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Industry : Investment Banking Functional Area : Change Management
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This is a story about a famous research scientist who had made several very important medical breakthroughs. He was being interviewed by a newspaper reporter who asked him why he thought he was able to be so much more creative than the average person. What set him so far apart from others?

He responded that, in his opinion, it all came from an experience with his mother that occurred when he was about four years old. He had been trying to remove a bottle of milk from the refrigerator when he lost his grip on the slippery bottle and it fell, spilling its contents all over the kitchen floor—a veritable sea of milk!

When his mother came into the kitchen, instead of yelling at him, giving him a lecture, or punishing him, she said, "Robert, what a great and wonderful mess you have made! I have rarely seen such a huge puddle of milk. Well, the damage has already been done. Would you like to get down and play in the milk for a few minutes before we clean it up?"

Indeed, he did. After a few minutes, his mother said, "You know, Robert, whenever you make a mess like this, eventually you have to clean it up and restore everything to its proper order. So, how would you like to do that? We could use a sponge, a towel, or a mop. Which do you prefer?" He chose the sponge and together they cleaned up the spilled milk.

His mother then said, "You know, what we have here is a failed experiment in how to effectively carry a big milk bottle with two tiny hands. Let's go out in the back yard and fill the bottle with water and see if you can discover a way to carry it without dropping it." The little boy learned that if he grasped the bottle at the top near the lip with both hands, he could carry it without dropping it. What a wonderful lesson!

This renowned scientist then remarked that it was at that moment that he knew he didn't need to be afraid to make mistakes. Instead, he learned that mistakes were just opportunities for learning something new, which is, after all, what scientific experiments are all about. Even if the experiment "doesn't work," we usually learn something valuable from it.

 
26 comments on "DONT AFRAID TO MAKE MISTAKES"
  Commented by  rakeshbhatnagar, GM Projects., wig brothers india pvt.ltd.    | 09 07 2010 18:23:20 +0000
RIGHT MANOJ,GIRTE HEE SHAH SAVAR HI MAIDANE JANG MEEN ,WOH KUFR KYA GIRE JO GUTNO KE BAL CHALE
  Commented by  rakeshbhatnagar, GM Projects., wig brothers india pvt.ltd.    | 09 07 2010 18:23:07 +0000
RIGHT MANOJ,GIRTE HEE SHAH SAVAR HI MAIDANE JANG MEEN ,WOH KUFR KYA GIRE JO GUTNO KE BAL CHALE
  Commented by  Ravindra Sharma, Managing Consultant, CHEF-India    | 09 07 2010 06:52:56 +0000
Thanks Manoj, 
For another nice one. 

Entire life is about learning and sharing, until material and inflationary ego put a full stop.
  Commented by  arun singh, MBA/PGDM student, ABV-IIITM,Gwalior    | 09 05 2010 19:44:43 +0000
thoughtful lines and story..thanks sir..
  Commented by  Vipin Bhasin, Private Equity/Hedge Fund/VC-Manager, Indian Investment Co.    | 09 05 2010 15:17:22 +0000
Mistakes always give us a new lesson.. i agree.. Good story Mr. Manoj..
  Commented by  NATTERAJA R. ARIKRISHNAN, Area Sales Manager, HPL INDIA LTD, CHENNAI    | 09 04 2010 18:27:06 +0000
Nice and practical one..

Thanks for the referral Mr. Manoj Kumar and Dr.Ali Ahmad.
  Commented by  Yogita Jaywant Patil, XML Associate, Trac Mail    | 09 04 2010 15:37:02 +0000
it is nice ....
  Commented by  KALIYAMOORTHY, Oil & Gas Area Coordinator, Undisclosed    | 09 04 2010 12:36:20 +0000
Failure is a stepping stone to success. We always quote, Nepolean , the warrier.But, remember, in Industrial environ, failure costs money. So analyze initially thoroughly & execute. So that, no financial loss occurs.
  Commented by  SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Consultant, Project Management Consultancy Firm    | 09 04 2010 11:19:07 +0000
Mistakes are done by those people who tried at least something.
So it is better to try something in spite of mistake than doing nothing for the fear of failure.
Thanks Dear for referral.
  Commented by  Rathin Deb, Resident Manager, Tower Infotech Ltd.    | 09 04 2010 09:45:55 +0000
Thanks Dr. Ali it is a mind blowing article. Really enjoyed it. thanks.
  Commented by  Rathin Deb, Resident Manager, Tower Infotech Ltd.    | 09 04 2010 09:41:02 +0000
I have gone through the articke, it is superb.thanks Jyoti.
  Commented by  Naushad H.L., Creative Director, MAD COMMUNICATION    | 09 04 2010 05:56:25 +0000
THATS PRECISELY THE REASON WHY...
                           " A COLLECTION OF MISTAKES IS CALLED... EXPERIENCE. "
P.S : One should only be careful & not repeat the same mistakes. Cheers !
  Commented by  Suresh Prasad Gupta, Freelancer, Pharmaceuticals    | 09 04 2010 03:32:08 +0000
It tells you to learn from your mistakes and you are sure to achieve success after a few attempts.
  Commented by  Nohar Singh Dhruv, Assistant Engineer, PMGSY    | 09 03 2010 13:29:43 +0000
Manoj jii thanks for nice article... Duniya me koi bhi aavishkar bina galti (mistake) ke nahi hua hai.. Galtiyon se hi shikh leke bade bade aavishkar huye hai.. Aur har galti se kuch na kuch sikh to milti hi hai aur kuch na kuch naya ho jata hai...
  Commented by  Dr Ali Ahmad, Medical Superintendent/Director, Surbhi Hospital    | 09 03 2010 12:38:17 +0000
Veery nice Mr Manoj, Thanks for the referal Jyotiji.
  Commented by  Jyoti Chetani, Freelancer, Equity Research/Analytics    | 09 03 2010 12:26:47 +0000
we have to be always a good follower, learner and atlast must be a good teacher. Right as here from Child to mother. Gr8.....Keep up the inspiration.......!
  Commented by  Ram Swaroop Sharma, Ex.Head Brewer, Spencer Distilleries & Breweries    | 09 03 2010 12:17:58 +0000
Inspiring lesson for elders to handle the young one.
Thanks 
  Commented by  Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy    | 09 03 2010 11:23:24 +0000
A great lesson for a teacher. Thank you
  Commented by  sai kiran M, B.Tech/B.E. student, drk college of engineering    | 09 03 2010 10:38:11 +0000
u r right
  Commented by  ANAND M, Freelancer, Human Resources (HR) Consulting    | 09 03 2010 10:26:27 +0000
Good one Manoj ji...really worth learning from it....
  Commented by  Manoj Kumar, Sr: Manager - QA, ARCHETYPE GROUP, INDIA    | 09 03 2010 09:56:30 +0000
Thanks Nitin for your comments...it is always nice to hear like this from you all.
  Commented by  Nitin M Aras, Head/VP/GM-Tech. Support, Wintech Taparia Limited    | 09 03 2010 08:33:02 +0000
I learned... how to treat with the kids... good one.... but I feel nuclear scientist should not take such risk for creation.... LOL!!!

DONT AFRAID TO MAKE MISTAKE ..... DONT TAKE IT GRANTED ALSO ..

I like one statement of UJJAVAL JAIN i.e. Always make a NEW mistake... its great part... if you do not repeat the same mistake..

Good one Manoj.. as usual and as expected always from you.... 5 STAR
  Commented by  Rathin Deb, Resident Manager, Tower Infotech Ltd.    | 09 03 2010 07:53:31 +0000
Real good stuff Manoj.
  Commented by  Priti Tiwari, Engineer, Datavibes Commsys Pvt Ltd    | 09 03 2010 07:28:06 +0000
Really great story...and also inspiring.....
  Commented by  Harish Vadgama, Proprietor, Self , Freelance    | 09 03 2010 07:21:14 +0000
Rupaji, If you really think about it we keep learning and innovating from our mistakes all the time. Only that our efforts may not be Earth-shaking or great discoveries. Actually how do you think babies and little children learn things? 
Makes one feel good, doesn't it?
  Commented by  Rupa Majumder, Executive Secretary, SVBTC    | 09 03 2010 06:52:32 +0000
Really Nice... But how many of us will implement this in our real life...
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