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A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired.
 
During their visit, the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work and lives.
 
Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment of cups - porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.
 
When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: "Notice that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.
 
The cup that you're drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate.. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink.
 
What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but you consciously went for the best cups... And then you began eyeing each other's cups.
 
Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position in society are the cups.
 
They are just tools to hold and contain life.
 
The cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have.
 
Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate God has provided us. God makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the cups. The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have.
 
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. And enjoy your hot chocolate.

 Top Comment : Makrand Bhave   | 07 16 2009 06:54:01 +0000
Amazingly simple and such a big truth hidden there!! Good lesson and a great insight! Thanks Paresh for the referral! Liked it immensely :))
 
23 comments on "Hot Chocolate"
  Commented by  Nagpal Singh, Sales and Business Development, Babel Group of companies    | 11 26 2009 04:21:05 +0000
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What a good way to solve the equation of life.... interesting bdy
  Commented by  Sunil S, Business Development Executive, Strategic outsourcing    | 11 05 2009 13:45:48 +0000
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This is an amazing story.. and it is very true actually.Story looks simple but the fact is very heavy!Amazing. thank U for this:-)
  Commented by  Satish Kumar, Project Executive (LEED), Conserve Consultants Pvt. Ltd.    | 11 05 2009 10:20:13 +0000
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Nice topic and nice lesson...........
thanks for sharing.....
  Commented by  kawaljit kaur aka priya, B.Com student, ssic-vikram university    | 11 05 2009 07:07:29 +0000
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this is yumm..we often tend to ignore things we already have 'coz we busy chasing material pleasures in life .i totally agree with authors ponit of view,that we want best in life but don't want responsibilities associated with it.it's like we want free commodity without buying the main.'coz one sometimes in pursuit free sample makes the purchase n hence pays price for it .i hope i able to convey it properly..
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Very Nice Story giving a very Good Lesson.........Thanks for sharing....!!!!
  Commented by  Nitin M Aras, Head/VP/GM-Tech. Support, Wintech Taparia Limited    | 09 25 2009 09:25:03 +0000
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Essence of life never understood by common man like me. This one is the simplest way of understanding.

Great one... Thanks Paresh.

Viktor you have located .....  appreciating man..
  Commented by  Charles davison, Project Manager, Douglas OHI LLC    | 09 23 2009 11:34:08 +0000
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Good one .very easily explained,very easily understood
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Wow, really a fantastic article depicting the simple realities of life!!
  Commented by  Viktor Stephen, COO, Business Mashup    | 07 19 2009 16:18:51 +0000
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Copied verbatim from http://notoverthehill.com/forums/display_topic/id_8474/Hot-Chocolate/ without accreditation. 
  Commented by  Devi Kaladeen, Audit Manager, Health Sector Development Unit    | 07 19 2009 05:26:33 +0000
Very nice story. Thanks for the referral.
  Commented by  Dhananjay Raturi, Head of the Department, XYZ    | 07 19 2009 02:12:26 +0000
Deserves every pixel of the spotlight!

what a good read to start the day 
  Commented by  Bellala Gopinatha Rao, Project Manager Promax Management Consultants    | 07 18 2009 11:33:51 +0000
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Thank u Paresh for this nice story
  Commented by  Prabhat nair, Correspondent, kendrathil    | 07 17 2009 05:31:32 +0000
very ncie and intersting 
  Commented by  varsha, technical manager(QMS)    | 07 17 2009 03:10:10 +0000
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its really very nice story ...great one

The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have.

thanks
  Commented by  SB DIKSHIT, STATE QUALITY MONITOR, U.P.R.R.D.A    | 07 16 2009 17:11:47 +0000
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What a great story full of facts of current environment ,its a fact the each of us see theouter surface and never think for the insight,which we are able to see with the great companions of great TOO STEP.
  Commented by  rashmi koul, Assistant Project Controller, MWH    | 07 16 2009 10:19:27 +0000
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Thanks ,really we should see what exactly we wants from our lives,Hot choclate or Cup Serving Hot Choclate.
  Commented by  Vivek Singh, Construction Manager L&T    | 07 16 2009 08:49:35 +0000
Thanks! I needed it.
  Commented by  Kashif Billal, Strategic Design Manager, Shravan    | 07 16 2009 08:36:04 +0000
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Absolutely, Yummy and Delightful Cup of Hot Chocolate you have served Paresh. You have made the day...... :)
  Commented by  K Satish Kumar, Client Servicing Executive, TBWA\TEQUILA    | 07 16 2009 08:14:08 +0000
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Truth is very simple, but hard to tell and accept. Great story to keep ours minds in right prospective 
  Commented by  Padmanabhan R, Finance student    | 07 16 2009 07:51:54 +0000
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nice insight sir, thanks
  Commented by  Sudeep Tarafdar, Senior Consultant, IBM    | 07 16 2009 07:10:35 +0000
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Truly life is so simple, but then people make it so complicated with all the expectations going around and then forget to enjoy what they have but instead search for what they don't have...thanks for the article paresh.......
  Commented by  Makrand Bhave, Sales Promotion Manager, XYZ    | 07 16 2009 06:54:01 +0000
Rating : +4 
Amazingly simple and such a big truth hidden there!! Good lesson and a great insight! Thanks Paresh for the referral! Liked it immensely :))
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