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Psycological help at school and by parents
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Requires parental care
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Emotional Intelligence is of vital importance
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Change in education pattern
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Don't put pressure on little minds.
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Teach a child to avoid RAT RACE TRAP
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Pressure on the student by parents, peers etc
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Students must take responsibility
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having consider psychological co ordination at time of admission of student in colleges
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parents need to understand their phychology
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Support needed
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Stop Paying heavy Premium/Donations for Admission
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My Learning Center
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Parents have to take charge !
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Identify talents
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AVOID COMPARISON
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Partents need to understand and accept the truth of practical life
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Partents need to understand and accept the truth of practical life
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parents need to understand their phychology
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Career
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Become Internally Stronger
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lack of affection from parents
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OVERALL DEVELOPMENT OF THE STUDENTS WILL BE CONSIDERED WHILE EVALUATION IS DONE
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lack of affection from parents
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lack of affection from parents
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lack of affection from parents
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Understand the aptitude of students
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Parents should understand there kinds phychology
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Avoid comparison with other students
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Illusion.
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Life becomes hard if you start thinking it is hard and hence the first step is to make a child realise that it is not as difficult as she thinks it to be. Fot this human psycology should be introduced as a subject so students do not find it hard to ask for help. |
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Jaygopal Raghavan, Marketing Manager, Landmark Group
| 01 09 2013 10:43:56 +0000
Money or lack of it is not the only thing contributing to suicides. It goes much deeper than that - there is infatuation, pressure of an outdated education system, peer pressure, lack of enough work opportunities, advent of violence in TV & Cinema etc. These run deeper than the lack or presence of money i feel.Counselling should be a part and parcel of all schools even nursery ones and these shouldnt be given a license to operate if they dont have a resident consellor and this should be verified through frequent checks by the child welfare dept and not the education dept or an NGO in this field should be given the task of checking nationwide on institutions !
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Rathin Deb, Advisor and retail consultant, currently as Branch Manager, Tower Infotech Ltd
| 01 09 2013 09:07:59 +0000
Today the life has become materialistic and if the kids see presently they are tied from all sides since their friends spent a lot of money and wheareas they are not in a position to do so. Here the role of Parents become very very important so that the suicidal tendency do not creep in.
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Vinoy Scaria James, Tour Consultant., Guiders Mission Tours & Travels
| 10 09 2012 05:47:58 +0000
It is a task worth investing in. The competition is intense when appearing for the exams and good psychological assistance can be a major balm for the students at their tender age.
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We cant change the scenario altogether single handedly. We are living in a competitive world. One has to digest the issue. If you think otherwise, you are left behind. To cope with the competition and pressure, parents need to take utmost care right from the nursery standards. Both the parents shall leave space for their kid to share his/her views instead of sending them to tuition. They must discuss with their kid(s) on the subjects being taught in school on daily basis and help them wherever required and make them realise the situation out.
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vijaya shanbhag, Proprieter, Vijaya Services( Logo Designer)
| 03 12 2013 11:33:21 +0000
Our school was very good our teachers used to take us for surveys in slum areas.... then also we had a subject " Khari Kamai " -- in this we had to visit 100 people's houses and ask for small small petty works at their homes--like cleaning rice,cutting vegetables, filling a tank of water, sweeping the floor, wiping the fridge, drying the clothes on the clothes-line etc etc Every student had to do this even rich student had to do this.And for each work we were getting only 20 paise,or 15 paise. And we had to complete this survey and submit within 3 days.Such type of lessons should be taught in schools..
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Shanti Majoi Deori, Director Marketing (North East India), Globe Trot Tours & Travels
| 10 06 2012 05:30:28 +0000
The parents will do well not to over burden their children and also give them emotional and mental strength. Parents can turn out at times to be too cruel in their desire to see their boys do well.
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vijaya shanbhag, Proprieter, Vijaya Services( Logo Designer)
| 06 10 2012 00:23:04 +0000
Suicides are taking place mostly because of Parents and some teachers who pester and harass the students to study more.The portion in schools nowadays is too much that a child cannot cope up with the studies.Hence neither parents nor teachers should pester students to study more and be liberal and understand the needs of the child and also make them see poor families , how they live and practical approach should be taught to children.
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In today's competitive world EQ is very important when compared to IQ.In our childhood days competition was very tough in studies as well as extra-curricular activities, but that competition was very healthy. I suggest emotional intelligence is required both to parents and teachers in order to guide the children in a better way. Children are being very sensitive nowadays in turn they are given more stress right from the nursery which is not good at their tender age. In order to face the challenges children should be brought up with strong emotional intelligence |
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Vinoy Scaria James, Tour Consultant., Guiders Mission Tours & Travels
| 01 19 2013 08:54:30 +0000
Yes I agree wholeheartedly to the suggetion that growth of EQ should be relooked in the curriculum. I also wholly in line with Shanti's contention that that such an investment will bear wonderfull results in the future.
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Shanti Majoi Deori, Director Marketing (North East India), Globe Trot Tours & Travels
| 10 06 2012 05:29:07 +0000
Yes at the universities we got to increase the EQ of a student. It will help them in the long term in their career and life.
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Lakshmi Narasimhan, B.Tech/B.E. student, V.S.B.Engineering College
| 11 21 2011 10:57:27 +0000
Emotional Intelligence, according to me is a vital requirement in today's world. When we are ready to say that kids are matured enough to know things quickly, we should also think that kids are going through a lot of stress and tensions right from their school times to bed times. So teaching kids about how to handle emotional situations shapes them in a better way and they get ready to face the situation and will be able to differentiate the right and the wrong things effectively. Thank you
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Even after prolonged enlightenment on the need to revamp the system, progress still eludes. immediate attention is warranted
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Renashmi Kaur, Events/Promotion Executive, Eventzo Delight Pvt. Ltd.
| 10 06 2012 07:35:16 +0000
The education pattern should be changed to accommodate regular monitoring.. this can increase creativity and less tension than when cramming for annual exams.
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Putting lot of pressure right from the childhood is not at all fair in plan of their future for sake of earning money and become fame and rich, it's not at all difficult if they have talent in their respective field of interest. parents need to take care of that in giving a chance of selecting their field of interest in their education so that they can easily swim in that. So my suggestion is not to put such unnecessary pains on ur children in sake of earning money...
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Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.
| 01 18 2013 12:38:57 +0000
I agree with Sasken on the point that a 2 1/2 year old baby attending school at 8.30 AM or 9 AM in contrast the grown students of Engineering and other faculties attends college leisurely after 9.30 AM. The timings of schools shall be changed. The private schools are being run in multi-storied buildings, no space for play grounds. Memory of the kids is being tested. Home work is an extra burden for them in addition to the luggage (books) they carry on their shoulders. Nobody is dare enough to join their kids in the Govt. schools though the teachers are trained and have other facilities. I dont want to discuss here the problem why the Govt. school lost their charm.
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Sasken , Manager, mightyvel
| 01 18 2013 09:12:58 +0000
I agree with Hari's point of view. Even the education system must change ... Making a 2 1/2 year old baby to attend the school by 8:30 or 9 am ..and also every once in a month exams ???
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Gourabmoy Nath, Research Scientist, Amadeus, Sophia Antipolis, France
| 06 27 2012 23:34:22 +0000
> pressure is always essential for growth You can pressure a kid but if the kid has strong enough personality, expect reverse effects. Rather help the child explore himself, so that somehow the urge to do something in the child come from within
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Parental guidance at home and at school to the young minds must impart knowledge of values, ethics and disasters in blindly following a rat race. Each individual is unique and not a photocopy therefore each must be allowed to retain their character. Being competitive and yet unique is tough to practice without clear understanding. Thanks for refer Gargi |
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Ravindra Sharma, Managing Consultant, CHEF-India
| 10 06 2012 10:28:02 +0000
The biggest flaw in Rat Race is Resources begin to appear as Goals while................................... Real Goals are lost forever.
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Isaac Madhavan, R & D Manager, Test prep company
| 11 03 2011 14:51:11 +0000
Well said!
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In this highly competitive world, there is a lot of pressure on the student to come out on the top by all including the parents. I have gone through news item which has rightly described the plight of students by the sentence " Parents who have scored 45% in their student days" expect their child/ward to excel, that is the pressure. Parents should encourage their children even when they dont come out on top and advise them to try again because failure is the stepping stone to success. Today's youngsters are not prepared to face obstacles and failures because of the pressures put on them
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PRITHVI RAJ DUBEY, Managing Director, RAJ ENGINEERING INDUSTRIES PVT LTD
| 01 08 2013 11:04:16 +0000
Do not pay heavy admission Premium/Donation for average Child. Send him in line of his choice. Options are many and pressure will be less.
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Every time anything happens to us, we are smart enough to find someone or the other to blame and justify us for the action. Nowadays students who are committing suicide are just because the parents and the children both are not ready to take each others responsibility. We have to understand that first of all there is no competition, every now and there we here the word competition, first of all we have to understand that every individual is special and possess different skills and interest but to succeed in today's world we try to become what we are not liking and so life is becoming stressful.
Parents have to understand that in a class of say 40-50 students one of which might be their son/daughter all the students cannot came first. Nowadays parents are more concerned of the marks rather than intellect they think that students who come first is a good intellect but believe me I have familiar with many students in my life those who are class toppers but they literally don't understand anything, they just mug up and write whatever they have memorized, due to this the freshers today with even great percentage are not entertained by corporate world.
Now Students must also take the responsibility that whatever happens to them is just because they took and did the thing that way. It can never happen that students prepare themselves and they fail, its just against the nature of world. We are now living in fast moving world where socializing and other things look more fun loving and enjoyable but there is another part of life where all the decision are taken by us only. Only we can decide what to do, even if someone is forcing us to do that its only our decision to follow the force applied on us. Its only our responsibility due to which the entire world both inner and outer are created by us only.
WAKE UP. TAKE THE CHARGE. SUCCEED.
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PREMRAJ , STUDENT @ BANGALORE INSTITUTE OF INTERNATIONAL MANAGEMENT
| 06 08 2012 06:20:15 +0000
I strongly Agree
having consider psychological co ordination at time of admission of student in colleges
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suicide the 2nd leading cause of death among college students? Major life transitions—such as leaving home and going away to college—may exacerbate existing psychological problems or trigger new ones. Add leaving family and friends to this can deepen depression and/or increase anxiety.
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Isaac Madhavan, R & D Manager, Test prep company
| 11 03 2011 14:41:59 +0000
[Solution to this already given by Gargi. See above.]
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Ashish Kumar Pandey, Radiology Record Expert
| 11 03 2011 03:42:55 +0000
having consider psychological co ordination at time of admission of student in colleges
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As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and don't make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.
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PREMRAJ , STUDENT @ BANGALORE INSTITUTE OF INTERNATIONAL MANAGEMENT
| 06 08 2012 06:19:27 +0000
Everything mentioned here refers to Fear.... I am a student who is having a lot of problem in my life both Physically & Mentally but i am not afraid of that and i haven't thought anything about Suicide to get rid of this and i till now am facing the problems with just a tool called SMILE... ( I totally meant to say i am Positive thinker) all positive thinkers are energy earners & all negative thinkers are energy burners.... so it all depends on us than the parents.Â
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I agree with Mr. Isaac, Some pressure is essential for growth of students..and at the same time parents or teachers need to make them understand the need of that pressure and take it in a positive way and give them the needed support to overcome or handle that pressure
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When heavy Premium is paid for Admission ,It is a burden on middle class Parents and their Ward who is average in studies. So many Professional Graduation Institutes are doing good business but Designs and Aspirations of Parents and also bewildered wards take to such courses and are disheartened. Parents must not emphasise if the child is not getting proper grades . One must evaluate what fits best for the ward . However if child is depressed , treat him with care and do not leave him alone.
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We help children to get in to self-learning. We teach children to solve the problem in creative manner and get the best out of what ever available to you.We give him the idea with which he can face the challenge of 21st century.
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I am not one of the votaries for changing our education system though i have claimed so in the past. Over time i have realized that our education system is comprehensive and good especially at the lower level. It is only at the higher level that we have to reform and make sure students sutdy what they are going to become in their life thereon. But over and above all these i feel this alarming rate of high suicides is because of Parents. Either in the form of parental pressure for better marks or admission or total neglect as they are busy leading their own lives.
Whenever a child shows irritation with schooling, homework or studies, parents ought not to beat or castigate them rather they should try and sit with them and understand why they dont like to go to school or study. Quite often the school itself is to blame because the coaching might not be proper or undue attention is given to only the top rankers. In such cases parents should take it up with the school principle or change the school itself. Such care will definitely help students overcome their fear and anxiety over studies.
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Gourabmoy Nath, Research Scientist, Amadeus, Sophia Antipolis, France
| 06 27 2012 23:49:22 +0000
Very well said, most Indian parents' personalities, attitudes and behaviours need radical self-reflection and correction. Without that they will only unknowingly dump all their own attitudinal problems(which they themselves are ignorant of) and actually silently harm their children unknowingly thinking that they are doing the right thing. Backfire from kids is normal
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This problem is due the high expectations of the parents. Now a days very parents wants their child to be a professionally qualified person. Parents do not understand the child. They wants the child to be what they expect him to be. The high expectation and comparing the child with others create pressure and the child looks ways and means to get out of the pressure zone.
In turn let us identify the child's talent his/her ability and his strong points and encourage the child in that area. Then the child will excel in that field. This will bring not only good children but also good citizens and a better world.
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Gourabmoy Nath, Research Scientist, Amadeus, Sophia Antipolis, France
| 06 27 2012 23:55:54 +0000
Well said. Children are not toys of parental ambition, help them build their own, in their own area of interest and one will find them shine and happy. But to make sure children grow well, we parents have to look at all our weaknesses first, be open and non-egoistically reform ourselves.
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The first and formost thing Parents and Teachers should take care is that they don't compare the child with his/her friend/associate. Also parents should give a chance to their child to find what his/her interest is and drive him/her towards passion along with studies. Regards, Anna George Web Analyst Nichepro Technologies  http://www.nichesuite.com  |
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Isaac Madhavan, R & D Manager, Test prep company
| 11 03 2011 14:53:21 +0000
Very important point, ties in with what Ravindra Sharma said.
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As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and dont make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.
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As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and dont make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.
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As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and don't make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.
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Due to career pressure students can,t handle the situation. Psychological help is most important from parents, teachers & close friends necessary. Pressure handling tactics shall be teach by education institutions. Family members shall have to play important role.
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Nowadays students commit suicide due to mismanagement of emotions. This mismanaged emotions led towards suicide. One can have will to destroy his/her life or make the same failure a base to start on path of success.
Read the book:
Adapt: Why Success Always Starts with Failure by Tim Harford or watch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laGZaS4sdeU . All the Best.
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whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.
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Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.
| 10 06 2012 10:57:45 +0000
This is a wild allegation. I cant agree with. Parents may have their aspirations about the future of their kids. They may be missing some care in the run to catch the trend for that we cant blame.
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New evaluation system recently introduced by CBSE board is really very useful in solving depression problem of the students. Only thing which we will have to do is to explain this system carefully to the students.There is absolutely NO need to worry if a student does not secure very high percentage as because other aspecte of the students will come into picture while getting evaluated.
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whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.
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whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.
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whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.
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Sasken , Manager, mightyvel
| 01 18 2013 09:08:55 +0000
You're absolutely correct. Parents don't worry about baby's need.. Small Baby's never expect money from their parents they want to be very much cared by her/his parents... That's completely lacking, all the 5 days of a week mother is coming home by 10.30 or 11 pm and weekends they want to watch movies in the TV when the baby call her mother to play with her even during week end, they its already too late go to bed n sleep......this leads to Lack of bondage..>>??
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As others,I am also worried of increasing the suicides graphs of students.It is good thing parents are spending money and times for their children.At the same time they are primarily responsible for cornering the child to study what they do not love to opt for. Now a days there are so many experts for evaluation of aptitude.The child should also be given option to choose the career line. If this is given attention,the incidence of suicides could be reduced.The split in personality of Doctors and Engineers is already taking toll of these group as more and more are appearing in IAS examinations. |
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parents should understand the reality that a entrance exam is not at all the guarantee of a good future nor a good TOP ranked college not a stream so first they should be practical and let kids practical too. they should teach them how to face circumstances and if they will not selected for any entrance and not got 90% still they have better carriers better futures, they should teach them that how they can believe there own capabilities and how they can use them so this thing only need to be understand that how much they are teaching them reality and interdependency
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The child himself/herself and the parents should stop comparing their child with others. It is not necessary that to be successful in life you require good marks. The purpose of education is to acquire knowledge and develop a good culture by mingling with different students of different culture. Schhol is where the child develops a personality and individuality. Parents should be more worried about that rather than worrying and torturing the kids for the low marks they score.
Regards,
Edu Ahead.
Bangalore.
http://www.eduahead.com
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The gap between the education, society & mass expectation grows wider. A student entering professional college is unable to meet the requirement economically, socially & intellectually.Peers divert them their's living under illusion. Finally when a mismatch occurs, student resort to suicide.
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