Say no to abortion : a short story

Thats a good one mallika. Interesting way to make your point.

Excellent, Malika. Thanx for sharing.

Thanks, This is the respect to life

We need more & more Doctors like the Dr. in the story.
Thanks for posting it on TOOSTEP, Mallika.

Excellent...
Thanks for referral, Ms Malika !

wow, well done Malika ! the point is driven home. sometimes, slapping alone works, is not it?

its really appreciable. beautiful way of convincing. 

Crime is Crime.

Good one mallika. Hope we have all gynecologist like this doctor.

Good one mallika. Hope we have all gynecologist like this doctor.

Thanks for referral Malika, that was great story i would say the government has to stop the manufacture of the abortion tablets there r also method to avoid so 

What a great example to conveince anyone in a situation like that. Just too good to say anything regarding this.....
At any cost crime is a crime...so No excuse for abort .....   I agree with it till this is not going to kill another life.......

The story is really good example for sex examiner professionals who wish to earn money any how.We should support this one.

Thanks,Malika for sharing an story of a woman or a person who does not know how to handle the situation of double-decker.Though awesome,it speaks truth of our every day life.We do not know how to say 'NO'to new assignment before taking the previous one up to its logical ends.This story suggests that you need 'MENTOR'for balancing your life.

When w'd we Learn 'we are humans' ? Once i wrote a quote "I w'd Love Better, Being Human First, than to be a Human Being in the Clutter". It's a Noble Initiative you Have taken Mallika...best of Luck !                                        

Truly the story is touching.But we can't say "Yes or No" basing on the story. When a mother face such a situation, we have to take her health condition,professional status,family background and prevailing circumstances around her into consideration. If she can't copeup with any of these challenges, she is at liberty to take a step as she prefered. Bringing up a child in proverty, with ill health,without proper care and affection and unable to provide education is more dangerous than abortion. It is our responsibility to educate masses about how to delay the pregnancy.

VERY NICE MALIKA, IT IS TRUE THAT PEOPLE HAVE MADE IT A ROUTIN PRACTICE . THERE MUST BE SOME HOLD OVER IT .

superb

Thanks all. Yes everyone will have different prospective and for me my effort to put forth this is successful as majority of people have taken this in right sense. ..and yes I will keep posting.. :)

Good One...

There are so many methods to prevent these situations.  If only those are adopted, these abortions can be avoided - though not fully.

If every women follows this,it wiil be great.............

Truly touching story, killing a life whether in arms or in womb amount to same crime.

Awesome......

Good going, Mallika Ji. Post more of such motivational stuff 

REALITY NICELY EXPLAINED THANKS MALLIKA.

Thanks for referral Ms Malika,
Very nice story & doctor has very wisely advised the woman.

If the abortion is preferred on the grounds of the sex of the would be born baby, than its to be opposed. 
If one is really thinking over the life of the fetus than even when we use a contraceptive its that we are killing a child or at-least the would be fetus.

Let's think logically that one of us or any other is not in a stage to bring up the child due to the circumstances irrespective of either care was taken or not to prevent pregnancy it's better to abort the child but before the 3rd month. For if the MTP(Medical Termination of Pregnancy) is to be done after that period it effects the mother. 
If a girl is sexually assaulted and as a resultant she is pregnant can we suggest her to have the child. I am sure the answer would be NO by many.

There are many mother's and father's who give birth but leave the children for their sake either to beg or to be sold of, hope ABORTION is far better than leaving the child on the streets for him to eaten away by the dogs(these kind of incidents happen in India occasionally)

Its' More important for the parents to look after the born kids for a bright future. Hope getting aborted is not as bad as the parents today prefer to divorce for a better partner not thinking of the kid(s) 

Malaika nice one.How the perception changes for the same situation once you point your finger to the facts.

Absolutely. This should be pasted on every maternity hospital in India.

Nice....

well said. Thanks to share such a nice story

what to say mallika, bt good one .

Intelligent Doctor!! well Explained too. thanks for sharing Mallika! 

Thanks for sharing it MAlika, touching story....

Logically correct. But, some times situation may warrant the parent to go for abortion.  At the same time, they would have taken proper care if they dont want a baby when they are hopeless to manage the two little kids.  Certainly it is a serious topic as Mr. Muralidharan said.  Abortion on gender discrimination is ofcourse unlawful. Other abortions we cant ban.  But, these kind stories may change the attitude of the people.  

Mallika, this is a very serious topic!  No two persons would be able to give you perfect view. Each one will view it from the angle of his own belief system, dogmas around, and more so, his / her understanding of this subtle issue!  First of all, we are in 21st century and we have all sorts of contraceptives available at doorstep to avoid any issue of this magnitude.  Therefore, no Doctor would ill-advice any patient - he would have seen potential danger to the person bearing, if aborted at that stage!  Instead of directly presenting the case, he would have presented it differently!

Good one Malika... its an eye opener to our society.... though some people close their eyes behind logical and scientific thinking.... APPRECIATED

Great story.  Hitting nail in the brain of the woman.  If it was unwanted, one should take care in advance.

Going by the present generation world,  say no all those contraceptives that are sold in most of the medical shop like chocolates and pipermints.  This is infact creating a rucus in most of the marital issues and life,  Secondly, unwanted beliefs can also be a bit of a neusense so overall its a crime altogether if it is an abortion.  Give chance for birth,  it will do world of good for the many who are unaware of so many things in life.  when you say this world is small,  it is no more seeing such calamities like tusanami or bhopal gas tragedy etc...

Mr, Narayanan,

I cant really understand your point, especially the last para....

Why cant too step memebers take the positive message of insights rather than digging deep into and making like a debate as we had seen recently...

For most of the people it is a right message against abortion.

Thanks Mallika

Thanks mallika for reference. Its real true story.

I would like to differ. It is left to the discretion to the individuals and let us not impose our views on this subject. 

There is a fetus inside the womb and it becomes an individual only after it starts breathing on its own after birth. It is different to kill a independent breathing child and it is not the same as far as a 1 or 2 or 3 month fetus. After, say 6 months the fetus is more or less fully developed and difficult to abort. 

This sort of messages only give strength to "Anti Abortion Lobbyist" and "Religious Organizations" and put lots of women into unwanted hardship.

Malika, thanks for a story that makes one sit and ponder. However, abortion is a matter of belief while killing a baby already born is altogether a different matter. There is no ambiguity that the latter is murder.

Our beliefs make us think differently. 

Personally I'm against abortion but I felt it necessary to state my views dispassionately.

Very Well said. Abortion is a crime and should be avoided. Child is God's gift and if you do not want it then there are other means to avoid such situations.

true advice/lesson for the whole world.

Good one, Ms Mallika. Post more of such motivational stuff pl.

Well said! A true advice/lesson for the whole world.