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Follow the wife? A good career move for a man....

Tags : Marriage & Career Change, Woman career change, Men changing career after marriage, woman changing career, Woman changing career after marriage.
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Functional Area : Marriages, Career Change
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Marriage changes everything. Especially careers , as most women know too well. Far better than men. For example, an IT professional in Bangalore, knew that marrying a  Ahmedabad dentist, might be a career-ruining decision. The couple might have lived in different cities after the wedding in order to pursue their careers, but the wife was not comfortable with the idea. Luckily, the partner who had to change cities, was not the wife.


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Many men, who moved to Bangalore to be with their wife's, are the exception, not the rule. Most women are not that fortunate. Thousands of women unquestioningly give up their careers to be with their husbands.

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SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE  |  Argues in support of  "No"  |  1 year ago
Discussion with her is good , but final decision should be yours.
T.Ramakrishnan  |  Argues in support of  "Yes"  |  1 year ago
if a person is misogynist he wont love his wife and even his mother too.so be a Philanthropist and realise the woman's nature .Women The great
Nikhil Jain  |  Argues in support of  "No"  |  2 years ago
It is not a hard fast rule to follow one's wife. It is totally a mutual understanding both husband wife should agree to the same point, both of them should see where they can achieve their goals including personal goals. While everyone knows that...
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SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE  |  Argues in support of  "Yes"  |  1 year ago
It is the mantra of today's fast life to achieve success.
Abhishek Gupta  |  Argues in support of  "No"  |  2 years ago
I fully support Domenico,  Its max with Indians and ASIANS, but in EU AND ANZ. Its opposite case, these people gave lot IMPORTANCE ON RELATIONS AND PERSONAL LIFE.
Santosh Sinha  |  Argues in support of  "No"  |  2 years ago
I think these people forget, why and for whom they are making careers? For self or for family. If you are are doing it for self then do not get into the married life and if u r doing it for family then why breaking up with him. Try to convince...
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1 Give importance to personnel life as serious as that of professional life
2 Co-ordination b/w Work & Perosnal Life
SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE  |  Supported idea  "Give importance to personnel life as serious as that of professional life"  |  1 year ago
Yes, you are right Manoj. Family life is equally important to work, as we are doing /earning for our family. A proer space/time should be given to all family members from your busy schedule.Just spend 1 hour with your kid without doing anything...
Otuya Okecha  |  Added idea  "Re:"  |  2 years ago
This is a very important topic that should be taken seriously by policy makers and those in  charge of the Labour and Productivity sectors of any nation. We must all realise that without life there is no existence and without family there is no...
Sreemoyee Banerjee  |  Supported idea  "Give importance to personnel life as serious as that of professional life"  |  2 years ago
Yes, most of us take our family as granted and start thinking what ever we r doing its all for our family, thus they will be always with us. This is not right actually; we need to give attention to our family, to have a better bonding btwn the...
 
 
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anuragini raj sinha  |  Argues in support of  "Yes"  |  1 year ago
YES ITS MANDATORY TO STUDY MBA , BECOZ U NEED TO HV SUBJECTIVE AS WELL AS PRACTICAL KNOWLEDGE &" TO NURTURE YOURSELF THIS WILL BE THE BEST OPTION"
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marriage in the same gotra should be banned  
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 marriage in the same gotra should be allowed
SHRIKANT MANOHAR DANKE  |  Argues in support of  "marriage in the same gotra should be banned "  |  1 year ago
Yes. It may creates some genetic problems.
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