Verbal abuse : Is the graph shooting

Thanks Gargi for this referral. In fact,I myself is the victim of this filthy practice. I understand that i lose respect to the young and other citizens. But I promise that i'll give up.  

the most used word nowdays is....starts from 'F'...even women in INDIA using nowdays....where r we heading??????

tody's environment espcly created by young guns has made such a bad scene in people daily routine life that we are not able to move in public places and create very shameful situation various times. if such things will happen regularly then where shall we go to have a natural breathe. gargi ur right. 

the most used word nowdays is....starts from 'F'...even women in INDIA using nowdays....where r we heading??????

99.9% it came from West!!! you will hardly find a single English movie without such un ethical lines.....and the funny part is ...its appreciated now-days!

This becomes the trend in the colleges, schools, market. they can't make out the difference which is correct for them, if somebody tells to change wording or way of talking they say it's a trend but they not realise the future results but just aware them of the results in your area.

This is one type of frustration we can say, people vomiting everywhere and one would have to tolerate this. Now a days It becomes trend. It is spread everywhere wheather it is school going children, teenager or senior citizen. Wheather it is village or metros. People use such type of words in their own language which has no meaning. In movie and reality show, these words are being used very comany and it has deep impact on childrens and teenagers mind. No body knows history behind who and why he discovered this words. One can devlop healthy cultural atmosphere around OR the best ways as Mahatma Gandhi said. Bura Mat Dekho, Bura Mat Bolo, Bura Mat Suno....

This becomes the trend in the colleges, schools, market. they can't make out the difference which is correct for them, if somebody tells to change wording or way of talking they say it's a trend but they not realise the future results but just aware them of the results in your area.

Obviously, Gargi, verbal abuses among the youngsters, especially in schools and colleges are on the rise.  They take these as part of their colloquialism, many of them utter these abuses even not knowing the meaning in logical sense! Its sad!  

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

This becomes the trend in the colleges, schools, market. they can't make out the difference which is correct for them, if somebody tells to change wording or way of talking they say it's a trend but they not realise the future results but just aware them of the results in your area.

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

it,s our lookout.iunderstand,Let them be free in expression.They will improve gradually and become particular on their comment in time.

This becomes the trend in the colleges, schools, market. they can't make out the difference which is correct for them, if somebody tells to change wording or way of talking they say it's a trend but they not realise the future results but just aware them of the results in your area.

This becomes the trend in the colleges, schools, market. they can't make out the difference which is correct for them, if somebody tells to change wording or way of talking they say it's a trend but they not realise the future results but just aware them of the results in your area.

This becomes the trend in the colleges, schools, market. they can't make out the difference which is correct for them, if somebody tells to change wording or way of talking they say it's a trend but they not realise the future results but just aware them of the results in your area.

Mindful Idea!!! Well, to start with, this is just not good to use any UN-parliamentary words. As far as the bike is concerned it is a object how does that matter what you speak. We should not spoil our values by abusing. You are right that moment bike needed was a mechanic and nothing else. I agree that must be a frustration but, will that frustration solve the problem. Rather it will certainly delay upcoming schedule. I personally believe city does not matter, there are gazillions of people from metro does everyone abuse..."NO WAYS". People think it's a trend but who follow this as a trend then they surely are not aware what trend means. As far as education is concerned education brings simple living and high thinking....People now a days think they have all the rights to do anything and everything. I would only say money doesn't bring class, Standard is something which we have to develop by not being loud with words but with our attitude. 

Mindful Idea!!! Well, to start with, this is just not good to use any UN-parliamentary words. As far as the bike is concerned it is a object how does that matter what you speak. We should not spoil our values by abusing. You are right that moment bike needed was a mechanic and nothing else. I agree that must be a frustration but, will that frustration solve the problem. Rather it will certainly delay upcoming schedule. I personally believe city does not matter, there are gazillions of people from metro does everyone abuse..."NO WAYS". People think it's a trend but who follow this as a trend then they surely are not aware what trend means. As far as education is concerned education brings simple living and high thinking....People now a days think they have all the rights to do anything and everything. I would only say money doesn't bring class, Standard is something which we have to develop by not being loud with words but with our attitude. 

-Priyanka :-)

Mindful Idea!!! Well, to start with, this is just not good to use any UN-parliamentary words. As far as the bike is concerned it is a object how does that matter what you speak. We should not spoil our values by abusing. You are right that moment bike needed was a mechanic and nothing else. I agree that must be a frustration but, will that frustration solve the problem. Rather it will certainly delay upcoming schedule. I personally believe city does not matter, there are gazillions of people from metro does everyone abuse..."NO WAYS". People think it's a trend but who follow this as a trend then they surely are not aware what trend means. As far as education is concerned education brings simple living and high thinking....People now a days think they have all the rights to do anything and everything. I would only say money doesn't bring class, Standard is something which we have to develop by not being loud with words but with our attitude. 

-Priyanka :-)

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

This is one type of frustration we can say, people vomiting everywhere and one would have to tolerate this. Now a days It becomes trend. It is spread everywhere wheather it is school going children, teenager or senior citizen. Wheather it is village or metros. People use such type of words in their own language which has no meaning. In movie and reality show, these words are being used very comany and it has deep impact on childrens and teenagers mind. No body knows history behind who and why he discovered this words. One can devlop healthy cultural atmosphere around OR the best ways as Mahatma Gandhi said. Bura Mat Dekho, Bura Mat Bolo, Bura Mat Suno....

This is one type of frustration we can say, people vomiting everywhere and one would have to tolerate this. Now a days It becomes trend. It is spread everywhere wheather it is school going children, teenager or senior citizen. Wheather it is village or metros. People use such type of words in their own language which has no meaning. In movie and reality show, these words are being used very comany and it has deep impact on childrens and teenagers mind. No body knows history behind who and why he discovered this words. One can devlop healthy cultural atmosphere around OR the best ways as Mahatma Gandhi said. Bura Mat Dekho, Bura Mat Bolo, Bura Mat Suno....

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, these utterances have become part of colloquialism!  Many of the youngsters they use these abusive languages are unaware of their real meaning in logical sense!   

Obviously, Gargi, verbal abuses among the youngsters, especially in schools and colleges are on the rise.  They take these as part of their colloquialism, many of them utter these abuses even not knowing the meaning in logical sense! Its sad!  

Thanks for referral Ms. Garhi
"Charity starts at Home" is an adage. Most of such unpalatable things, we do hear in common place. May be its' all new to you & I . But, it is used very widely, irrespective of people around them. We need to instruct the wards to restrain from such usages. Using abusive language is not manly as many thinks so. Mental burst, at time drives one to shed out such abusive slangs but , at-least, we need to take care of people immediately around you. Yes swearing is on the increase. We need to reduce it while working either at Corporate / Govt / Pvt level.

Also, Gargi, I kind of agree with what Mr. Raju said - you yourself were expressing frustration. 

And here comes the crux: The method of dealing with stress/frustration/anger varies from person to person. Some people, because of perceived constraints, bottle up these feelings. 

Others let off steam. This has proven more beneficial to manage stress levels, thus tremendously increasing the rate of recovery of mood. It is recommended to use a punching bag for letting off steam - just don't use a human punching bag, either physically OR VERBALLY.

I have seen a lot of people who do not use swear words. They can really insult a person with normal words - they don't really need swear words. What is the difference? The listener's ego is hurt anyway!

using filthy words during swearing is common nowdays not only in cosmopolition cities..but also equally transmitting in villages....i dont know where these words originate but these have been part of everdaylanguage.......even these words are supported by :BHAI: characters in many film... its wrong but i guess theres no option but to habituated with these words and concentrate on your business......

Thanx for the referral, Gargi.  

Though, I don't see the problem with swearing. I do, however, see a problem with swearing AT SOMEONE - that's downright bad.   

Swearing - in general and at no one in particular - especially when frustrated, is a wonderful thing for releasing pent-up stress. 

For any person who hears such swears words, there is absolutely no need to worry because they are not really aimed at anyone.   

Also, many times, some people (such as I) sometimes swear at themselves for having done something particularly (and sometimes spectacularly) stupid. :D

Guess it has become a part of our vocabulary.  Even yours, Gargi.  You also used the phrase 'Why on earth ....'?  It is also considered a verbal abuse by some.  (I am only joking.  I know you are only showing your frustration).

It is only due to duplication of western countries, where young generation have their own dictionary for some particular words, so to ignore it is the best solution.
Thanks for referral, Gargi.

Thanks,Gargi for referral.The social leanings, of late have gone sea change. Gen Y use swear to smoke out their helplessness in dealing with precarious situation.Such a situation set them up to enjoy movie like "Dehli belly' and Amir Khan like persona are their to en-cash the environs.

Some people think, vomiting out frustrations, filthy language is required. These people if do not express their anger in their own way, they become sick...!! No one has control on one's natural reaction...! If you try to show them a good way as a true Gandhian, may be few will accept. The anger management can't be practiced by all. It's an art.

This is lack of eduacation in morale science. Now a days with an educational degree people will learn "who was Akbar or Ashoka", or "where is Pacific Ocean". But where shall we find the real eduacations like honesty, respect and love for others, good thoughts, etc etc 

YOU ARE RIGHT... BUT
Thats the trend, specially amongst those who are not comfortable with good language as such. Have u marked... People who have just started a language, e.g. English, they start by the CUSS words or SWEARING, which in Hindi means a Gaali. Within the youth & new generation it has been picked up as STYLE... There is mostly no meaning behind it, at times it is spoken to VENT ANGER.
LIFE at large is so stressed that this kind of FOUL VOCABULARY has taken precedence & it is really spreading like an epidemic in the society at large.

Or should we say this has become the culture particularly in Metros of our country.

Yes Gargi,
its becoming an unfortunate trend amongst all to use swear words ,guess the highly stressed life in metros and lack of elderly supervision is resulting in this muck .Even the cinema is doind its too bit by pouring oils into raging fires .School children think its inthing to talk bad words they use it as their local lingo,where do we end this no clue ,its not easy to say look other way and move on cause we owe it to our future generations ,all we can do is request parents nad school authorities but mostly mega starlwart of cinema too put halt to this ninsense after all tommorow they too are going to face their kids  do they want this words in their mouth being used on them ,Is Amir ,salman ,and rest of fily brigade listening or have you and i  become endangered species(no tribe of our own to agree) as alls well with others 

It is certainly not a nice thing to use such a language for no apparent reason, just bike is down or missed a bus. What I feel it is case of limited vocabulary or apathy to use the correct language 

This is merely a sign of the times ; in places like Delhi , the problem of road rage is so severe that even blowing your horn is to be done only after some thought.

People have become so accustomed to showing their emotions ; witness the scenes we see on most of the reality shows , where shouting , abusing , and even physical violence is all accepted as par for the course.

If TV mirrors society , then what you are talking about is absolutely normal ! Sad , but that is life nowadays.

Swearing is the 'in' thing today - look at the movies, the reality and talk shows. It forces the teenagers to use it to be in the contemporary society / match peer level maturity. 
If there is any solution to that - its from his family who should provide the time, atmosphere, the sense of self-identity without going for indulgence as a bribery for unable to afford time to their kids.

It is a dirty trend peaking up. But the Sad part of it is even the school going children are using it without even knowing what it means. I have just finished my student life and have seen many guys like this, doing just for the sake off to show that they are bad and strong. Children might be picking this attitude from students community but its the Cine field and some unmannerly elders who are responsible in bring out such things to those communities.

Thoughtful ideas
But metros like Delhi,Mumbai have no time for these at all.
One may be dying but if you help you may be put to problem.
So ignore such things as you can see you were diverted from your goal.
Moreover you have not been given the privilege to improve others.
Let them be happy and a sincere suggestion let others do what they like, it may democracy but also distrubs you a lot, choice is yours.