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Question posted: 03 30 2009 08:47:15 +0000,
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07 06 2010 20:18:08 +0000
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Which will be better Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage..... for long time only arranged will be successfull but most of people says only Love marriage can be successfull. So guys and gals please start share your views on this.
No matter what type of marriage it is, but there should be love in marriage. Most of the things depends on the matching of chemistry between two like nature, behaviour, temperament, priorities and like & dislikes of the couple.
Do not think that long-lasting marriages are successful. I feel that most of the non-daring persons opt arranged marriage, and they do not dare to break-up even in worst condition.
It is really a time of transformation of one kind of marriage to another. If it is a love marriage convincing elders, kiths & kins, convert it to an arranged marriage. If it is an arranged marriage transform it to a love marriage infusing lot of trust, love & confidence. Remeber, Marriage is an institution & not limited to spouse only. Marriage can be defined as bonding of two families through partnership of two members,each from a family (of different sex) which is duelu endorsed by kith, kin,frainds,relatives & society. After such bonding relation, the partenership must continue long trusting each other, greeting each other & ofcourse loving each other. Maintaining a marriage is much more important than marrying itself.
It is not the question of arranged or love...If going for arranged, one has to love the other for a happy life. on the other hand if it is love marriage, for better future, one has to take the blessings of elders, where it comes back to arranged. Finally ADJUSTMENTS AND UNDERSTANDING between two known or unknown human beings is what matters....With my personal experience can say, iam leading a happy arranged marriage life and making it better by ADJUSTING with my husband and loving my son..........Its so simple....
A knowledgeable wife and a considerate husband would make an ideal pair.
You can start loving your 'would be' after proposal/engagement and get the thrill of 'love marriage'.
So. love marriages and arranged marriages dont make much differences. Note that the 'Marriages' need to be arranged in both the cases. One gets certified legally & the other viewed in public.
MARRIAGE few tell its commitment ,other few its understanding and others its bond of both. In modern style an MOU signed between 2 familes or couples...Relax ... Again comes 2 types arranged & love .Arranged which is decreasing day by day by the youth preference. LOVE the word which raises the spirit of youth today. Parents feel their children should settle well and hence marry a person with culture similar to their expectations. Few parents support the generation and allow thier children to go as per their generation and happiness. I dont think in arranged marraige there is no love before marraige. Long duration phone calls , instant meetings with/without anyones notice also happens in arr marriage. Nowadays arranged marraiges are like love marraiges but wit with less time for love.
Whatever there are still problems like DOWRY harrasment by husband , in laws and couples dividing after marraige immediately in both love/arrainge marraige and everyone has to think about all these before getting commited .
As many have already said i want to tell the same ......... good understanding is all that is needed..... and live happy life!!
I would say it all depende on the compatibilty and understanding between the partners involved.we cannot generalize based on one or two cases that a particular type of marriage whether arranged or love marriage is ideal....any type of marriage can be successful if there is understanding and love between the partners.
better understanding is only one way of successful marriage
it's just classification of marriage for world (arrange or love...)
actually it's depend on
1)human nature
2)understanding
if they understand to each other...then their marriage will success....
SO TRY TO UNDERSTAND YOUR LIFE-PARTNER BE HAPPY WITH HIM/HER AND ENJOY YOUR MARRIED LIFE
In today's world where almost everything is guided by market value and professional success is the biggest decision making parameter, the paradigm has changed completely. There is no rationale in debating love vs arranged marriage, rather we can categorize marriages as arranged by parents or arranged by self. The success of a marriage does not depend on how you get married, it depends on how you live your married life. Every marriage is a fairy tale but whether the couple lives happily ever after --- that depends entirely on them and their families.
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