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Hi Friends,

Sharing with you an interesting blog posted on TalentEquity.in

“Did you hear that the new Team Lead is flirting with the boss? ”; “Oh! he is getting divorced!”; “Her wallet got wacked from her bag!!” .W ho doesn’t like the juicy gossips and if it’s at the work place, the more the merrier! There were few people in my previous office, who were also known as ‘Mr. Know It All’ as they knew everthing about the workplace and people. However, office gossip is always regarded as vicious and hurting for the employees. People believe that it can hamper the productivity and can create physical and mental problems for the victims.

On the other hand we feel there definitely is a brighter side to office gossip.  Gossip can be a great source of information (apart from fun and humour!). You can get useful pieces of information from gossip about hints of lay-offs, impending policy changes, who is doing what, strategies for the customers, growth prospects, promotions in the team, news about clients and business etc. So don’t be uncomfortable with the idea of gossip, in fact consider it as a positive, informal communication system.

Workplace gossip can be healthy and beneficial for your career. Just remember to follow a few simple rules, listed below:

1. Filter: Being the silent listener helps. Extract the useful information and filter out the rest. You may not be interested in knowing about personal history of a colleague, but who is preparing the promotion list and on what basis, can be useful information for you.

2. Utilize: You can use the information in many useful ways. Like if you got to know that your boss likes doing social work a lot then you also can discuss your ideas and experience on the same. So that you could be in the good books of your boss.

3. Promote: At informal team meetings, smoke breaks with the boss, or at other conventional gossip places you can make people aware about your achievement or your efficiency at work that might have gone unnoticed otherwise.

4. Trust: In a professional work environment, you may not get the chance to know and understand your colleagues. By spending some informal time with them, you can mingle with your peers, understand them and build a constructive relationship.

5. Unwind: In a competitive and stress inducing work environment if you can enjoy a light moment with your peers, it will refresh you.

I feel, nothing is really bad or harmful; it depends on how we act upon it. We need to see from a positive viewpoint. We should know that even useless junk can be useful in building a castle! 

Keep your feedback coming :-)

 

Regards,

Sanjay

 Top Comment : Ajay Ziz   | 11 19 2009 07:28:10 +0000
yeah... gossip is a tool for stress buster therapy... you know stress :: a worm if you step on it ..and a virus which screws the mind if you let it go to head..
 
10 comments on " Office Gossip - Good or Bad?"
  Commented by  Naushad Ansari, PGDM, ACCMAN INSTITUTE OF MANAGEMENT    | 11 24 2009 11:27:02 +0000
HI..THIS IS NAUSHAD FROM ACCMAN INSTITUE OF MANAGEMENT. SO " OFFICE GOSSIP" GOOD OR BAD, THERE CAN BE DIVERSIFIED OPINION REGARDING THIS QUESTION. ACCORDING TO ME ITS DEPENDS ON TIME TO TIME, AS SOME TIME PEOPLE DO GET FREEDOM TO CHAT WITH THEIR COLLEAGUES. SO IF U THINK THAT THERE IS NO WORK REGARDING UR PROFESSION AND IF UR PARTNER OF FRIEND IS ALSO FREE, THEN U CAN , OTHER WISE IT SHOULD BE PROHIBITED
On one hand gossip is really not good anywhere but on the other hand it actually reveals so much about people around and if you are a good observer you certainly can learn a lot
  Commented by  Makrand Bhave, Marketing & MICE, WIZCRAFT INternational    | 11 24 2009 09:27:00 +0000
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Good one Sanjay!! But GOSSIP is definitely not healthy! I am not advocating this at all :))
  Commented by  suchita Ambardekar, Portfolio Manager, Tristate Medical Equipment India Pvt Ltd    | 11 23 2009 05:04:43 +0000
Wonderful.....Sanjay....

Never thought this way....even gossip can be used a uping platform....wonderful....a diffrent perspective..eh...
  Commented by  Vivek Singh, Project Manager, L&T    | 11 20 2009 02:50:24 +0000
Good one. I totally agree with the idea(s).
  Commented by  Devi Kaladeen, Audit Manager, Health Sector Development Unit    | 11 19 2009 17:59:49 +0000
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I am not the gossiping type nor do I tolerate gossip in the workplace. However, I do listen to things that people would say which is of gossiping nature. I sometimes do find some interesting and a few facts from those gossips do help me in the line of my work.
Recently I was asked to  do a certain audit but was not sure what was the problem that cause the boss to ask for the audit to be done. I overheard a conversation between two junior employees and lo and behold I hit the jackpot.....I was able to identify the problem and complete the audit in good time. Thanks to office gossip. 
  Commented by  kasturirangan.r, Consultant, Videocon Industries Limited chennai india-600035    | 11 19 2009 10:31:15 +0000
office gossip is how you take it,it can be good for some and bad for others.
  Commented by  Manish Grover, Sales Executive/Officer, Pugmarks Interweb Pvt Ltd.    | 11 19 2009 10:11:41 +0000
Agree with Ajay.......
But stress if handled properly is also the force behind the performance,meeting deadlines...etc...
  Commented by  Ajay Ziz, Deputy Registrar, University of Jammu    | 11 19 2009 07:28:10 +0000
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yeah... gossip is a tool for  stress buster therapy...

you know stress  :: a worm if you step on it ..and a virus which screws the mind if you let it go to head..
Thanks Sanjay for sharing this piece
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