Why women give up their careers? What could be the possible causes??

There could be several reasons, why girls give up their carreer. But a girl need not give up her carrier for the sake of family life. Most Girls/ Woman wants to be a mother and wants to bring up her child and she wants to give the child, what she herself has missed in life.

1. While love marriage with the understanding that marriage is not partnership agreement between boy and girl but between two families and discuss and konw beofre you love nay one what are the constraints and compromises you have to make if you marry him without hurting yourown carrier ambitions too much; can succeed. Womens sacrifice would in such cases will be limited to becoming mother of a child and at that time.
2. Most men would help in planning and managing the home if you do it right from the begining and plan on sharing. Once laziness sets in, it becomes a habit then it becomes difficult to change any one later.  
3. Most people think they are in love but in fact it is the natural bilogical desire that brings them together first, which they think love. They dont study the family backgrounds, habits, income levels, life ambitions, constraints, sacrifieses nedded etc before chosing a life partner and marriage. Thats why they end up frustrated and in some cases divorce. Ask yourself if you will divorce a man then what is the hurry in marryoung him before studying him and his family propelry, it is just the bilogical desire that attracts you towards him and you start repenting for what you have done later.
4. There are several educative films with themes " Hw to to succeed in family life with out sacrificing your carrier.
5. Need of the hour is reducing polulation and think before marriage can you forgo having a child and becoming mother of your own child instead bring up or help a orphened or hungry child which needs a family support.
6. Society needs to be changed. Most people even today think womans place is in the kitchen and providing sexual pressure to the husband and bringing uo children. Gone are those days. Look at the reality of today. Most cooks who cook food when it comes to preparing food for big parties and functions, it is the male who cooks. But the same male in house expects women to cook for him.

This is because they are still expected to do the majority of household chores and look after the children on top of their working day. Meanwhile their husbands put their feet up - even if they have worked the same number of hours, the study suggests. Male spouses were more likely to become the main breadwinner because of the greater domestic demands placed upon women who prioritise their husband's work by staying at home. The norm of overwork systematically disadvantages women, who are less likely to work long hours because of the expectation that they will have primary care-giving responsibilities and do more housework than men. As long work-hours introduce conflict between work and family into many dual-earner families, couples often resolve conflict in ways that prioritise husbands' careers.

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Paradigms like work and career may be perceived differently by women and men. Researches on managerial issues related to women indicate that this is indeed true. For instance, work may be a source of confidence and satisfaction for women while for men it may be a source of livelihood and estimation of personal value. Career may also be looked at differently. In complex ways, these differing perceptions may be affecting decisions by women related to their career.

In my opinion, most of us do not try to understand the inner meaning of life, so we are always confused, for which we mess up our lives. Men and women ,both are creations of God, and each has a unique position in life. We must understand the external differences between men and women , and then should try to analyze our duties and responsibilities accordingly. Internally, i.e. in the absolute plane, men and women are equal; but externally, i.e. in the relative plane, they are different so they must play different roles.

When a woman becomes a mother, she will have to give her love, time and devotion to her child. According to the rule of nature, children are more closer to their moms than dads. This closeness remains effective up to the age of 18. During this period, a devoted mother spends most of her time for the all round development of her sibling. Similarly, a devoted father should support his wife and child honestly and sincerely during this critical period. Once the child crosses this age, mom can go back to work if needed and if suitable opportunity exists. Of course this is a relative situation and varies from case to case.

It differs from person to person.It is not possible to pinpoint single cause  or list the causes.Everybody has a personal point of view towards their own life but it is also true that decision of a woman is mostly influenced by  her family especially husbands.

Most of working husband cooperate in household works with women in current scenario as per metro cities work out but the condition is that there must be a single family rather than joint. It is not a issue but need attention in this regard. I think there may be reason of false "I" in the mind of men. Our culture, society, & long years old customs may also be the reason for same. But outside the home now women are flying high (Demand) than men in corporate world...........

I do not agree to the fact that husband do not cooperate in household work. It is just that this generation of women have seen their mother as housewife and felt that they should stand on their feet. Having tasted stress and strain of work they felt like returning to domestic laid back Bliss. Since now incomes have grown and they are not required to put any labour in household work - with multiplicity of gadgets and availability of servants what is the best way to enjoy gossips and movies with out any strain of work and  stress is to be a house wife. 

These days a working women need not be required to contribute to household work . With availability creches , cooks and ayas and take away foods  it is just a question og management of house a la corporate style.

The nature or God has created woman to cultivate,culminate,endure,educate ,train her off springs so that world order could be maintained.She is under no circumstances a weak ling.The giving up is entirely upon her gene who guides her to leave inheritors.

It is being need of yougester that most of them need working wife now a days because every body needs money.Such people will coprate with his wife in house also. It is also true that they are very few.Time is changing quickly and mass of the husband will have to coperate with his wife .Wife is doing work at house,this is the very old tradition/culture of our society which will certainly change.

But one thing ,iwill like to share that the resposibility of kids can perfactly be carried by mother only and no one can relpace the place of mother. That is the reason awoman has to give more time than husband. It is also fact that no one women wuold like to marry idle husband othrwise this problemb can be sorted out and he may cotribute more at house.

There are so many other social requirements and laibilties which restrict working women at home but this can be sorted out with their mutual understanding.Any  framed rule and regulation can not be a binding which may help this subject.

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