What is the Number One reason you do not achieve your dreams or goals?

Let me explain in simple terms taking cricket as examples as it is world cup time.. The main reason behind the word cup win in 1983 was inspiring confidence by the great captain Kapil Dev to all team members by always telling them that we can win. They got a morale booster after winning the first league game against the then mighty West Indies..

Next the commitment....No one else other than than the GOD of Indian cricket, Tendulkar...They way in which he approaches the game even in this 21st year of his career is same as that when he was 16 year old.

Then the positive thinking....the way in which Sehwag bats....He is so positive in his play and shot selection that the bowlers are not thinking to get him out when they come to bowl at him....but how to not get smacked...by which he won half...

I think one have to give 100 % of efforts to achieve it's goal, but due to some personal interest or diversion, one can not fully concentrate on it's efforts , leads non- achievement of your goal.

I believe in self commitment which leads individual to succeed themselves in achieving their dreams. Everybody having dreams but very few were 100% committed to achieve them. In my opinion without self commitment one never achieve their dream/goal true.

Excellent Ideas Thanks to all for great Ideas.. All these things are necessary for all ordinary persons. But Over confidence is the major reason to become failure for those person who want to achieve extra ordinary goal. Although they are self motivated, positive thinking and doing great efforts. Because achieve dreaming/goal is a part of our planning. We can achieve any target if we have willing power to do so. But some time our over confident decision will cause for our failure. And all we know that in any planning "Right decision on right time is too much important. & Once the direction has changed then we will run on wrong or opposite direction of our goal/dream.

one reason is that mostly of us belong to middle class family , we have no other option and have not much time to do experiments in our life. we just want to get settle down as sooner as possible without failure.

It is true that encouragement will also help us to get our goals and our dreams. But in my opinion i would like to add that if you’re not achieving the success you desire, it’s simply because your objectives are not clearly defined ". If you don't have specific goals or dreams or you can say it will also be measurable because when if you will not achieve your goals and dreams you can't blaim your hard work, your destiny.

If we are passionate about doing anything, everything will fall in place. Obstacles are bound to be there, but beyond obstacles, there is a sense of achievement that will trigger your passion to do more, that is what is required!

People dont want to persevere if they dont self motivated or supported by others.Lack of perseverance leads to failure. Self motivation is vital to achieve our goals, because we cannot expect others to motivate us always.

You need to be passionate about the goal, should carry fire in the belly to make it come true.

According to Henry David Thourue, 'one has the right to dream but ones responsibility to build the bridge towards his dream', in his book 'Walden' which I recommend everyone to read to see how to proceed living. It is a book one can give as present to friends and relations too.

dreams will become reality only if the drive is there to make it happen.....

What are you dreaming of ? Think realistically. What is the use of getting much praise, admiration, name and fame? Does that happiness stay even for a moment ? So called worldly success only generates jealousy. Set your spiritual goals, nobody can prevent you from attaining those, no matter what. Other goals are always affected by circumstances including destiny. Fools do not accept the role of destiny : thats their luck!

learn how to clarify, focus on, and execute your highest priorities. Master the skills of planning your weeks and organizing your days so their time is spent on tasks that really matter, Then you would discover how to clearly or define goals and break them down into key tasks.

Here the Main question is that the task we are performing, pushing us towards our goal or not.......we do different activities at the same time for same or different goals.....we should focus on one, complete and then move for another one.

All I can tell you is that the person you are doing the most harm to is yourself. The philosopher Baruch Spinoza said that "to be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life." You may disagree with his emphasis, but surely one of the goals of your life is to discover and apply your strengths. If your senses are numbed with delusion and denial, you will stop looking for these true strengths and wind up living a second-rate version of someone else's life rather than a world-class version of your own. Fear of failure is one of the greatest fears people have. Fear of failure is closely related to fear of criticism and fear of rejection. Successful people overcome their fear of failure. Fear incapacitates unsuccessful people. The Law of Feedback states: there is no failure; there is only feedback. Successful people look at mistakes as outcomes or results, not as failure. Unsuccessful people look at mistakes as permanent and personal. Buckminster Fuller wrote, “Whatever humans have learned had to be learned as a consequence only of trial and error experience. Humans have learned only through mistakes.” Most people self-limit themselves. Most people do not achieve a fraction of what they are capable of achieving because they are afraid to try because they are afraid they will fail. Take these steps to overcome your fear of failure and move yourself forward to getting the result you desire: Step One: Take action. Bold, decisive action. Do something scary. Fear of failure immobilizes you. To overcome this fear, you must act. When you act, act boldly. Action gives you the power to change the circumstances or the situation. You must overcome the inertia by doing something. Dr. Robert Schuller asks, “What would you do if you knew you could not fail?” What could you achieve? Be brave and just do it. If it doesn’t work out the way you want, then do something else. But DO SOMETHING NOW. Step Two: Persist. Successful people just don’t give up. They keep trying different approaches to achieving their outcomes until they finally get the results they want. Unsuccessful people try one thing that doesn’t work and t

There is no sucess manthra,it is sustained failures ,till the goal is attained with self confidence is a prerequisite.

U have to get that internal motivation and passion to achieve your dream.As SRK's best dialogue ever quotes"Itni shiddat se tumhe pane ki koshish ki hai,ki harr zarre ne mujhe tumse milane ki saazish ki hai"

For all the disaster in life,attitude is attributive rather than retributive.May aspirants come and grow with positives of life.

Efforts, confidence, encouragement is there still luck is not there, a person can not fulfill his dream/goal.Efforts, confidence, encouragement is there and luck is there, then goal will fulfill. But dont loose efforts, efforts is our luck and luck will fulfill our goal/dream.

I AM AGREE WITH THE JAYGOPAL LUCK IS VERY IMPORTANT BECAUSE IN EVERY CORPORATE OR ANYWHERE THERE IS POLITICS WHERE YOUR LUCK WL ALWAYS HELP U IF NOT SO THEN ITS BAD LUCK.

Taking things easily sometimes makes us lazy leading to no action eventually ends with no results.

I agree with Mr. Shrikant, without efforts, you can not achieve you dream, efforts should be there but it should be also require confidence.

I feel, you might be highly motivated or working hard to achieve your goals, but till the time you don't get right directions or way to those goals, your all efforts will go waste... So, its is more important to have proper guidance and directions to lead to the right path of achieving your goals....

Becoz most of the people quit their trying after facing one or two failures. They forgot tht failure is the steeping stone to success

Lack of Planning I believe that there should be proper "Planning" for attaining goals. Therefore, I strongly say that Planning is the most important priority for completion of any task.

If you believe in yourself and your dreams you can achieve it, you need to be self confident.

How much so ever the environment around one person is supportive or not, it is the fire in a person that decides where he goes.If he/she does not have that, all others are just "lame excuses".

As Itold u there are lots of reasons, first of all is not setting/making goals,or not seeing any dreams at all, second is lazyness or not putting the efforts.

You don’t believe in yourself that u can do it

You don’t believe in yourself that u can do it

People now a days plan hell lot of dreams but dey never put enough hard work and focus to achieve that Goal..Its a big problem prevailing in young generation in present..

If We want to enjoy our life you should always think that today is the First day of our life, But if we want to achieve somthing we should always think that Today is the last Day of our Life

You have will power, encouragement, you have put in your 200% efforts, finance(in case you are starting your own biz) & you are all set to go & you have just started something happens & you are back to square one. As far as working professional is concerned then I would say office politics, company policies just do not allow you to realize your dreams.

Its Attitude

I find no other phrase the 'mot juste' than "Half Hearted Approach".The reason being that you will find so many obstacles on the way and the person who surpasses wins the race.So whatever one moves forward,the all energy must be to achieved the desired goal.As the saying goes ... all the universe conspires to help that person to realize his dream ,when a person really desires something.

In today's world with increasing desires and deviations we are unable to concentrate on are main goal and as a result we fall.

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Assalamu alaikkum how are you doing? I am fauziah, from Malaysia, and i want you to contact me for my email (fauziah111m@yahoo.com.sg) and we konw each other ok by from, fauziah Muhamed.

Luck plays a very important role in a persons life. How much ever you put in an effort, without luck it gets reduced to zilch or zero.