Molestation : what should a child know

Its a disease or better say call it a mental imbalance

dr must be touch to check really or latest of position of particular but it should no be excused for touching 

All parents should learn a lesson from this & should alert & educate their children for such incidence.
Thanks for referral , Darshana. 

absolutely agree, we need to talk to them and make them comfortable to make them tell us what happened and never judge 

Good one :) keep it up

Yes Mr. Pi.  

Srinivasji.. I read this article by Darshana and her clarification later. She used small font for the introductory remarks, that too in a single line. Almost everybody mistook the message. 

Very sorry Darshana for not noticing the headline.  Had it been given at the end of the story, we would have noticed.  I noticed the headline, I forgot.  I am sorry.  I thank you once again for sharing this information. 

Thanks Darshna for referrel, it is the right time to awake about these bad things. We can aware our child about this and also take steps to prevent this.

Thanks for referring Darshana. In today's world it is better to teach children (both boy and girl) about good touch and bad touch. Also teach them strategies to overcome if they face these kind of situations.

Thanks,Darshana for sharing a piece of information on child abuse and its antidote.Innocence never realizes the abuse and intention of a molester.The reason being the culprit is either relative or family friends.It is therefore very essential to educate children how they should behave with their cousins,uncle and strangers.  

Very Good Article Darshana thanks for t referral 

Dear Darshana,

Highly appreciated for spreading you bold message.In such cases, what i have noticed is, mostly parents are either scared to protest against of it to retain family respect or to ignore it to avoid unnecessary trouble. This really a BIG TROUBLE for any girl.  Congartulations to the person  who have not scared and decided to fight, but only alarming thing is --there may be millions of girls who are not BOLD ENOUGH and who JUST SIMPLY CANNOT FIGHT AGAINST OF IT and for that matter they are just spoiling their precious life. My observation is --- in such cases --FAMILY specially PARENTS plays a MAJOR ROLE where they have to provide a shield and courage to shout against of it. Mental strength,support, can be given by ONLY FAMILY--- CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME....
Regards--

Good Darshana,
     Whatever you have done is just good.There are many monsters living around us who don't even see the innocence in the face of children.There is a need to rise the awareness about those in the children so that they can understand what is the molestation and how to tackle with that.And please if such thing happens to your child don't hide this,just give a strong reply to the person who did it so that no other can be his next prey. 

hello Darshana,very informative.i agree with Dinesh.we should keep our childrens informed about these things and such persons.

We should tell our daughters , how to avoid such rascals....

Awareness to all in a suitable forum by brave women are very important. More so the openness in our culture is yet to take more time as advocated by many.More social changes in the attitude of boys and girls from the childhood days does give a clear insight into this.
What  I can  say that all the  above are some measures that can reduce such nuisances yet we cant totally eradicate it so long as we have a very big gap of educational awareness, the cultural and social support that are equally responsible.
A good topic not only for women but also  for men to know what it really means and the impact that brings in a psychology of a person.

Men are no difference to animals if they didn't control over their mind.

good one

Thanks Darshana for sharing this insight. I thought, in this context, let me share how Joyce Meyer could cope up with these monsters.  With her distinctive voice and preaching style, Joyce Meyer is one of the more well-known Christian evangelists today. She can be heard on the radio or seen on the television for people who don't attend her church but still wish to be both encouraged and enlightened by the message that she has to share. She has also made her mark as the author of many best-selling books. Joyce Meyer suffered undeniable abuse of all sorts, starting at home as a child and carrying on into her adolescent years. She grew up to be marked with the scars that abuse always leaves and to have difficulty in understanding and developing interpersonal relationships, particularly those of the romantic sort. However, she did meet and marry a fine man, Dave Meyer, whom she eventually came to trust and engage in a loving and mutually respectful marriage with.  This didn't just happen overnight, though.  It took years of patience and dedication for their marriage to become what it is today.

A bold decision to share. I appreciate you Darshana.

Molestation is common in the society and everybody should lend a hand to eradicate this menace. This not only happens with Girls, even boys are victims of this problem.  As a young boy, I myself was a victim and could not share this to my parents, as I was not comfortable to share such nasty things. I think every child experiences such things in some way or the other. I think every child should be trained and cautioned against Molestation. Govt. has to take stringent measures to punish such crimes which often go unnoticed.  Anyhow, I thank Ms.Darshana, for raising this topic and bringing awareness among the people.

Dr. Ali it is nice to find you back in too step after a long time and I fully agree with your point of view on the subject.

Nice story, every body must learn lesson from it.

its great that you've put your effort in being firm against these kind of sexually sick minded people who committed the sin,i wish it din't hurt you for your life but for that moment only and best wishes for your future, and one thing i might like to add here is that we must try n refrain from our intentions if anything like that comes to our mind ,it may really prove nasty to the life of one who suffered

Everybody please note the first line of the post : This is not my story. I found it in someone's blog.

Darshana very well said I only wish if every body should be like you this dirty word will not arise at all. One should know how to protect one self.

Dear Ms Darshana, What your mother has done is a matured wise thing. Not all the naughty will keep out of you, when you beat them in public. One of them will wait for the time to hurt you and the chain will keep going. Best to avoid such situations. Fact remains, until caught all are gentlemen. If great learned munis and rishis fell for this, what are these wretched. No end to this.

A bold decision to share. I appreciate you Darshana.

I appreciate your feelings for same, we should spread such awareness in society. Such things should be knock-out out on same time otherwise that person will be free to do his/her next ridiculous action.

Nice article Ms Darshana,
This is indeed a topic which is not discussed in the right manner. Steps should be taken to make children aware of the harassment. 

Well Darshana!

I appreciate your bold step and I agree that all the children should be cautioned.