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last activity : 07 06 2010 20:18:09 +0000
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Give importance to personnel life as serious as that of professional life
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Co-ordination b/w Work & Perosnal Life
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Find Some value added work where you can work from home or work part time
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Do not bring home your worries.
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Work hard, party harder
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Have personal goals for both personal and professional life
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Believe that - You are a NOT your profession. It is just one part of you.
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Take a weekend break
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Most of the people are forgetting about their family life once they will sink into their work. If one give the same importance to personnel life as much as they are giving to their professional life then defenitely it should be a balanced life. How many of us will remember and try to keep the commitments given to kids or others like taking them for outing or attend a PTA meeting when we are in work. May be we simply make a phone call and tell them I am busy, which will spoil the family atmosphere. Treat promises in family life as that of a buisiness meeting |
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Yes, you are right Manoj.
Family life is equally important to work, as we are doing /earning for our
family.
A proer space/time should be given to all family members from your busy
schedule.Just spend 1 hour with your kid without doing anything & just be
there to watch him/her & forget all your work commitments.
I bet all of you , that you have heaven at your feet.
Family is as important as your work.
Yes, most of us take our family as granted and start thinking what ever we r doing its all for our family, thus they will be always with us. This is not right actually; we need to give attention to our family, to have a better bonding btwn the members for each passing time and situation. In fact family is such a powerful weapon with which we can fight against the whole world.
You've said it all Kandadai Sa'ab. I am totally with you on this with but a small apprehension. As you had asked in your post, HOW MANY OF US COULD HONESTLY SAY THAT SUCH A LIFESTYLE IS IMPOSSIBLE? Keeping everything aside, I have been trying to do as you've suggested but then ...
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I would rather not consider my job as a career. A career is the trajectory of one's job profiles. As one moves from one position to another, the stream of positions constitute the career of the person. Now, you can see that positions come in their due time, so it is not very helpful to focus on having a career. What is important is that one should concentrate on the present job, present hour and the present moment. |
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Yes, Co-ordination b/w work & personal life is most important. We earn for family so both are important.
No options! Through out the life only competition! These are the words from the parents, from teachers, bosses that control the life of a youth in the present scenario. The system makes them mechanical, a human robot until the mid age from where it is too late to recover. The HR people in the Company and CEOs can play a major role to save these people. The young should be taught methodically about the science of living through time management and balanced life. The company should help them to grow socially for a better future of the nation as well as the company it self.
It is most important that when we do work we should have good co-ordination between work life and personal life.
Now a days what we could see is neglect of health, sleep, timely food are taking toll of the youth resulting in deteriotion of health by say between 28 years and 35 years depending upon upkeep of health. ultimately sacrificing 30 years of career for 5 to 8 or 10 years.
Under these circumstances youth should understand the degree or level of burden the body or mind should be given.
Companies, HR people, Govt, Human Resources Dept of Govt. should look at this phenomena. Youth also should be clever enough to understand this complexity and choose companies and careers.
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You have to think copiously and set your priorities in life. You must have read the story of MIDAS TOUCH. Gold or money alone do not necessarily bring joy and satisfaction in life. So you need to find an appropriate Trade-Off between your monetary ambitions and desire for quality life. |
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Work is part of every ones life,there is no two ways about it.I feel that what can be done however is not to loiter around work,get back to your loved ones carrying lots of love in your heart a rose or two for your wife whenever you are late and chocolates for the kids and yourself. |
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This is the ideal thing to do, but to draw a clear cut line between the Work & Personal life has become very difficult now a days, courtsey to the modern gadgets like mobiles - black berries !!! You have no way to escape from work even if you are at home. Its just physically being home, but mentally still at office. One must be able to spend dedicated quality time with family to justify his/her commitment towards the near & dear ones.
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The purpose of making a career, is not only to excel at work and make a mark as a professional, but to have an equally rewarding personal life. Thats how a complete individuality can be developed. The catch is to balance both sides of life and not compromise on any of them. Work will never cease, and each day in a relationship will never come back. Hence it is upto the individual to balance it in such a manner so that neither suffers. |
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One should have his/her own personal goals to achieve both for personal and professional life. Take out time to introspect and see where you stand in terms of achieving the goals in both the lives. You need to have a correct balance to maintain both and don’t take neither of them granted and mark a clear demarcation based on one’s own priority. |
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Here in India a person is identified with his/her profession. We do not have the maturity to see a person as a whole. If we individuals start looking at ourselves as a whole instead of identifying ourselves with our profession, we will automatically give quality time in all areas of our lives.
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This is practised in western countries ,particularly USA,wherein after a guelling week the individuals go to hill stations and such places for total reaxation for 2 days and refresh themselves for the week ahead |
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This is a very important topic that should be taken seriously by policy makers and those in charge of the Labour and Productivity sectors of any nation. We must all realise that without life there is no existence and without family there is no regeneration of the human beings that will continue to form the workforce that keep our economies booming. Work time and scheduling should be done with cognizance of personal time and a reduction in working hours without a cut in pay should be given to working mothers. Nowadays, there is so much demand on workers that has no regard for their personal/family quality time. |
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Many of us use facebook. Job hhunting on facebook does not look much believable and we are forced to think that will it work? Still there are few things which can be done to atleast increase our possibilities. 1. Join right communities and... |
Ok now you might like s/w field but might not suit you. So what try and figure out what are you good at. Do not think about money. Once you have figured out make yourself best in that field and money will follow. |
Ok now you might like s/w field but might not suit you. So what try and figure out what are you good at. Do not think about money. Once you have figured out make yourself best in that field and money will follow. |

