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Started by : Sarika Singh, Assistant Professor, BIT   04 14 2011 04:41:56 +0000
Activity:  60 views;  last activity : 04 25 2011 17:48:42 +0000

Sometimes we find a mail in our inbox which makes us feel really bad. They say "I hate you" or say "You are a loser" or anything which is not acceptable .. It happens and it happens everywhere.. The question is why??


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1 Cowardness
2 Confirmation with Proof
3 Timidity drives a person to let loose pant up anger
4 Pleasure of turning sumone off
5 ATTITUDE, ACCEPTABILTY AND ADOPTABILITY
6 Frustration
7 Dislike converts to Hate
8 Resistance to Change

Cowardness

idea posted by Sarika Singh Assistant Professor, BIT

A person who does not have guts to come and tell what he feels does such things... It is a behavior pattern of losers.

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Such mails need to ascertain the behavior of both the sender and the recipient of the mails.we do not know the relationship between them.

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by puneet , Manager Admin  | 04 24 2011 14:58:37 +0000

might be possible sarika

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May be you are true in saying so. I support your idea & thanks for referral.

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Confirmation with Proof

idea posted by N. NAGESHWARAN ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICER, M/s. KEC INTERNATIONAL LTD. (an RPG group)
I any mail comes like that means the sender knows very well that what he/she wants to convey, could be conveyed only thru paper as confirmation of proof because the receipient is arrogant/not a good listner. This is one way to make one understand how a small subject could be handled in a smooth way. Also most of the times after verbal confirmation the other party denies at very next minute that nothing was dealt like that. So to avoid all these nuisances, people put every thing on paper thru mail which works as proof of confirmation.
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Well! I have never recieved such emails till date, but i think your idea could be one of the reasons for such emails. as u said "recipient is not a good listner".For such recipients one can adopt this way to communicate or i feel, better not to communicate.

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Timidity drives a person to let loose pant up anger

idea posted by Mohammad Bakhsh Project Leader/Managing Consultant, Freelancer
The hate mails are more a psychological burden one carries rather than a miss directed one.Such mails deserve to be deleted without response. Thanks,Sarika for referral.
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by Sairam. M, System Administrator  | 08 12 2011 11:20:25 +0000

I AGREE WITH SIR, IN ADDITION TO THE ABOVE, PRESS SPAM BUTTON, SO THAT, IF THE SAME PERSON SENDS AN EMAIL AGAIN, IT WILL BE REDIRECTED TO SPAM FOLDER. 

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Pleasure of turning sumone off

idea posted by Ravi Kumar Choudhary Planning Manager, Encube ethicals Pvt. Ltd.
Their are people who get a special pleasure in getting into skin of others. You can find such creeps in many social networking sites...Just Ignore them!!
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ATTITUDE, ACCEPTABILTY AND ADOPTABILITY

idea posted by sudhakar BUSINESS CONSULTANT
THE SO CALLED 3 A'S ARE MOST IMPORTANT IN EVERYONE'S LIFE IF ANY ONE IS MISSING THE WHOLE THINGS BECOME EXACTLY ROTTEN
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Frustration

idea posted by Zubair Irshad Business Associate, Captain International General Trading
Anything that is not possible by saying in person, making the identity public makes the weak people frustrate. Hate mails are one of the reason those weak & frustrated minds to convey "misconcept" with an illusion of correctness.
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Dislike converts to Hate

idea posted by Vivek Muthal Programmer, Teacher, Student, Freelancer
When any person dislike something in you, and can not directly speak to you because he/she thinks you are not a good listener, or he/she is that much frustrated that converts his dislike to hate, he/she thinks mail is a better way to communicate, it depends on peoples nature, some write mails,some calls, and some directly speaks. It totally depend on the person who is frustrated that which type of language he/she will use in his/her mail. Most of the time they just want to give one message, that is "They dislike something in you, and so that they hate you" To handle such mails/ people try to make their dislikes to likes by compromising only if the person is closer to you.
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Resistance to Change

idea posted by Harender Singh Marketing Manager, Eko India Financial Services
Lack of knowledge don't let the people to understand the discussion and immediately jumps to the conclusion "will not work" many times don't know the exact problem and try to give solutions, when unheard resistance occured, which is law of nature for every change their is resistance to it even change is for better.
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