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Started by : Diya Mehra, Executive search, ABC consulting   02 28 2011 06:56:41 +0000
Industry : Human Resources (HR) Consulting
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Work..work and work.. It keeps you away from your family and st times husband and wife have to work in different cities. This becomes really difficult. Well, maintianing relations in same city are difficult then different cities is a bigger issue isn't it..What are the simple ways to maintain a distance relationship?

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1 Mutual understanding & in touch
2 Define your boundaries
3 Maintain Trust
4 Keep in Touch
5 proper communication
6 communication
7 Belief in one another.
8 Regular communication through social networking
9 Fundamentals are the same
10 Be mature and seek first to understand before bunderstood

Mutual understanding & in touch

idea posted by Virag Shah Confidential
Regulary in touch, trustworthiness and mutual understanding sign of good as well as maintain relationship..
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Talking only when it required,and giving space to one another.Its not important to spend hours on phone.

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The Indian Marriage Institute is not based on the distance relationships. It is based on togetherness. Now, with the changing times, if one has to stay away from the family because of jobs mutual understanding is very important. In the modern days the communication has become too easy and less expensive. Hence, keeping in touch will always help. It will develope a bond not only between you two but also between you and your children.

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by santhanam sudhakar, CEO/MD/Director, subhasharecare  | 02 28 2011 09:40:05 +0000

Frequent touch by phone should be in daily routine...

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Define your boundaries

idea posted by Diya Mehra Executive search, ABC consulting

Talk to your partner and decide what is okay and what isn’t when you both are apart. Some sort of rules always help if either of you are feeling alone and vulnerable towards breaking it up.

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by Er. Harnam Singh, Project Manager, CPWD  | 03 01 2011 05:27:21 +0000

Is it not valid for normal relationships, I mean when staying in same cities. You have to take care of the realtionships same way but we all are good at advising others and may be most of us are not good at our homes at some of the times on some of locations and on some days. But it is good to know about shortcomings and work upon these sincerly. And best of all is keep communications open.

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by Rathin Deb, Freelance Retail Consultant  | 02 28 2011 10:55:55 +0000

Agree with your idea.

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Maintain Trust

idea posted by Tanima First Medical Services Pvt. Ltd.
Trust is necessary in every relationship. But in Distance relationship it requires the most. Be transparent in everything you do and inform your partner on each and every detail of what's going on. Never do anything which she/he can't accept becuase when he/she will know this it create a very bad situation. Make him/her belive that you are for him/her and what ever you are doing is in the bounderies of trust. Small things become even more important when you are in a long distance relationship. Sending cards, special gifts, remembering anniversaries and special events, are all very important. If you are in a different time zone figure out the time differences and leave special messages
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This is more important when we are staying in nuclear families. Let your family (read spouse) make himself/herself comfortable in changed situations - with new faces around him/her. This can be either looked as a threat or an assurance of other's well being based on the absense or presence of trust.

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Keep in Touch

idea posted by Suryanarayan Murthy Asst Vice President (Corporate Finance), A Hydro Power Project
Keep in touch with them, by post, by mail or by phone. Enquire about their well being. Create a feeling that they can depend on you, in case ....
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The best way to maintain distance relationship.

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proper communication

idea posted by kannan Head/VP/GM-Accounts, own office
every matters should keep in touch. no involvement of third party is must because they may change the whole life into zero.
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communication

idea posted by sanjeev wadhwa self employed,
idea is this is concept of only understanding of couple, how they trust , and what they feel,and media internet is better way to connect ,and new thing 3g service u can stay all time with ur partner,and for pyh.celebrate weekend for refreshment hahahhahah
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Belief in one another.

idea posted by kanukurthy sudershanrao Operations Manager, Andhra Bank
It is belief in one another that keeps the relationship together no matter how near or how far they are
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Regular communication through social networking

idea posted by Onkar Datt Sharma Manager (Technical), Retired
In today's busy life and distances, one can maintain our distant relationship through social networking like face book, twitter etc. and most of the people are doing it already
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Fundamentals are the same

idea posted by Nitin Mehra Software Developer, ROBOMAN MICROSYSTEMS

Well the Fundamentals never change in anything. first of all you should be purely attached to maintain the relationship. if you will have this you will found all the way to maintain relationship. In this world we are used to think from mind. I think to make a relation the only thing we need is heart. Rest Doesnt matter there are many ways to be in touch if you want to be in touch really.

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Be mature and seek first to understand before bunderstood

idea posted by Suren Panday CEO/MD/Director, SADL Consulting Services cc
As you rightfully point out maintaining relationships on a daily basis in the same city is challenging. When one considers long distance relationships you have to be mature and rationale because : 1. Work committments will still get in the way 2. Sometimes people assume incorrectly 3. If you are working late, or are away on conference your partner may miunderstand the situation 4. You develop new frienships/ bonds and the partner feels insecure Lond distance relationships can work --- but it will be challenging and difficult and I salute individuals who can succeed in maintaining such relationships
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