A suicide attempt

nobody take this step happily. situation fores to do so.

thanks for referral Ms Darsana'

It is purely depend upon the situation faced by an individual, as no one commit a suicide happily & doesn't want to end up it's life in this way.
Thanks for referral, Darshana.

Thanks Darshna, This type of thought comes to the people who do not belive in God and does not have faith. 

Thanks for referral Ms. Darshana Sawant,
This malady can not be cured at once. It depends on the circumstance that drives one to commit suicide. There is no stead fast rule that, people commit suicide under these circumstances.
However, we have to encourage individual to live life at all cost. Once you get the chance of being a human-being, why not to make use of it to the possible extent.

Thanks For sharing

There is only one or two reason no more reason but that reason heartly touch with his or her emotions and some time no one could help to him Also other factor such as Time, Luck  

Suicide is not a solution of any problem. It only creates the problems for the people left after you. Its a very big cowardliness to run away from a difficult situation. Difficulties are part of life and we must face it with all our strength. And think, what is the fault of people whom you left alone after you. They have to bear all the hardships only because of you...............

A story comes to my mind.  There was a young king whose kingdom was conquered by another king.  The king thought that it was the end of the world for him and was about to commit suicide.  His minister told him three words "This shall pass".

The king understood that it was a temporary phase, rebuilt his army and defeated the enemy.  As he was celebrating his victory, the minister again told him, "This too shall pass".  The king got the message, made his son the king and renounced the world.

The moral of the story is not to renounce the world but to remember that everything in this world is temporary - victories and defeats.  Wherever there is a down, an up will certainly follow and vice-versa.

"This too shall pass" is the mantra to be remembered at all times.

Let's face it - Life is not beautiful for all, and, it's often see that virtuous life is not rewarded.

"Right to Live" implies living with dignity, and, if someone is deprived of it, he should have right to end it without being called coward or selfish.

However, life is the most important aspect someone can have, and, its presence or absence can affect others. Taking it away should be carefully decided, looking at self & others; giving a deep thought and not as a reaction.

In simple words - "Die Responsibly"

Suicide attempt made by only human body out of all living beings. It is because we can think of our shelves and the surroundings. When we think extremely selfish in a negative manner, the result is suicide. While suicide, person forget the consequences due to ignorance. Suicide comes mostly due to failure and offending situations. But, all can't success in this world because of the basic principle of success exists due to failure and it rotates with time. Just verify 3/4 generations of each person to get the result. Killing self is the extreme misuse of universal power given to human beings and all concerned are equally responsible on whose acts and deeds such a step is forced to be taken by the culprit.  

Stressfull life and limited social relationship leads to depression. This is the major cause of suicidal attempt now a days. Healthy social relationship, Family atmoshpere can help to reduce such type of incidence in society. psycologic treatment is atmost required in such type of case.

Those who have still anything unsaid or unlearnt may please see the hindi movie- "Jootha hi sahi"
From my end I would say the proven fact " Bhagya se zyada aur Samay se pehle kisi ko kuchh na mila hai na milega"
If you are upset don't discuss with anyone until and unless you find that person worth sharing.
Have wise friends rather foolish friends.
If you share some sorrow with someone its the society that may have sympathy for you but will laugh and feel happy on your misfortune.

Life is full of beauty as much as it is filled with troubles everybody has them.Praise god for the life & LIVE It dont LEAVE IT.If u leave it you will never know what it had it in store 4u.It is  a mystery so enjoy it 

Really interesting. As far as I know there is a suicidal tendency in some human being and some people do the same at the heat of moment. God saved the great.

Nice story thanks Darshana.

thanks for this sharing mam

Suicide is not a solution if u think that suicide is the solution for all the problem then u dont have the guts to face the problem in ur own life   

The story was more on critic, if you take the critics in positive way, we will end up doing the best, if we take it in a negative way, and we get all thoughts in our mind.

I was really desperate to bring my life back on track when i got a spoiled rank of 1,11,646 in AIEEE. My father scolded me, the colony people started taking me for an outcast. I was feeling really stuck and did not see any way out. Also, because of my bad result, my family environment had become tense and qurrelsome. I too was too flustered with the tension in the air. I knew that the bathroom mirror was cracked. I felt somehow, that it was responsible for all this unrest. In an attempt to throw it away, i slid off one big chunk of glass, that fell directly on my right hand wrist, cutting my nerves, blood started flowin out like pressure release pipes. for some seconds, i did not wish to get fine, wanted to let the blood flow. I FELT SUICIDAL for a minute. Then Mummy called, I came to senses. Papa had left, she and my didi was there at home, both panicked. I somehow gathered strength and caught the right hand nerves with left hand. I ran to the hospital, that was around a kilometer from there. I was in senses, till i was alone and lying on bed. As soon as mummy reached hospital, i saw her and fainted. I did not wake for next three days. It is a very addictive thought to feel suicidal, it has a great rush of adrenalin... but for sure, is very dangerous. 
Since that day, I promised myself that i shall never let negatives overpower me.... 
And here I am, through all odds and troubles, with little charm in past, and lots of struggle, trying to establish my own from RCA Group, from the ashes of the past mistakes. 
I now know, that a person who has once been suicidal, will have strength more than others, patience more than others, if he has overcome the feeling.... 

Suicide must be the very last option not the first one, still you know whatever efforts you make to come out of problems you are not 100% done, if you did 100% then the solution must have been achieved.

The bid to attempt suicide comes all of a sudden and out of frustration.The endurance limit of human reaches the flash point,the moment he or she loses her or his worth.Those who attempted  suicide and retracted are the people with strong elasticity(my opinion)and would be engaged rest of their life in creative activities.(again my opinion) 
Thanks, Darshana for enlighting the readers and contributors.

I AM SEARCHING FOR THE MEANING OF "LIFE" AND I THINK AFTER MY DEATH MY SOUL WILL ALSO SEARCH THE MEANING.

It happens because you are not trained to think spiritually. If you know that you are a soul and not this body, that even after you die the circumstances will continue to haunt you , probably in an even more horrible way : you won't ever think of killing yourself.
Most importantly, if you deeply believe in God, most likely you will let Him decide when to take your life : because you know that as a gift of God, your life belongs to Him and to Him alone, not even to your own self.

Situation arises, or coward behaviour what ever it may be, the suicides happen only because of expectations. we keep lot of expectations if not happen people committing sucides.  It is more with people having abnormal behaviour.  please do not keep expectations, what ever came in your life accept it with out any expectations, deliver or fulfil it with commitment any result good or bad accept it. we will not have any pain since there are no expectations. since you have commitment your work will be awarded in good way definitely with blessings of god.  Always think what ever happens is for my good. This can only done perfectly when you do not keep any expectations.  So friends always remember do not keep any expectations but keep only your commitment.

Life is getting complicated more and more. Or rather we are making life complicated. May be we should at least in the mind, live like that dog in Chetan's story. A life looking for the necessities alone, (food clothing and shelter), which I think most of us do have. The rest of the so called 'needs' are of the ego, which we can at least question whether those are needed at all.

As for a person on the brink of attempting suicide this kind of talk wouldn't make a sense. I think a lots of counseling by trained persons and medicines, prescribed by psychiatrists, which bring to balance the neuro-transmitters in the brain might help. 

Well, the society and the parents are so cruel towards their kids which pushes the innocent souls to commit this act. Every household wants its children to be an Engineer or a Doctor and that is the main problem out here. Society is largely to be blamed for it. Almost everyday, I read innocent children committing suicide simply because they cannot cope up the pressure of examination and hence commit suicide. The reason behind this is "Pressure" from schools, colleges, family and the worst is society.
India tops the list among suicides in terms of juveniles in the world. 

Rajeev ji, your confession proves that how honest and objective you are in your life! If we analyse the entire scenario as per psycho-analytic approach, what really happens is in spur of a moment! A Psycho-analyst never criticizes, disapproves, or moralizes, or is never shocked, as the patient pours out his fears, his shames, his guilt-feelings and his "bad thoughts." For perhaps the first time in his life the patient experiences acceptance as a human being; he "feels" that his self has some worth and dignity, and he comes to accept himself, and to conceive of his "self" in
new terms. Therefore, an affected person, requires proper counselling and psychiatric treatment so that this thought of suicidal attempt never comes back to haunt him in future! 

More n more factors of daily life are making the struggle more n more difficult. Ppl have to realise that it's Ok to fail, it's Ok to be ugly, and that you have to think of others as well as yourself when you're doing stuff. If you're too selfless ppl will walk over you, n if you're too slefish, ppl will crush you. 

LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.... LIVE IT ..... DO NOT LEAVE IT

Thanks for the referral. 

I think it's very easy to give such lectures on "life if beautiful".. "suicide is cowardly act".  Everyone, who write poems, literature etc can do that, because nothing gets wasted more than a paper and ink... 
On the contrary it's a very very difficult thing to create such a management of human resources where they may not come to an ultimate decision of ending their life. The possibilities of making hundred open doors even if one is closed. Saving 2-3 lives by saying such things, may make one feel good! but that does'not solve the root matter. The root matters are solved only when a whole mass of people gets affected and thus their thinking changes, and might be then they have a lot of possibilities open before thinking about suicide. 

I Think lack of knowledge about what life exactly means is the reason behind suicide. People are not aware about laws of universe about life if you want to live your life there are always up and downs you have to face. As success never remains at one place in your life same failures never stays in life at one place this both are cycle which we always have to face failures are just feed from life and it need to correct and go further in life. And success always come after the greatest disappointment which not said by anyone but it is the rule of nature. If people knows this they may take failure as a adventure and can move further for success.

We dont know what is in store in the future for us.  Decisions taken at the spur of the moment are not wise.   People weigh the situation to the present leaving the future.  Things go on change in everyone's life.  Nothing is permanent except the change.  Patience is required to get on with the troubled times.  It is easy to give suggestions, hard to follow it.

I felt like this one time in my life...during my school days...when i requested something from my parents and they keep on refusing to get it for me...lol...whenever i remember those days i feel shy on such acts! 

Suicide is basically an intense emotional decision and most people are not practical enough to weigh the pros and cons of any situation. Keeping a cool head will help you not to look at situations emotionally. There is a saying that "when all things go wrong, you are not able to bear even for a minute, that is when the tide will turn" So lets be practical

Today the approach to life has become materialistic. Everything we need is instint, most of us do not have patiance to wait. We have become like machines, where in before the baby is born we plan and try to execute whats planned as if we are tracking the action plan. We are born with nothing and when we leave we take nothing, to read and advise it looks like sermon. But todays life is just like pressure cooker, offcourse it will expode if the valves are checked. So suside attempts are like valves of the pressure cooker some time it will so dangerous that many die some times its just near miss. The way of thinking needs to be changed, but it is difficult coz, most of thehighly educated people try to keep high targets.........

" its not point of being coward or worse situation, its a matter of accepting the truth of real situation. Every human being had made some limitation of thinking, when it comes to think beyond it, makes to attempt suicide

I have no qualms in sharing here on toostep that I myself attempted suicide twice, that too at the adult age of 23-24. My baldness has come from one such attempts because of whatever I consumed to end my life. But that was many moons ago. I have the courage of conviction to say now that the life, though no bed of roses, is beautiful. Challenges, upsets, reversals, defeats are essential part of life and a necessary spice. One must learn from one's defeats and not be an escapist. Because life is worth living and you have no right to end your life which you got for no contribution of yours. 

i think it not because of coward people think like that, it's all depend on the situation of  a person sometimes it worse and he or she cant manage this  situation and then thought to attempt suicide. it doesn't mean he or she is coward.

only cowards think of it.those who cannot face life as it comes they are useless to themselves and as well as to others.
ending a life will get anything what they have lost but however living a days life you can do much more than what one can think of.