Job Loss: How to minimize the effects on your marriage & family?

A parent’s job loss significantly changes a child’s world. Children are perceptive; they know when something is wrong, so it is futile to hide your concerns from them. Without understanding the reason for the unhappiness in their home, children may blame themselves and feel responsible for mom or dad’s sadness or anger. You must make a point of telling your children that what has happened is not their fault. Children can be understanding and supportive when they know they are not to blame.

most youngsters gets jobs with fancy salaries, they not properly manage the funds, with out assessment of risk and concerns invest their money, take loans for the needs which are beyond their capacity if some things goes wrongs.  This is the wrong step they do. one has to avoid it. plan the needs to be fulfilled carefully, so that nothing goes wrong even one looses the job.

secondly positive attitude towards life, what ever happens is for our good. do not afraid or panic we can do wonders by hard work. The moment you fear you are nobody. In crucial times like job loss, plan the budget, do petty jobs, gain knowledge in career, at last knowledge is power. who acquires this power will never looses any thing in life. time shines the life, shows the way.  Think once after all what we require is just food to survive whether we can`t able to get that. definitely so never loose the guts we are capable of changing ourselves.

Denying or ignoring your feelings might temporarily cushion your discomfort, but it will only prolong your misery. Allow yourself to grieve, feel anger or be depressed or anxious. Have a good cry if you feel like it or hit a pillow to vent your rage at the unfairness of the situation.

It may help to offload your anger onto paper: write it down and get rid of it so it does not sabotage your job search. Just don’t allow yourself to wallow in misery or take it out on your family. If you are to recapture the positive frame of mind you need to find another job, you must first work your way through your own negativity.

In today's word,where hire and fire is fast gaining popularity,the saving is the only by word.

That problem is mostly in asia, in asia i realized in pakistan and india there is same culture mostly people face that types problem, i thoughts if you have own home/apartment you can on 30 thousand otherwise above 40 thousand salary you can plan to marry not less then on this package you can live only for own home support nothing for else.

reduce yr expence.save money of unecessary outside giving work.