kumar Gupta, Vice President, Bharat Seats Limited  | 02 15 2010 09:57:08 +0000
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Widowness is a mere luck but not a fullstop of life. Life goes on and on. And its one chance that a person get to live a kingsize life. This is one of the oldest issue but still exists- shame on us.

No rule, no custom, or religion should prohibit a man and woman from expressing their emotion (loving and getting mrried to someone), from wearing some beautifull outfits, eating their favourite cuisine. I think prohibiting these rights to a person who has lost her partner is not only un-ethical but also cruel.

On the other hand it is quite shameful for us that there is lot of disparity between man and woman even today(21st century). Right for man and woman should be equal except which is endowed by GOD.

Sarcastically no one is going to be benefitted by not allowing marriage of widow.


By Syed Fareh-uz Zaman, Causal Research Team Leader, Brooke-India  | 02 15 2010 09:49:58 +0000
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Why should a woman be differnet from a man in terms of rights and responsibilities?


By Ravi Asrani, Head of Marketing, Merchandising and Operations, Geebee Garments FZE  | 02 15 2010 09:23:52 +0000
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TIME HAS CHANGED KUMAR, EDUCATION AND AWARENESS LEVEL HAS INCREASED IN WEL MANNER....ALL THE WAY EDUCATION PLAYS A MAJOR ROLE...I EXPERIENCED SUCH EXAMPLES WHERE LAW'S INSISTED HER TO GET RE MARRIED....ITS A THINKING OF 1990S....

REMARRIED IS THE RIGHT OF WOMAN...NOBODY CAN OBJECT JUDICIALLY....


By Nitin M Aras, Head/VP/GM-Tech. Support, ODTIN Food Solutions Pvt Ltd  | 02 15 2010 07:27:07 +0000
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Any widow has the right to marry another person. A widow getting married is absolutely right if she can put behind her the time with her last husband who died. It's never to look for a replacement, as no-one replaces the man who is lost, but a successor is a different thing. And It is the duty of the society to encourage widow marriage.

 


By Dayanand Deshpande, Senior Consultant, Ernst & Young  | 02 15 2010 06:59:08 +0000
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Keeping the society aside any widow should be allowed to live normally and take care of all the responsibilities well that could not be taken care of due to demise of her spouse.

If young one should try for her remarriage for security.

 


By KUMAR SAURABH JHA, HR Manager  | 02 14 2010 09:33:07 +0000
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Righ on -  There is nothing to debate.

No sensible person will argue that women shall have lesser rights than men.   

In my view, the  currrent inheritance rules also should change.

A widow marrying again shall have the right to retain husband's wealth she became eligible in  her earleir marriage/s.


By P. Abraham Paul, MD FCOMNET  | 02 17 2010 05:29:39 +0000
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I agree Makrand. However, this is not the stone age. Women and men should have equal rights.


By Devi Kaladeen, Audit Manager, Health Sector Development Unit  | 02 15 2010 18:17:50 +0000
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Truly Said,

 

But Where is HUMAN RIGHTS?


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