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By : Alka Thakur, Technical Support Manager, Vendio Services and a freelance German Translator
Industry : IT Products Functional Area : India
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 Dance in the Rain

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,

That is the kind of love I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.


The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.


I hope you share this with someone you care about. I just did.
'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.

 

 

 Top Comment : Paresh.Khanchandani    | 11 20 2009 17:45:50 +0000
Wenn wir lieben, ist es nicht, weil die Person ist perfekt, dann deshalb, weil wir sehen, lernen, eine unvollkommene Person perfekt. Vielen Dank für die Befassung Frau Thakur!
 
10 comments on "The rain dance!!!"
  Commented by  Alka Thakur, Technical Support Manager, Vendio Services and a freelance German Translator    | 11 24 2009 09:27:23 +0000
Like  your comment Makarand!! 
  Commented by  Makrand Bhave, Marketing & MICE, WIZCRAFT INternational    | 11 24 2009 09:23:05 +0000
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What can I say?? I have been dancing in the rain all my life :))
  Commented by  Alka Thakur, Technical Support Manager, Vendio Services and a freelance German Translator    | 11 22 2009 15:18:28 +0000
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Vielen Dank für Ihre Kommentare Herr Khanchandani. Sie haben recht hier!! 
  Commented by  Rassal V M, Team Leader -(NonTechnical), R R Donnelley    | 11 22 2009 14:42:14 +0000
Touching Story.... now a days we forget about love and run behind money... so sad to say but thats it all about.. Cheers
  Commented by  Paresh.Khanchandani, Process Manager, E-Procurement Technologies Limited    | 11 20 2009 17:45:50 +0000
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Wenn wir lieben, ist es nicht, weil die Person ist perfekt, dann deshalb, weil wir sehen, lernen, eine unvollkommene Person perfekt.

Vielen Dank für die Befassung Frau Thakur!
  Commented by  kawaljit kaur aka priya, B.Com student, ssic-vikram university    | 11 20 2009 15:16:11 +0000
very beautiful thought conveyed through simple story ..really we want everything in our life without respecting what we already have...thnx lady.
  Commented by  RamaRao, UX Designer, Host Analytics    | 11 20 2009 07:23:39 +0000
Its more loving than living. Good one :)
  Commented by  Ajay Ziz, Deputy Registrar, University of Jammu    | 11 20 2009 05:17:52 +0000
if this is true story ...dikshit sahib ...may be the one  who has felt it can tell.

but then the person has to sing it in verses aka habba khatoon ..and yusuf chak..
or may be  tunda kashmiri can play through his flute....
  Commented by  Reni sebastian, building inspector and public works overseer Gr I, Govt keralam    | 11 20 2009 02:39:03 +0000
nice post...alka
  Commented by  SB DIKSHIT, STATE QUALITY MONITOR, U.P.R.R.D.A    | 11 20 2009 00:04:51 +0000
Its a beautiful dance in rain ,read it got wet in such anice circumstance.
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