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Humiliation
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State of mind
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A disease called lust : fanned by media and surroundings
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Part of Life
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Can't accept Rejection
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state of mind
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Exceptions are not the rule
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No sex for criminals
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Lifestyle gap
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Let People Decide
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CHAUVINISM
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Men's roles have become redundant
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Male or female doesn't matter
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lack of simplicity of a women might get such problem.
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When dumped or rejected by a woman the male ego does not let them sit quitely. They react to it very badly. No one can help a woman here. (From personal experience let me tell you the men witnessing are so useless that they don't even care to help). They take benefit of this and get there work done by taking the revenge for a wrong thing in a wrong way. |
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Such type of men have lack of courage & unable to face the rejection from opposite sex.
womens should also understand in some situations they should avoid something for their security
men do this because woman allows them do it. After all we know that justice in this country if at you get it takes life time. We also say justice delayed is not justice at all. Knowing this fully well why do you allow the corrupt legal system to provide you justice. Start telling the judges and the Police they dont have to do anything and you take law in to your hands. Tell them you have lost faith in the system. Police, Lawyers and even the judges are corrupt these days. Can any one tell boldly they have not bribed a court clerk or officer for getting copies of court orders, bails, listing the cases for hearing etc? Our legal system is a business organization providing business to lawyers, thats all. You may find here and there few lawyers who figh to get justice to their clients.
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The traditional thought of "girls to be guarded and guys to guard them" let the men be chauvinists.. Men evolve to be so.. I couldn't digest a father blame the mother for anything wrong the kid does and take the praise for himself that anything good the kid does.. Charity begins at home. Women are ready to take the responsibilities and that gives motivation to the men to order anything they want.. These psychos to be treated immediately either in hospitals are in dark rooms.. Ladies should avoid teasing them with the unnecessary dressing styles and unwanted makeup.. Please do this for heaven's sake.. |
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It is totally a psychological factor. Though Parents are educated and cultured,sisters and brothers are loving and affectionate, these factors never influence the people,who are born with psychological defects. They imagine temselves as Heros. They think their word is a command and everybody has to obey it.They never value feminity.They view feminine gender as desire satiating and entertaining beings. Only solution to eliminate such opinion among them is to eliminate them permanently, which will raise fear in their spinal chord that will break their ugly adventures.
Male Chauvinism is hard to die out! At times feminine genders are viewed as inanimate objects, as they are portrayed differently by the entertainment industry! Unless they say "No" to such portrayal, they will continue to face problem. They should stop participating in wrong reality shows that is the cause of fury amongst the youngsters!
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As such most persons already suffer from this dreaded disease called lust. Further, the media fans it to the utmost, selling lust as a product in their news, ads, programs et al. Young men are not trained to control lust and are urged to 'let go' or unleash their passion! With the girls becoming permissive too, only very conscientious individuals can avoid falling prey to this disease.
MTV and other channels glorify lust in the name of programs such as splitsvilla.
Extreme expression of lust occurs in the form of violence, as was seen in so many cases recently. It will continue to get worse unless we realize that lust is a disease that needs to be cured and not promoted via news and entertainment media.
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Dear Shyam, I support your view. Human beings are known for adapting wrong things quickly. The lots of information poured by surrounding, availability of material and dreams of materialistic lifestyles, handicapped law & judiciary system, all are contributing a lot to it. I will not blame either men/women, its gender neutral problem. No doubt the boldness of women adds to give men upper hand in exercising there lust/desire, which women also at times willing to experience in similar way. Both are being pray for the environment. It now became a social value system problem. Dear Sarika, As I said, there are few cases where women also involved in such cases (Pl refer Niraj Grover murder case, by model Monica Susayraj). So its moreover social problem. Thanks for ref. NJ'oy
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Well as per me selection and rejection is just a part of life. Few people are unable to face this and some know how to cope with this. Its not a universal truth but just a way to behave on the situation. Its not a thing to create differences between man and woman. Its a generation of equality but yes few males and female don't know how to deal with rejection and turns up to the way of crime. Its just a problem of thinking nothing else.
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The girls should also see that do not go so close to the male and do not trust the man without having proper information of his character. This will help you in such a case.
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In what so ever case u take whether it's cold blooded murder or the a simple murder always the reason is the criminal doesn't want the rejection ,due to his wish undone.
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Its because they allow this if they stay frim no bady have same temperament i think keep away the shy factor and take the strong step that's it
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I support Mithun as this is nothing but the unstable state of mind which leads to violence without thinking of consequences.Rejection is not tolerated as 100% acceptance was expected. The person thinks after some time that this should not have happened. But by the time,it is very late though
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I earnestly request that such exceptional cases of physical violence need not invoke the necessity for generalized aspersions regarding chaaracter or the male psyche. Such barbaric acts are totally unacceptable but all men do not ascribe to gender-based jealousy, violence, lust or react violently to rejection.
I pray that the following is possible:
Lead by example
Counseling,
landmark punishment of offenders
awareness campaigns
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I agree. In a community of 500 million men , there are bound to be a few perverts ; these are the ones who will rape infants , produce an Aruna Shanbaug by rape and strangulation , burn their brides etc.
We cannot use these exceptions to brand the entire male community.
Let us have stringent laws which will catch up with such offenders and let us treat such cases as the rarest of the rare , punishment being the death penalty. It is absurd that the monster who gave Aruna Shanbaug a living death got away with just 7 years in prison.
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Criminals are criminals. No sex for them. Men dont say that Girls are against us incase of reverse. "Survival of the Fittest". We will not focus on who is wrong, please see what went wrong. |
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Look its now getting very clear its happening in those citiies which are now developing very fast and seriously it is all due to that, for eg. a town where proviously people were very homily and civilised, suddenly IT sectors and corporate culture enters where these old or small town people are now seeing that ladies are now breaking through and stepping forward, where ladies also have to work in night shifts, ladies are also now moving towards westernization, then these old town minded males cant handle these scenarios then get their egos hurt as they find women getting ahead of them financially, socially,
Im not at all saying that women are responsible for this but then we should now start thinking how to equally lift the whole society not just a single part of it , literacy and awareness is the only key for this,
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The best wasy is to keep away from unknown men and stop moving alone. This 'killing habit' is slowly catching up in all parts of India. The law has to be amended with stricter punishment and speedy disposal of cases relating to killing women. At least in one place.. the police should leave the culprit to the hands of the people for instant justice. (Honestly, I feel many times that Kasab should be allowed to move freely in Mumbai leaving the families of men who died, to decide what to do.. Islamic justice..beat him to death) |
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THIS IS NOTHING BUT MERE MALE CHAUVINISM
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As more and more women become independent, men's roles have become redundnat. They have to assert themselves, and they do this just out of frustration that their hegemony is being destroyed.
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I think gender doesn't have any role in this type of cases. so many such cases are reported from female side also, so the problem is their character and mental condition. some time the person may be some what good but mental condition in a fraction of second makes him a killer or such a bad person.
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taking about women as required(i need  her like of me. but she is not concerning about it)this type of mind set of a unhealthy personality may be d reason.so need to maintain simplicity of a women mind .so she is not at the sky .but she is with u on the earth.like so need to accomandate such unhealthy mind.always women is not indivisual,s asset.her beauty,her attention, her smile effects d whole envornament of where she exists.so a hindu calls her as jaganmaate,jagajanani,kaamarupini,sarvasaktisalini.sarveswari .bhuvanasundari,bhuvaneswari.to her husband she is first friend.others are also friends except sex or as their internal secreat.our hindu dharma pandavas married drowpati is an example. |
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