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 A teacher teaching Maths to seven-year-old student asked him, "If I give you one apple and one apple and one apple, how many apples will you have? "Within a few seconds the student replied confidently, "Four!"

  The dismayed teacher was expecting an effortless correct answer (three). She was disappointed. "Maybe the child did not listen properly," she thought. She repeated, "My boy, listen carefully. If I give you one apple and one apple and one apple, how many apples will you have?"

 The student had seen the disappointment on his teacher's face. He calculated again on his fingers. But within him he was also searching for the answer that will make the teacher happy. His search for the answer was not for the correct one, but the one that will make his teacher happy. This time hesitatingly he replied, "Four…"

 The disappointment stayed on the teacher's face. She remembered that this student liked strawberries. She thought maybe he doesn't like apples and that is making him loose focus. This time with an exaggerated excitement and twinkling in her eyes she asked, "If I give you one strawberry and one strawberry and one strawberry, then how many you will have?"

 Seeing the teacher happy, the boy calculated on his fingers again. There was no pressure on him, but a little on the teacher. She wanted her new approach to succeed. With a hesitating smile the student enquired, "Three?"

  The teacher now had a victorious smile. Her approach had succeeded. She wanted to congratulate herself. But one last thing remained. Once again she asked him, "Now if I give you one apple and one apple and one more apple how many will you have?"

Promptly the student answered, "Four!"

 The teacher was aghast. "How my boy, how?" she demanded in a little stern and irritated voice. In a voice that was low and hesitating young student replied, "Because I already have one apple in my bag."

 When someone gives you an answer that is different from what you expect. Don't think they are wrong. There maybe an angle that you have not understood at all. You will have to listen and understand, but never listen with a predetermined notion.

 

 Top Comment : Winsome Thomas   | 02 14 2010 06:35:13 +0000
"never listen with a predetermined notion" - That is a wonderful insight. Thank you, dear Amit, so much for the insight
 
11 comments on "Apple in the bag "
  Commented by  malladi madhukumar, AGM -MKTG, Andhra Cements Ltd    | 03 22 2010 11:05:57 +0000
never listen with predetermined noition ---- good insight. I add one more line pl listen fully before jumping to conclusions.
  Commented by  Priya Varadan, Independent consultant, Self employed    | 03 11 2010 14:10:04 +0000
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interesting, thanks Veejay
  Commented by  ujjval jain, All roles for me, Abhishek Ent    | 03 06 2010 06:17:38 +0000
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'Listen Without Prejudice',,You have a great collection of such nice insights Mr Ranjan,,,thanx again. 
  Commented by  Makrand Bhave, Marketing & MICE, WIZCRAFT International    | 03 06 2010 06:02:34 +0000
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Ambiguity in maths??? This is classy Amit. What I learnt from this is what I always preach. Never be judgemental and have a predetermnined notion about about anyones intelligence!! This is not about motivation but its about judging someone by the way the person appears before you in age, sex or projected intelligence!!

Amazing Amit ... :)
  Commented by  Paresh.Khanchandani, Process Manager, E-Procurement Technologies Limited    | 03 05 2010 14:43:47 +0000
"Superb" "Simple" "Scintillating" !!
  Commented by  KUMAR SAURABH JHA, CSR IN TODAY'S BUSINESS WORLD, PRESENTLY PURSUING PhD    | 03 05 2010 11:55:56 +0000
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BRAVO. Really something that motivates one and may help at times.
  Commented by  RAMESH KANDADAI, Principal Consultant, ARM Consultants    | 03 05 2010 11:49:28 +0000
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excellent moral....dont write off a reply unless you have thought of all the possibilities.
  Commented by  Nitin M Aras, Head/VP/GM-Tech. Support, Wintech Taparia Limited    | 03 05 2010 11:45:13 +0000
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interesting ... i learned from it ... thanks
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Wonderful Insight! "never listen with a predetermined notion"
  Commented by  Sudeep Tarafdar, Senior Consultant, IBM    | 02 15 2010 11:28:33 +0000
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Thanks for sharing such a wonderful insight.
  Commented by  Winsome Thomas, Agency Manager, MetLife Insurance Co    | 02 14 2010 06:35:13 +0000
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"never listen with a predetermined notion" - That is a wonderful insight. Thank you, dear Amit, so much for the insight 
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