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Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person and has no barriers or conditions as to the place where you can have it. We can be friends with anyone in the different hierarchical levels, irrespective of ranking and other similar socio-professional differences.  A boss can be friend with his subordinate and vice versa. It is however based on our ability to see friendship and official responsibilities distinctively so that official functions are never affected by friendship. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Restricting your mind from having a friendship at workplace is an indication of growing power distance, which will only hamper group creativity and teamwork.

 Top Comment : Gargi Sinha   | 08 04 2009 14:54:07 +0000
Of colleagues can be very good friends. They should be. Rather I would say without good friendship, they won't be able to work efficiently in a team.
 
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  Commented by  Nikhil Jain, Senior Consultant, Hewitt Associates    | 10 26 2009 09:23:37 +0000
Colleagues are friends. Since without being good friends, its not possible to work efficiently in a team. They help each other in their works, have a mutual understanding among themselves, share the total workload and lastly, have an emotional bonding among each other. All these are signs of friendship only....
  Commented by  Kumbakonam S Venkataraman, Associate Editor, Dynamic Youth online magazine    | 10 25 2009 17:40:47 +0000
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We may find friends from any source. Whether it is family, neighborhood, educational institution, working place, and so on. Sex, caste, religion, country of origin - none of such things can be a filtering point for forming friendship. Even ideological difference or professional competition need not be a limiting factor for friendship. We may get good friends from any group or source. This is my personal experience.

Whatever I have said does not mean we should overly be ready to form friendship with anybody and everybody. Thiruvalluvar has allotted twenty couplets for this subject.(Thirukkural - Chapters 79 and 80) Though we may be open to form friendship from any group, we should be doubly careful before converting acquaintance into friendship. 
  Commented by  varsha, technical manager(QMS)    | 08 04 2009 20:03:13 +0000
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Here it  comes the word called as "professionalism".. no doubt u can be friend with ur colleagues  but u have certain limitations related to your work area..so its  bit tough...i do agree with devi mam view..

 .. thanks for sharing
  Commented by  Devi Kaladeen, Audit Manager, Health Sector Development Unit    | 08 04 2009 19:35:56 +0000
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You can be friends with your colleagues but they have to know where to draw the line. Out of office is a complete different scenario from when you are in the office. 

Very sight insight. Thanks for sharing.
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Of course they have to be friends otherwise its difficult for both to move forward in terms of their profession. 
Even though there are lot of politics inside, but one has to bear it. 
  Commented by  Gargi Sinha, Senior Consultant, Hewitt Associates    | 08 04 2009 14:54:07 +0000
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Of colleagues can be very good friends. They should be. Rather I would say without good friendship, they won't be able to work efficiently in a team.
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