difference between male and female sexuality

dear friends there were many researches till today have being done on sex and sexuality and indeed a lot of results have come .But the one to be quoated is of masters and jhonsons who have done a significant contribution in this field based on their reserch work and some of our indian doctors, sexoloigst work i have come across some crusial points regarding male and female sexulaity and like to share with you all

leaving the sex act apart and procede their is increased difference in both male and female sexuality that can be utilised to solve female desire disfunctons even male marital doschords and many more interpersonal conflicts.lets first analise male sexuality

broadly its expresed in four areas like

• social
• mental/psychological
• sexual
• physical

each dimention has limited time period ,with more space for sexual dimentions ,that is suppported by physical and later mental dimensions with social at far distence.so a man's imagination on first sighting a female is wheather she could satisfy his sexual needs ,then he concentrates on her physical factors like figure structure and if got convinced then proceed towards mental and interpersonal relationship .to be specific first behind her ,then near to her,then close to her finally into her.but we should bear in mind that copulation and sex is the prime motive .when he has to accept her socialy then he things about her status education,characted, adjustability etc.so he can though maintain extramarital affair with any girl but chooses standered girl as his wife and also if permits maintains his "love" seperatly.sex is not love for male as he ses both things differntly ie he 'loves"only his wife but can even have sex with prostitutes or stranger as in one night stand.

NOw in female sxuality things are same but the above said dimentions anr concentric ie each within each with social being outermost,sorrunding mental ,deep to it is physical and inner core is sexual

so a female in first meeting with a male sees his social background ,stautus,income,his interactions with others etc and searches in him if he has got potential to live with her ,only when she gets conveinced she allows him towards her mental perimeter and tries to tune with him.She sees wheather both of their frequencies matches ,thier interests,should match male should feel comfort by releasing his emotional feeling with her,can he understands her,then he can enter her physical perimeter by holding hands ,sitting together,hugging,kissing which she responds well .if the limit is crossed and trigers her sexual desire then only he can enter into her sexual dimentions and can have sex with her . if there is any lacunas left in all this then she cannot enjoy sexual climax /orgasms.

so a lot problems can be solved based on this grounds and males even females ccan understand each other better