How to stop mourning your startup failure....

  It is unfortunate that we are socially conditioned to celebrate only successes. However,what is really important is the efforts.Well tried efforts even if they fail need to be celebrated as much as successful efforts. After all it is your failures which teach you true lessons of life. It is failure which teaches us what not to do to succeed. In fact every one must fail once in a while. It is only than that you will actually enjoy success even more & shall  achieve even greater success.  

Just take lesson from past mistake & little change in your approach will give you the success.

DON'T MOURN AS THERE IS NO PLACE FOR SENTIMENTS IN BUSINESS , NOBODY WILL BE WITH YOU IF YOU MOURN . GET UP AND DO SOMETHING TO COME OUT OF THAT SHOCK AND RECOVER TO START AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. 

yes its true. failure is the step to come up and correct the mistakes. from the failure we can learn many lessons. ignore the past failure and take the lesson from it. now i remember one Quote about failure.... "If you are not failing every now and again it's a sign you are not doing anything very innovative"

Failure is a lesson , do not sit and mourn neither run behind it . Leave it and try to recover from financial problems .If you are qualified technically do some job to get a certain fixed income, it may reduce your burden and divert you as well.

thanks for referral manoj without the failure their is no success, if u work hard that its will lead to success,failure is oly a temporary one so don't worry about it,forget it start again to success.."failure is first step for every success"  be confidence,brave,strong helps for ur life long success.....

the first day recording of great music maestro Illayaraja witnessed a power cut and plunged into darkness. but the rest is history.

Hey sunita..ur words are energetics.,.

Thanks for sharing Mr.Manoj Kumar.

Failure gives experience to set right things in the next attempts. Failures are the stepping stones to move further to face the challenges and to convert into results.
The spider taught a lesson for the success to a king Gajini Mohammad who was defeated 17 times in the war and on the attempt of 18th time he was succeeded.  

Thanks Ms. Sunita Mahapatra for the referral. 

 I also agree with Sunita's view.

Failure is the pillars to success, we can learn many things from failure. Thanks for the referral.

A good one Sunita....Let me summarize it with a great example

Sir Edmund Hillary was the first man to climb Mount Everest.

On May 29, 1953 he scaled the highest mountain then known to man-29,000 feet straight up. He was knighted for his efforts.

He even made American Express card commercials because of it!

However, until we read his book, High Adventure, we don't understand that Hillary had to grow into this success.

You see, in 1952 he attempted to climb Mount Everest , but failed. A few weeks later a group in England asked him to address its members. 

Hillary walked on stage to a thunderous applause. The audience was recognizing an attempt at greatness, but Edmund Hillary saw himself as a failure. He moved away from the microphone and walked to the edge of the platform. He made a fist and pointed at a picture of the mountain.

He said in a loud voice, " Mount Everest , you beat me the first time, but I'll beat you the next time because you've grown all you are going to grow... but I'm still growing!"


This is the attitude that has made most of the world renowned achievers to reach their goal in life!

The attitude of “ learning & growing” every moment in life!

Yes i agree with you Sunita, put the failures aside and start working again.. afresh...It reminds me of a quote "having lost sight of our objective, we redoubled our efforts". With regard to people who criticize you from behind, forget them..."Pay no attention to the people who talk behind your back...it simply means you are two steps ahead"... should be the password....Thank you for the referral...

 Thanks,Sunita for referral.The write up is most inspiring one and is a lesson for those who mourns the start up.The failure is a temporary setback or phase.It should therefore be taken one more opportunity to start afresh.

Just ignore the past failure & learn from it, life goes on & you have to move on.. we must remember that  behind every major success , there is a failure ,if it is not a matter of luck.. mourning can't be a solution for further problems but can be an obstacle to get confidence for future success.