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By : Manoj Kumar, Sr: Manager - QA, ARCHETYPE GROUP, INDIA
Industry : Cement Functional Area : Quality Management
Activity:  8 comments  346 views  last activity : 06 09 2012 04:11:59 +0000
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Hai Shrikant Manohar,

You made my day today. When I opened my mail box on which notifications from Toostep are coming I was delighted to see your mail inviting me back to Toostep. I am happy that you remembered me. Thanks.

I agree…it is a long time that I came to toostep. So many reasons, but one reason is that the some where in between the life of too step had lost I feel some meaningless debate, fighting between members etc. May be I am wrong. If so sorry.

I know I was missing not only Toostep, but so many of my good friends too. Rathin Deb, Mohammed Baksh, Natteraja, Dr. Ali, Nitin, Ajay ziz, Naushad, You and so many others too. My regards to all.

So back with an article.

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and a four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together nightly at the dinner table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating rather difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass often milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.

"We must do something about grandfather," said the son. I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor. So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner at the dinner table. Since grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. Sometimes when the family glanced in grandfather's direction, he had a tear in his eye as he ate alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old watched it all in silence.

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?" Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and mama to eat your food from when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back to work. The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the husband took grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.

For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.

Children are remarkably perceptive. Their eyes ever observe, their ears ever listen, and their minds ever process the messages they absorb. If they see us patiently provide a happy home atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that attitude for the rest of their lives. The wise parent realizes that every day that building blocks are being laid for the child's future

 
8 comments on "THE WOODEN BOWL"
  Commented by  Manoj Kumar, Sr: Manager - QA, ARCHETYPE GROUP, INDIA    | 06 09 2012 04:11:59 +0000
Thanks for the comments my friends....

First of all I wanted to tell you that all my postings are from my collections...and I am not at all an intellectual to write those type of things...

Second, from the number of comments it is almost sure that so many active members were already taken voluntury retirement from  toostep due to the loss of standard or quality. It is really something makes dissappointment...

Why cant moderators cant take some action to bring it to the old standard. Any how let us hope that some day Toostep will get into its old glory...

Regards to all....
  Commented by  Mohammad Bakhsh, Project Leader/Managing Consultant, Freelancer    | 06 03 2012 10:48:10 +0000
Thanks ,Mr Manoj for penning a soul searching article.Before I react to article,it is my humble request that any one at the fag end of life may face such unpleasant situation.So be prepared and develop an independent charactor where you have hardly to be dependent on your sons and daughters.I come around now to the core of the article.
Here the grand father was lucky,he found a farishta in his grand son. But not all are lucky.Way back in seventy, I happen to meet one of my friend's relation. He had three sons.One Doctor,one in RBI and one a businessman.Whenever,I visited him ,he was alone and was miising some thing which he wanted to share with me.One day he asked me about my family expansion.I told him I have two daughters.The difference in age was 15 years.He was surprised I had no son.I told him that Chaurasia sahab,there is no difference between sons and daughters in todays world. The daughters are more attached to parents. Secondly, we should not have too much expectations of our chidren.He literary wept and revealed that ,had I met him about 10 years hence, he would have saved for rainy days.
The life is like that shows goes on and feeble ones are left behind.
  Commented by  Priya Varadan, Independent consultant, Self employed    | 06 02 2012 15:46:27 +0000
thanks Manoj... you & Mr. Aras r right, too step got too boring so I stopped logging on.. . hope to see some interesting write ups from u , Mr Aras et el.
  Commented by  SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE, Project Manager, Phadnis Infrastructur Ltd    | 06 02 2012 05:20:48 +0000
Good to see you back on Toostep. & thanks for the sharing.
& whatever stated by you is right for debates & discussions really gone below the average level, but it doesn't matter.
We can change this situation with our positive attitude.
So, keep in touch with Toostep, as we missed a friend like you a lot & also no of fellow members like Muralidharnji, Murthy Sir, JOYDEEP, & so many  ..............
     So friends, let us start it again.
  Commented by  manish kumar, SEO | Web-cms Developer | FreeTips-- shoot me an email | Mobile SEO | Do more than Just !    | 06 01 2012 09:29:04 +0000
Good one :) :) cheers
  Commented by  Srinivas suravajhala, Asst. Manager.    | 06 01 2012 08:56:27 +0000
Very nice Mr. Manoj. I happened to see the article somewhere else. Anyway thank you very much for the article. I welcome you back to the forum. During the last quarter of 2011, the debates here gone personal. Later on things improved a little bit. But, many of the members like you lost their interest in debating  and rarely paying a visit here, so literally there are no useful debates now going on. I request you and all other fellow members who left the forum to come back and bring the charm back.
  Commented by  Nitin M Aras, Head/VP/GM-Tech. Support, ODTIN Food Solutions Pvt Ltd    | 06 01 2012 08:21:36 +0000
Hey Manoj... thanks for remembering me... m also missing my friends of toostep specially YOU.... I also did find that toostep had lost its charm.... got your post on my mail and I found that it is written by you... hence visited toostep after a long time... with regards.
  Commented by  swarnima kashyap, M.E/M.Tech/MS student, amity institute of nanotecnology    | 06 01 2012 07:15:52 +0000
first of  alll welcome back to toostep ..i really missed the articles from u ...nd next the artcle is excellent ."CHILD IS THE FATHER OF MAN " hence proved .. 
welcome back ... waitn to hear more ..
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