Asked by : Tanima , First Medical Services Pvt. Ltd.
Activity: Question posted: 10 22 2011 04:18:03 +0000, 9 answers, 950 views, last activity 10 24 2011 13:01:05 +0000
What is the difference between these two words, or are they the same?
Indeed, there is a big difference between these two words. One spells success and the other failure
I got this quote from someone.
He says “If you limit your choices only to what seem possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want and all that is left is a compromise.”
Compromise is about lowering our demands and expectations on people or the things we want. I other words to make adjustments with our original expectations for the sake of gaining something we become willing to lose something else. It gives a win/lose solution to life’s issues.
But if we want a Win/Win we need to SACRIFICE (strange as it sounds)
Since sacrifice is about giving up something. (In addition, it can be utilized in order to get something even bigger).
Answer this…. “What are you willing to GIVE UP in order to have the life you want?” In other words, what are you willing to SACRIFICE so you can have what you want most in your life?
Ask anyone who has “made good” in life and they will tell you of the things they had to give up in order to “get there”. In their account, you will also hear of the “this and that” of what they had to do, or in short, the sacrifices they had to put up with as well.
So this is true for everything we dearly want, be it a financial or career goal, making a relationship work or following your heart. All of these things require sacrifice and not compromise. If you are serious about having something different in your life you have to be in it 100%: anything else is a compromise and you will most likely suffer through the whole ordeal before giving up.
In my reckoning the first question you need to answer is this question: “Is my heart in this?” If the answer is “NO” then it’s game over. Be kind to yourself and save yourself a load of unnecessary struggle and grief by finding something else you are passionate about and then be willing to give up anything to get it.
Compromise only goes half way and that never makes one get 100% out of life. Sacrifice follows the principle of all or nothing and goes all the way. Only 100% gives you 100% in return.
To compromise is to make a deal where one person gives up part of his or her demand. In arguments, compromise is a concept of finding agreement through communication, through a mutual acceptance of terms—often involving variations from an original goal or desire. Extremism is often considered as antonym to compromise, which, depending on context, may be associated with concepts of balance, tolerance. In the negative connotation, compromise may be referred to as capitulation, referring to a "surrender" of objectives, principles, or material, in the process of negotiating an agreement. In human relationships "compromise" is frequently said to be an agreement that no party is happy with, this is because the parties involved often feel that they either gave away too much or that they received too little.
The common understanding of sacrifice involves giving up one’s entire self for a "greater" cause, living in pain and discomfort to "prove" something to others, and even killing a creature, either animal or human, in order to appease an angry god.
A good question Tanimaji.
Certainly they are not one and the same. The definition of compromise is "an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions". Here the person who dont have other option except to go along with the tide having his/her limitations of strength, courage to fight against etc.
Sacrifice on the other hand means " giving up something you value in exchange for something you don't value, or for no reason at all". This is the selfless act, the abdication of your own interests in favour of the interests of someone.
In compromise you have some interest and you want to protect that interest. However, when the situation is not in your favour you have to go along with the tide some times against your will. In sacrifice you are ready to lose your interest for the sake of protecting someother's interest. Am I correct?