What is a strict no-no infront of kids??

There are always disagreements among couples which turn ugly and result in violent fights with our partners. Our children, who see us fighting, also consequently become ill tempered. A recent report carried out by researchers at the University of Washington and the University of Indiana revealed that most children who witness domestic violence become bullies themselves. When parents fight, scream or insult each other, children who are witness become aggressive, anxious and withdrawn. How we handle disagreements in our relationship will directly impact how our kids learn to equip theirs, once they grow up

All these things must be AVOIDED in front of kids but "strict no-no" NOTHING.

Parents should try to become the role model for their kids by being, honest trustworthy, by showing affectionate love and care and by fulfiiling all their resonble demands.

Don’t be or try to be somebody other than what you are. Your child has the first right to know “real” you and not what you tend to appear.

This i something I see a lot of times happening at people who think they are better than others. This sign of disrspect is quickly copied by the youngsters.

Specific example: my father-in-law stacked the paper wrongly, causing the stack to be overturned when the garbage-people took out another pile. My brother-in-law subsequently said that the garbage-people were stupid to let that happen. His little son now always says that the stupid people are cmoing when the garbage-people arrive.

Never pretend in front of a child.

As nothing can impact a child's mind more than this dual behavior, which is not at all normal from his point. Telling lies is a and giving misleading answers assuming the child may not be able to understand is never a good habit.

Instead explaining cause and reason, in case the child witnessed such a behavior in others in your presence or wants to know about, is helpful. 

Children never liked to be compared

IF you compare your child with another be his / her cousin, friends, schoool mate it will hurt the child bad

If we compare our children and then ask them to improve they will start comparing us also

Imagine child reverting back to you stating , yes daday I coudl not score marks like Naresh but then you also do not earn the salary like Naresh's father, do not own a car like Naresh's father, do not go on long holidays like Naresh's father and do not give me gifts like Naresh gets from his father

Please do note if you compare a chld as soon as they enter teen they will not heed your advice but turn rebels

Not only fighting but also other improper things should be done in front of the children. The initial argument was quite correct. Children will imitate their parents in all the aspects. Parents have to think before doing any inappropriate things in front of the children.

When we lie to our spouse, the kids would take cue from parents and start lying too..

It is advisable that parents should not make any love scenes infront of them. Even the school teahers and educationalist says the same thing.

And even kids do not appreciate this.

There may be a long list of "no- nos" infront of kids.

First of all we should try hard to improve ourselves, if not done earlier. Children easyly understands what is real and what is not. They have a strong sense in-built. A make-belief story learnt in child-hood might not prove to be false later - that may hurt them the most.

Observing many parents ,what i noticed is that mostly parents in attempt to give the only noble moral ethics they only show the haapy path to their lives ,but they forget that they also have to live in this practical world which needs you to be a  jack of all traits -no matter good or bad.

So to come up as winner , in addition to good morals parents should also teach them how to face the ups & downs,as everyone they face will not be of same wavelength,so parents should also demonstrate the way to come up as a true winner in such situations.