| Topic : The Effects of Career Goals on Students |
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last activity : 10 29 2010 13:02:12 +0000
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Depression
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motivating
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Proper direction
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Depression
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Poor Development
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Unhappy Parents
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OVER AMBUTIOUS,UNREALISTIC PARENTS
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confusion.....
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Non-professionalism
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Mostly early goal setting is good but it pressurizes the child that leads to a serious depression. And we all know that in depression nothing happens properly.... |
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Yes Kirti the parents once found that their dream is not fulfilled the smart parents accept the things as it is the unsmart parents at least one of them go into depression, which is unfortunate but true.
Thanks for the referal Ms kirti
Parents expect a lot from their children and when the target is not filled more pressure is usually put on their small minds, leading to depression and withdrawing from others.
Yes kritti, it is parental anxiety & pressure do push children to depression. Each child is gifted with unique intelligence & capacity. Parents should identify that and set goal for them. Parents should not forget that unlike in olden days, present economical scenario is different & youngsters has got lot of opportunities and fields to prove them self. Parents should abstain from herd mentality.
Love them, encourage them anything they do good, instill confidence in them. check their aptitude & interest accordingly choose professional course/career to them. No over expectation from them. But monitor their activities constantly be a supportive parent by working on their strength. Be firm while dealing with them.
Once they grownup & settled down in their career, definitely they do love& respect you for upbringing & adopt same attitude & policy for their future generation. Life is precious, Lets Live it.
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Parents should encourage children to identify their strengths and not pressure them using some pre conceived notions. When a growing child identifies his/her strength on their own, there is a sense of ownership and motivation to achieve. Often parents try to make children achieve what they themself did not. That is usually a disaster. Expose the children to various career options based on their strengths and encourage to select. |
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I agree with you Ramesh Ji, Parents should help their children in identifying their goals in life. Instead of that it has become a fashion where parents force their children to pursue what they failed to achieve in their life.
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Bcoz most of the student don't know about the career Option they didn't get the proper information
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lot of motivation is needed for the one who get depressed in doing their goals
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Due to the pressure of career goals students don't develop properly thus this hampers their productivity. Their other activities do get affected. Parents don't realize this but this can be very dangerous in the long run. |
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Generally parents say to their child to become this and that.. but they don't ask/look their child interest... when child don't reach at that level which his/her parents hopes then parents become unhappy.. |
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MANY PARENTS WANT THEIR CHILDREN TO ACHIEVE WHAT THEY HAVE NOT ACHIEVED.IN THE GUISE OF GETTING A SECURE FUTURE FOR THE CHILDREN THEY THRUST THEIR AMBITIONS INTO THE CHILDREN IRRESPECTIVE OF THE CHILDREN`S CALIBRE,INCLINATION,CAPABILITY,SKILLS ETC.MANY CHILDREN FIND IT DIFFICULT TO ADAPT THEMSELVES TO THE WANTS OF THEIR PARENTS.THIS HAS A TELLING EFFECT ON THE CHILDREN.PARENTS SHOULD GIVE ENOUGH FREEDOM TO CHILDREN GIVING IMPORTANC TO THEIR CHILDREN`S LIKES ND DISLIKES.THEY SHOULD CONFINE THEMSELVES WITH ONLY GUIDING THEIR CHILDREN AND LET THEM TAKE THE DECISION. |
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what actualy is happening over here.. we are not certain about the career goals beacuse its changed at every level,after each achievment....still we remain..confuse???
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When people are made to go into fields where their natural talents do not lie, there is rampant non-professionalism. |
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