Student suicides going higher and higher : what is the need of hour?

We cant change the scenario altogether single handedly. We are living in a competitive world. One has to digest the issue. If you think otherwise, you are left behind. To cope with the competition and pressure, parents need to take utmost care right from the nursery standards. Both the parents shall leave space for their kid to share his/her views instead of sending them to tuition. They must discuss with their kid(s) on the subjects being taught in school on daily basis and help them wherever required and make them realise the situation out.

Even after prolonged enlightenment on the need to revamp the system, progress still eludes. immediate attention is warranted

suicide the 2nd leading cause of death among college students? Major life transitions—such as leaving home and going away to college—may exacerbate existing psychological problems or trigger new ones. Add leaving family and friends to this can deepen depression and/or increase anxiety.

As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and don't make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.

I agree with Mr. Isaac, Some pressure is essential for growth of students..and at the same time parents or teachers need to make them understand the need of that pressure and take it in a positive way and give them the needed support to overcome or handle that pressure

We help children to get in to self-learning. We teach children to solve the problem in creative manner and get the best out of what ever available to you.We give him the idea with which he can face the challenge of 21st century.

In this highly competitive world, there is a lot of pressure on the student to come out on the top by all including the parents. I have gone through news item which has rightly described the plight of students by the sentence " Parents who have scored 45% in their student days" expect their child/ward to excel, that is the pressure. Parents should encourage their children even when they dont come out on top and advise them to try again because failure is the stepping stone to success. Today's youngsters are not prepared to face obstacles and failures because of the pressures put on them

Putting lot of pressure right from the childhood is not at all fair in plan of their future for sake of earning money and become fame and rich, it's not at all difficult if they have talent in their respective field of interest. parents need to take care of that in giving a chance of selecting their field of interest in their education so that they can easily swim in that. So my suggestion is not to put such unnecessary pains on ur children in sake of earning money...

I am not one of the votaries for changing our education system though i have claimed so in the past. Over time i have realized that our education system is comprehensive and good especially at the lower level. It is only at the higher level that we have to reform and make sure students sutdy what they are going to become in their life thereon. But over and above all these i feel this alarming rate of high suicides is because of Parents. Either in the form of parental pressure for better marks or admission or total neglect as they are busy leading their own lives. Whenever a child shows irritation with schooling, homework or studies, parents ought not to beat or castigate them rather they should try and sit with them and understand why they dont like to go to school or study. Quite often the school itself is to blame because the coaching might not be proper or undue attention is given to only the top rankers. In such cases parents should take it up with the school principle or change the school itself. Such care will definitely help students overcome their fear and anxiety over studies.

Every time anything happens to us, we are smart enough to find someone or the other to blame and justify us for the action. Nowadays students who are committing suicide are just because the parents and the children both are not ready to take each others responsibility. We have to understand that first of all there is no competition, every now and there we here the word competition, first of all we have to understand that every individual is special and possess different skills and interest but to succeed in today's world we try to become what we are not liking and so life is becoming stressful. Parents have to understand that in a class of say 40-50 students one of which might be their son/daughter all the students cannot came first. Nowadays parents are more concerned of the marks rather than intellect they think that students who come first is a good intellect but believe me I have familiar with many students in my life those who are class toppers but they literally don't understand anything, they just mug up and write whatever they have memorized, due to this the freshers today with even great percentage are not entertained by corporate world. Now Students must also take the responsibility that whatever happens to them is just because they took and did the thing that way. It can never happen that students prepare themselves and they fail, its just against the nature of world. We are now living in fast moving world where socializing and other things look more fun loving and enjoyable but there is another part of life where all the decision are taken by us only. Only we can decide what to do, even if someone is forcing us to do that its only our decision to follow the force applied on us. Its only our responsibility due to which the entire world both inner and outer are created by us only. WAKE UP. TAKE THE CHARGE. SUCCEED.

This problem is due the high expectations of the parents. Now a days very parents wants their child to be a professionally qualified person. Parents do not understand the child. They wants the child to be what they expect him to be. The high expectation and comparing the child with others create pressure and the child looks ways and means to get out of the pressure zone. In turn let us identify the child's talent his/her ability and his strong points and encourage the child in that area. Then the child will excel in that field. This will bring not only good children but also good citizens and a better world.

Parental guidance at home and early school days to teach a child values, ethics and meaning of rat race can help. Each individual is unique and not photocopy therefore each must be allowed to retain their character. Being competitive and yet unique is tough to practice without clear understanding.

Thanks for refer Gargi

The first and formost thing Parents and Teachers should take care is that they don't compare the child with his/her friend/associate. Also parents should give a chance to their child to find what his/her interest is and drive him/her towards passion along with studies.

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As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and dont make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.

As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and dont make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.

As i think moreover the student commit suicide due to pressure of expectations of their parents and not prepare for the failure so this is the whole sole responsibility of their parents taht they teach them about the failure too along with the success. so that they can able to accept that easily to and don't make any condition in there life. the parent should teach them and support them so than they can take things positively.

whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.

whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.

whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.

whne moth mother and fatehd are more busy in earning then they donot find time to pay to child which makes the child to think in pervertd way which leading to suicdes,the other point is 14-19 yeras of age is not the age to put child in hostels ,wher they gte frutrated of givn constrints it also leads to suicides.It is only because of parental affection these suicides are happening.

parents should understand the reality that a entrance exam is not at all the guarantee of a good future nor a good TOP ranked college not a stream so first they should be practical and let kids practical too. they should teach them how to face circumstances and if they will not selected for any entrance and not got 90% still they have better carriers better futures, they should teach them that how they can believe there own capabilities and how they can use them so this thing only need to be understand that how much they are teaching them reality and interdependency