In a lighter vein

MR.BAALU,

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE.  I WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW ONE THING, THE ADVICE WHAT YOU HAVE GIVEN WILL DEFINITELY WORK, SURE.  BUT, IN TURN, IT WILL MAKE ME A SINNER, I DO NOT WANT TO BE SINNER ON TOOSTEP.  

"HURTING SOMEONE IS A SIN, IT MAY BE THEIR CUP OF TEA TO HURT SOMEONE, BUT I WANT TO BE AWAY FROM THIS IDEA, IT WILL NEVER LET ME LIVE PEACEFULLY, AS I HAVE ALREADY LOST THE PEACE ON TOOSTEP, PEOPLE STILL TALKING INDECENTLY WITH ME....INDIRECTLY PELTING STONES AT ME...I THINK THIS IS NOT GOING TO STOP.  I AM COMPLETELY TIRED AND FED UP.  

NOTE:- PLEASE NO MORE FURTHER DISCUSSION IN THIS REGARD, LEAVE ME ALONE.   


THANKS.

Going thro these i am very happy that i stopped going thro referrals to me and am not spending  time on this worthless Toostep.Simple suggestion to Mr.Sairam HIT WHERE IT HURTS THE OFFENDER.you will win as offence is the best form of defence.

thnks inani for sharing

DEAR MR. ANANAD,

I HAVE ALREADY BEEN OFFENDED, TIME WILL DECIDE WHO IS TRUE AND WHO IS FALSE...OKAY KEEP IT ASIDE THAT MATTER.  

YOU HAVE COMPLETELY MISUNDERSTOOD WHAT I SAID, I AM TALKING ABOUT A PERSON WHO HAS RECEIVED 3 REFERRALS, I HAVE NOT RECEIVED ANY REFERRALS. THE LINK WHAT I HAVE PASTED ON THE PAGE, JUST ACCESS THE DEBATE YOU WILL FIND IN EXTREME LEFT TOP USER HAS RECEIVED 3 REFERRALS.  

HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE?  I KNOW VERY WELL ABOUT THIS SITE, THE WAY OF PROGRAMMING METHOD THIS SITE HAS DOES NOT ALLOW MORE THAN 2 REFERRALS AND SOMETIMES IT ALLOWS ONLY A SINGLE REFERRAL.  

I HOPE I HAVE DRIVEN HOME POINT MR.ANAND.


WARM REGARDS,

Dear Mr Sriram,

Please do not get offended.. If you get referral more than once it does not mean someone is deliberately doing it.. it is because three different people can refer you same  thing or there can some loading problems which will make same thing land up into your inbox more than once . 

 

SIR,

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU, I READ ALL YOUR MESSAGES ON TOOSTEP AND YOU ARE A GENTLEMAN ON TOOSTEP, A MAN OF MANNERS, I CAN SAY THAT, NOBODY IS LIKE YOU.  RECENTLY YOU HAVE ADDED ME IN YOUR LIST, I REALLY FELT GLAD TO BE A PART OF YOUR MEMBERS LIST.  

AND I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT THE REFERRAL WHAT YOU SENT TO ME, I AM TALKING ABOUT THE REFERRAL WHICH MENTIONED BELOW: -

http://toostep.com/debate/sin-is-committed-in-thoughts-first

WHERE A MAN TODAY HAS GIVEN HIS STATEMENT AND ENDED WITH 3 NAMES, HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE SIR?  EITHER A DEBATE OR INSIGHT CAN BE REFERRED TO A PERSON ONCE OR TWICE, THRICE IS ABSOLUTELY NOT POSSIBLE.  AND MOREOVER IN THIS DEBATE WHAT I MENTIONED ABOVE, I WAS HUMILIATED AND DECLARED AS SINNER, CHARACTERLESS AND EVEN ATTACKED MY FAMILY, THOUGH I DID NOT CARE TO SOME EXTENT.  

I RESPECT YOU SIR, I SEEK BLESSINGS FROM YOU, YOU ARE TALKING TO ME RIGHT NOW, TODAY IS THE MOST HAPPIEST DAY FOR ME.....YOU ARE THE 3RD PERSON WHO IS SPEAKING DECENTLY WITH ME SIR, THANKS FOR BEING A GOOD SUPPORTER, I NEED YOUR HELP SIR, PEOPLE ARE BLAMING ME UNNECESSARILY.
  
I WOULD LIKE TO SAY AGAIN, THAT, I DID NOT COMMIT ANY SIN ON TOOSTEP, I EVEN DO NOT TALK WITH ANYONE, NOBODY KNOWS ANYTHING ABOUT ME.  

PLEASE DO NOT MISUNDERSTAND ME, ITS A REQUEST. 

THANK YOU SIR.


WARM REGARDS.

Dear Mr. Sai Ram. I never intended to hurt you. Honestly, I swear on god, I do not know whom you are referring to.. While going through some of the postings and comments, I thought some members are crosing the decency levels. So while advising the people to limit them to the discussion and stop using abusive language, I gave a suggestion. A small story is added to make it readable. If I am attacked indecently, I will only say "Forgive them My Lord, They know not what they are doing". You appear to be an young man. I advice to to leave the matter as it is. This gives you peace and tranquility. I came from a well educated and respectable family and I respect others. Let wiser counsel prevail !!

IT'S TRUE THAT I PARTICIPATED WITH HIM AT MANY DEBATES, BUT HE NEVER SPOKE MALICIOUS ABOUT ME, BUT IN A RECENT DEBATE, HE LACKED DECORUM AND A KIND OF NEGATIVENESS IN HIS STATEMENT THAT INDIRECTLY RAISED FINGERS AT ME.

DID HE THINK I COULD NOT UNDERSTAND HIS GESTURES?  THE WAY HE GAVE HIS STATEMENT ITSELF INDICATES THAT HE WAS PELTING STONE AT ME.


IF THE SAME INCIDENT HAPPENS WITH YOU, WHAT WILL YOU DO?  HAVE YOU EVER FACED SUCH SITUATION IN YOUR LIFE?  HAVE YOU EVER BEEN THROUGH SUCH A PHASE?  DO YOU KNOW HOW PAINFUL IT IS? 

WHAT DO PEOPLE OUT HERE WANT TO PROVE BY SENDING UNNECESSARY REFERRALS WHERE I PARTICIPATED IN A DEBATE WITH HIM?  WHAT DO YOU WANT TO PROVE?


I WOULD LIKE TO SAY ONCE AGAIN THAT VIRTUAL CANNOT DECIDE ONE'S CHARACTER, IF YOU STILL WANT TO KNOW ABOUT ME......LET US MEET IN REAL WORLD, IF THIS CHOICE DOES NOT SUIT YOU, THEN GIVE ME A CALL.


SEE, IF YOU FEEL I HOLD A GOOD CHARACTER THEN ONLY SEND INVITES AND REFERRALS TO ME, OTHERWISE IGNORE ME, I DON'T WANT TO BEG FOR INVITES AND REFERRALS, SINCE I HAVE NO PROFILES IN ANY SOCIAL NETWORKING SITE, THIS IS FIRST TIME I HAVE COME IN FRONT OF WORLD.  

I SAY ONCE AGAIN I DID NOT COMMIT ANY SIN ON THIS SITE, I JUST ATTEND THE INVITES AND REFERRALS, IF I HAVE SAID ANYTHING WRONG IN A DEBATE, AS I HAVE ALREADY ASKED FOR FORGIVENESS, I ASK ONCE AGAIN TO FORGIVE ME....

PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO MISLEAD ANYONE, EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO LIVE AND SPEAK IN THIS WORLD.....BE HAPPY WHAT GOD HAS GIVEN TO YOU TODAY...... IT'S A BENIGN REQUEST.  



HEALTH AND HAPPINESS......

Sir this story proved that cat is young enrgetic and open minded..others are old  narrow minded and jealousy....Actually cat was just rocking infront of the othes..I love this simple n dimple n rock & roll cat

As a normal sane person (I hope so), I agree with you regarding observing decent norms of behavior. Unfortunately, as management theory and research shows, about 10 to 20% people are simply incorrigible, and will behave negatively; we have to live with such people, that's life. In fact, with new found prosperity in India, it seems more people are developing a tendency to misbehave.

Thanks for referring 

Well said Mr. Murthy and i thank for the referral. your comment on debate/discussion goes on to say the right thing that we should value others. Rightly said

SIR,

I AGREE WITH YOUR POINT OF VIEW, BUT TO SOME EXTENT, NOT COMPLETELY.  SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT TALKING ACCORDING TO THEIR AGE, SOME ELDERS ARE BEHAVING LIKE KIDS, THEY SIMPLY ATTACK ONE'S CHARACTER.  IT HAS ONLY BEEN SIX MONTHS SINCE I CAME ON TOOSTEP, I PARTICIPATED ALMOST ALL KINDS OF DEBATES, IDEAS, INSIGHTS, ETC.  BUT I NEVER CAME ACROSS SUCH A BITTERFUL SITUATION, NOBODY SPOKE MALICIOUS ABOUT ME.  THIS HAS BEEN CONSTANTLY PERSECUTING ME, I EVEN DO NOT ASK ANY QUESTION WITH ANYBODY, I DO NOT TALK ANYONE, THEN WHY AM I BEING CALLED AS "CHARACTER_ _ SS?  I DID NOT DO ANY MISTAKE, WHATEVER THE REFERRALS AND DEBATES I RECEIVE THROUGH MAILS, I JUST ATTEND THEM, THAT'S ALL.


HOW FAR THAT IS FAIR TO ATTACK ONE'S CHARACTER ON VIRTUAL WORLD?

MOREOVER, HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE TO PROVE ONE'S CHARACTER IN VIRTUAL WORLD?  


THROUGH INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY ONE CAN GET THE NEWS, EMAILS, WEATHER REPORT, HOROSCOPE, ETC BUT HOW CAN A PERSON DECIDE ONE'S CHARACTER THROUGH INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY?  IT'S A BIZARRE INCIDENT ON TOOSTEP.

WHAT DO THE REFERRALS AND INVITES MEAN ON TOOTSTEP?
ANS: - YOU ARE JUST EITHER SHARING A KNOWLEDGE OR PROVIDING SOLUTION TO A PROBLEM, AS FAR AS MY KNOWLEDGE IS CONCERNED, NOBODY IS DOING EXCEPT THAT, OTHEN, WHERE DOES THE POINT ARISE TO ATTACK ONE'S CHARACTER? 

THOSE WHO ARE ABOVE 35+ OR 40+, I REQUEST NOT TO HURT ANYONE...... ITS A BENIGN REQUEST.




NICE STORY SIR, GOOD ONE!



SIR, THANKS FOR SHARING....


THANKS FOR REFERRAL...

Very nice story. Also your views about toostep.com are welcome as tolerance is definitely the need of the hour.

very true said ..n story is of-course reflects wisdom

Good story, Sir.
& thanks for referral, Inani.

Sir the story is nice but the fact before the story is nicer. I appreciate your feelings for Toostep. Thanks for posting sir. Perhaps people will understand.

superb +ve replied by cat, thank u sir for this story