| Topic : Workplace Grudges - Keep It Away!!! |
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last activity : 04 28 2011 06:07:41 +0000
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Because of prevailing male ego in our country.
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world around you is not what it is..its what you perceive it is
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involvement of femininity and non-acceptable dominance over male counterparts in business scenario
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Ladies don't have brains'
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boss is always hated either it is male or female
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perfectionism
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Bcoz of the common mentality that females are soft and emotional and sensitive
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they are lovely
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DOMINANT AND AUTHORITARIAN
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they are gud
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they are gud
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they are gud
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they are gud
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Male target & Female defend it
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Bcoz of Common Mentality that females are soft and emotional..........
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"Women should not be hated as boss"
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not like that
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They are perfectionsist by nature hence, more quality and tough demands
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ITS FEE......MALE
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Females can be good bosses too but..................
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ITS FEE......MALE
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FEMALE BOSSES ARE BEST EVER
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Over Emotional and Play Politics
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Mindset
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the usual suspect - ego clash
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RAGHUBIRSINGH MAAN HR PLANT HEAD TRIMURTI CORNS AGRO FOOD, PUNE
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Sincere, Dedicated towards work
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hi
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Agree with Md Sarfaraz
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there is no such thing as female boss or male boss.fairer sex are not considered flexible for a quick and prompt decison
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Ladies always get some leniency in the work
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female bosses are hated
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Woman boses are loved
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Woman boses are loved
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no answer
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AUTHORITARIAN
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nice
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they are gud
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Hatred in workplace is Good
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Incapable of leaving their personal lives at home
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Communication
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Wrong Notion
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"Because of prevailing male ego in our country."
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strict and focused
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Honest and hardworking
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I feel ladies are as good as males we have examples like Indira .Chanda Kocchar,Kiran Bedi who have proved themselves in different fields.
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Nobody can deny the truth that whether male or female who are given birth by the mothers only. Of course the male ego plays.
@Kokula Krishna HAri : Arguing with the point that they lack in maintaining confidentiality is not acceptable. When the globe stress upon women Empowerment , researcher like you should admit their play as lead role is to be accepted. Counterfeit this with an valid argument. And the rate of Development when women has entered to participate has tripled . The play and accomplishing the task has been proved since years back and history too proves a lot............
I don't think so .. I can't really say I hate them. By nature the female bosses are more cautious and take time to take decisions. Some times they test the patience and think all unrelated risks are the most irritating things. when the have to take decision on pay revision or promotions or annual rating, they would play safe than male bosses.
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A female boss who is hated by everyone (as you assert to be a proven fact..sorry for me being ignorant of that) will not and may not lead a multi billion giant PEPSI to such greater heights..may neither head a leading bank like ICICI for such a span ,may not carry on with an FMCG like Britannia...!
Quite often we tend to generalize things...which sometimes may not be correct....taking your case for example (plz don't mistake me)... can unfortunately be just an isolate case..may be lack of understanding with your peers...may be it is just your perception ..or perhaps your have landed at wrong place...
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I support u Amit sir....it depends on how we perceive the working environment around us.
I do not think there is any other reasons, it is the way you see the things!! Thats all.. Bosses in general are hated...and that is because of communication gaps..
We cannot generalise things.. It all depends on one's perception & in which circumstance one has been working...sometimes it may be conducive & sometimes vice-versa..
involvement of femininity and non-acceptable dominance over male counterparts in business scenario
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female bosses a rare very less and majority of them, i believe , are emotionally strong, smart with a massive work experience and have not earn this title of boss just like that.
If they are emotionally weak,soft etc, then they should accordingly have to find their place in one's organisation, instead of being a boss and managing a bunch of people where getting a job done doesn't (or should not ever) consider in its dictionary the notion of implementing emotions and sensitiveness.
the involvement of femininity and non-acceptable dominance over male counterpart in business scenario makes these female bosses being hated.
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Hii Vishwas I think you are living in the past century,today females are considered equally responsible.They rarely use feminity as an excuse, they are asked to meet the targets in a way similar to the men . I think men are more socially irresponsible than women,and today most men require their wives to be working because they never were economically responsible. There is alot of difference between your perceptions and reality.
Economic responsibility and social responsibility has a great impact on the working style of an individual. In India however, females are seldom held responsible for economic conditions of a family and so one may see the impact in the working style of  female boss/collegue.Â
I sum up the reasons as follows :
-Working Females are generally not bounded with economic responsibility of a family.
-Feminity used as excuse to get rid of most key responsibilities. Like most responsibilities that may involve a labour job, or risk of death, must be done by males onlyÂ
-Feminity used as excuse to get special previliges.
 -The special previliges enjoyed by a working female are never labelled as sex-discrimination. They are just made unquestionable. Eg. The feminity is many times used as an excuse to leave the office on time, while the male workers are still toiling hard on a project. In worst cases, they may be doing her part of work.
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A workplace, where males are generally struggling with their work to earn their living with a fear of their own future, their family's future , their social reputation as an earning member, females are generally free from such fears.
 A male boss can be questioned/answered easily than a female when acting wrongly. But It's difficult with female bosses as they aready get a psycological social support/shield of being pure and stainless due to their feminity.
Male work force daily suffers with special previliges given to females in the form of reservation in transports, education , jobs etc, especially when they are given to the females who are from well-to-do families, especially when a general class male helplessly sees his rights getting snatched away in the name of respect towords woman.
 And when he reaches the workplace , dominance , overload of work in the excuses of  feminity, and simultaneously getting compared with the working of females would naturally add annoyances for him.
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This is the very common perception that I have faced frm my school days & still I'm a victim of it....people believe that ladies usually don't have brains to take decisions & run a company. |
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may b bcoz of their activity what they do in the workplace. i mean the way the behave. Basically there wont b more female bosses , and if there is a female boss notice her.. she wont be friendly ...i dont know how to explain that properly bcoz i am the victim who got pissed off by most of by female HR's while attending the interview. Surely i am saying 90 % of womenn will be more strong , and admant , and i dont know how to say that may b i am wrong. they think they are the most powerful person in earth than others, which literally makes them not to speak in a natural way to their and thats the reason .. why i hate female bosses ..i mean in my point of view.. i mean in a student point of view.. other than that they do hve some stuffs in their head.. and even they can do certain things.. properly... but BUT GIRL BOSSES OR NOT SOFT EMOTIONAL AND SENSITIVE .... i wont accept this.....
Ladies don't have brains? Isn't that too rude? Females are not that bad also yaar!!! they are a bit not so much that one should say "Ladies have no brains".
the person who has told you this( mam HR analyst) is clinically insane .. tell him ..he has studied .&.is working ::&.. toiling day and night .....just to make the lady and ( the kids born through her ) happy...... lady is the real automatic food processor ... a man is just a lame duck and a root less.vegetable ..raw material for food...
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I am not agree with your first point. Why you give chance to other say like this??? you mention that ladies don,t have brains it may true for you but we all have brains and we konw how to use it. next time plz. think and write
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being perfectionists they are driven by a sense of insecurity that something will go wrong ...some believe that perfectionism is a virtue but it can be the biggest curse to live with and a person of this type is not only highly driven himself but succeeds in driving others crazy (CHILL ---RELAX---Things can happen without a person pushing and breathing down someones back) this is the mantra some of us women need to keep repeating to ourselves.
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@Rashmi : What perfection could you see in females(Sorry for infringing you)? They don't have perfection at all. Male knows what is the value of time! He works throughout the night and even completes the job, but females specifically in India when the time click 6, start to their home.
By vertue of being good sometimes u become bad (not liked)
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Generally females are looked as wonderful creatures with great emotions and more societal. when you imagine a lady without these qualities, it creates all sorts of contradiction and aversion....
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and yes ..the poison is so sweet that .....ask mirza ghalib ..unki aahat ki pehchaan mein hamne ..sadiyan butaan dee..
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Most of the female bosses are quite authoritative. This is because they have inferiority complex that they are not respected at all times.
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FROM MY EXPERIENCE, THEY ARE USUALLY NICE WHEN ALL IS WELL but their other side is worse than hell.especially the single ones who are usually very defensive in nature.
But still they are not appereciated
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they are very gud and caring and always give their loves and i like female boss very much than a male boss
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May be most of women feel insecurity in thir filed than male. male argue with dominent position female argue with as defender. |
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I saw in my life many ladies who are studying or doing jobs along with doing a lot of work in house. They have handling these burden without speaking anything to others. I think they are strong enough.
Its also true they are sometime become weak by imotions, but that time also they are on right track.
I am not at all agree they do not have brain. They have brain thats wyy they are now boss, actress, CEOs and many big positions. According to me, woman can do everything, they are strong, they are hated sometimes because of mentality of man in the world.
Today world man is one side said,- woman is equal to man. Second side said woman can not do this.
I salute those ladies is not doing job only but taking care of family.
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I don't feel and don't think that women are anyway weaker than male bosses. They are good managers. They are a bit emotional and sensitive. So I dont agree that female bosses are hated bys male orfemale.
My colleague Hirdesh Kr. also agrees with me and says "Beauty and brain can go together so why not women bosses. Actually man dominated over men for the last several centurires but now the time has changed u can see an excellent example of Kiran Bedi, Pratibha Patel, Indira Nooyi (PEPSICO Dir) and last but not least Sonia Gandhi.
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By their day to day work, bringing up children in hygiene atmosphere, cooking with cleanliness etc, they are very perfectionists by nature. Thus, their demands on others is to look for absolute perfectionism..this puts sometimes others at believing they are tough
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I had female bosses but for very short period. In that period what I understood was they feel bit in-secured some where, some just love to boss around even if everything is going just fine they feel their employees should not forget boss(female) is around.
I have seen some females do not know how to dress up like a boss but only know how to boss around even if they are wrong.
I had a manager who was awesome manager to work with I am sure she can be a very very good boss to work with!
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FEMALE BOSSES ARE BEST EVER B'COZ BUSINESS IS NOT ONLY RUN WITH STRONG BEHAVIOUR
SOME TIMES IT REQUIRE'S SOFTNESS ALSO
I NEVER THINK THAT FEMALE BOSS ARE HATED
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Lets face it, women are different from men. While men can handle issues separately, women tend to connect everything to everything.
Having worked with two women bosses, I have seen them good as long as you do exactly what they say. The moment you differ in opinion, God help you!
Since women tend to link issues they are less likely (actually impossible) to forget things that have hurt them. So personal issues do get linked to professional ones. Thus there is a good likelihood of them getting personal.
To be fair to women, there are a number of men who do the same. I wonder if their estrogen levels run high :) :D
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Yours is a fallacious statement. In fact, every boss, whether male or female, is hated when he/she demands more from any individual. If you observe the flip side, you would exactly know how they are putting up and coping up the kind of stress they were in shielding the subordinates' inability to perform the given task on time to their own bosses! They are, sometimes, in the receiving end when the team fails to perform in crucial circumstances. Their anger is on the issue and task assigned to the persons concerned, and not on any personality. It is incorrect to draw any outright distinction!
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and when its with women, the fireworks will become another Mahabharat, Ramayan, Trojan war or even new Genesis. There is a shortage of humble men and confident women in our planet.
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Yes, ego is the main reason behind hate for woman boss.
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FEMALES ARE VERY ATTATCHED TO THEIR FAMILY, SECRIFICED NATURE COMPARING TO MALE, THEY ARE VERY EMOTIONAL, THE STAYBILITY OF MIND IS VERY LOW COMPARING TO MAN HENCE, THEY FEEL HESITATION WHILE WORKING IN SOME DEFFICULTIES, HENCE COMPARING TO MALE FEMALES ARE NOT GIVEN UPPER LADDER OF ORGANISATION.
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all over the world now a days female are growing and overtake the male... they have perfection in every work its their nature but males are not like tat !they diverted soon
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It's quite true what Mr. Md Sarfaraz Alam has said.it cannot be generalized. may be there's a majority on the part of dislike, may be it is for the idea of male domination, or male pride/ego... but surely not to be polarized.
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there is no such thing as female boss or male boss.fairer sex are not considered flexible for a quick and prompt decison
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yes, there is no such thing as female boss or male boss.fairer sex are not considered flexible for a quick and prompt decision
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It is a fact that females are more sincere and honest towards their work thats why female boses are hated
I too have the experinene that how my collegues try to dominate me if I use to assign any work to them. It is not so that females dont have brains, being sensitive also females can handle the work in a better way than the males
male personalities and not males are hurted ..
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The very debate 'Why female bosses are most hated is absurd, infact they are loved and praised by intellectuals and many other sections of society. There are example galore to corroborate the fact, for instance Kiran Majumdar Shaw, Sushma Swaraj, Chanda Koccher and Kiran Bedi. Only male with pseudo ego subsides their achievements. Can anyone tell me how many lady politicians have plundered money like A Raja and Suresh Kalmadi. More over women bosses have excellent managerial skills, far batter than their male counterparts, see how our own mother and sisters mange house.
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The very debate 'Why female bosses are most hated is absurd, infact they are loved and praised by intellectuals and many other sections of society. There are example galore to corroborate the fact, for instance Kiran Majumdar Shaw, Sushma Swaraj, Chanda Koccher and Kiran Bedi. Only male with pseudo ego subsides their achievements. Can anyone tell me how many lady politicians have plundered money like A Raja and Suresh Kalmadi. More over women bosses have excellent managerial skills, far batter than their male counterparts, see how our own mother and sisters mange house.
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dear we all sending our view on this topic is there is any use of doing continuous discuss on a single topic
we don't think that this is our time waste on doing the discussion on this topic
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It is quite simple if the person has given the authority to be the Boss then she have to use her power. Question does'nt arises of inferiority complex. That is another thing that Female bosses are hated.
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FROM MY EXPERIENCE, THEY ARE USUALLY NICE WHEN ALL IS WELL
but their other side is worse than hell.especially the single ones who are usually very defensive in nature.
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Ofcourse they are good but this things are not appereciated by the male employees
They are truely sincere as well as honest towards their work
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Hatred for women Boss is not bad we may understand as no Bias in Gender, you feel it or have it for both the masses.Hatred is a very good sign of you going top of the management hierarchy. Well it is to be transferred in such way that people need to understand the matter of fact.
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Even if they dont discuss such matters at office, but they cant hide thier emotional frustration and anger related with thier family issues. I also want to add one more reason and that is "INSECURITY". they always feel insecure from their office colleagues
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Here are few reasons which i feel could turns an employee to hate his/her Female boss!
1.Men talk to give information or report. Women boss talk to collect information or gain report.
2. Men always talks about facts, reason and logic. Women focus on feelings, senses and meaning
3. Men thrive on competing and achieving. Women thrive on harmony and relating
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Nobody hates a female boss, unless she behaves rudely. In such a case even a male boss is hated. Hating women in high places is a wrong notion.
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It is because of prevailing male ego in our country. However, I don't think they are most hated now a days. Present days women are talented, competent and result oriented and they love good work.
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I believe that female bosses are more strict and focused and that is the reason for hatred towards them
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Although the modern society in India is trying to overcome from the phenomena that male are superior than female yet a long distance is ahead to cover. Areas such as Defence forces, Police, etc are male dominated where a female boss rarely accepted. But some areas like fashion designing, cosmetic industries, education field, etc are welcomed the females and there is hardly hesitation to accept a lady boss. In the area of education irrespective lower or higher, the female heads are doing very well. One who acquire the position of Head/Boss in an organisation due to his/her ability and seniority. The subordinates should not discriminate the boss/head on the basis of sex factor. The under commands must obey the instructions or orders of boss for the betterment of an organisation. It has been experienced that in most of the cases the lady bosses have proven themselves as an honest and hardworking team leaders. This adjective or specialty perhaps heart the feelings of male colleagues who work in a team. One should not hate a female boss only on the basis of her gender factor, the subordinates must explore the good traits of the lady boss and should keep in mind her position in an organisation. I would conclude my idea with the example of Ms Indira Nui, she is holding all affairs of Pepsico being head very efficiency and effectively. I do not think there is negative atmosphere against Ms Indira Nui. Further more many ladies are holding top position in the organisations and male subordinates are happy to serve under them.
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